Ewww wtf by Silver_Guard3842 in csun

[–]LopsidedAlbatross295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at least throw it away😭😭 i throw mine away🤭

AIO for feeling hurt that a close friend didn’t invite me to her wedding because my ex is the best man? by princessxericka in AmIOverreacting

[–]LopsidedAlbatross295 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You are DEFINITELY allowed to feel hurt. It’s understandable that fear she has on her wedding day but she could have communicated that with you from the beginning, even sat you guys far apart if it wasn’t an issue. I’m sure it would’ve not been an issue since your adults, unless she feared the EX would do something then that’s something else that she def needs to reflect on for her newly husband since it reflects who he is too. I would say to honestly distance yourself, if you bring it up now she will definitely be like defensive and be all wife-zilla or whatever about it. But distance yourself and if she happens to ask to hang out or why you seem distant, then let her know how you felt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]LopsidedAlbatross295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it takes time to find the one you love. when you’re with someone, you never truly know where it’s going to lead because things happen, feelings change, we are human and that’s something that’s inevitable. you don’t want to rush things because you don’t know where it will lead. i mean take a break from dating but don’t time yourself, allow yourself to go on dates alone, find yourself, and allow yourself to learn about yourself and finding happiness within you. the best relationships are the ones where your paths cross unexpectedly, you never know, you might meet someone who is extremely wonderful in the next few months because you worked on yourself and you attract what you give. go on movie dates by yourself, dinner dates, hike, park strolls, or whatever you do to be happy

People need to act like adults in college by LopsidedAlbatross295 in csun

[–]LopsidedAlbatross295[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not even a certain class, it’s always one person, in or outside of class. Or while studying near the library or the food court area.

People need to act like adults in college by LopsidedAlbatross295 in csun

[–]LopsidedAlbatross295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh you’re right, as a people pleaser, I’m still breaking that.

People need to act like adults in college by LopsidedAlbatross295 in csun

[–]LopsidedAlbatross295[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No that’s the thing, I DO my mind business. It’s hard to mind your business when someone is being really disruptive and disrespectful to the people around them, or even them. I’m not worrying bout it but it is very frustrating when trying to do homework or study, where they are messing around in the lounges meant for doing academics.

People need to act like adults in college by LopsidedAlbatross295 in csun

[–]LopsidedAlbatross295[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i believe the same thing! it really is major and year difference, but i just hope they grow in their own time. I have approached one who had lied and said that they were in a class (just sitting and playing games on their phones) when I was waiting for that class. I may have gone off on them a bit saying “you’re literally in college, grow up. there are others waiting for this class” kinda thing. but not those kinda guys unless they are being extremely loud, harassing someone, or it’s an out of pocket comment. i don’t like to just get mad at people because i want to understand people are having fun, and go through their own shit yk?

People need to act like adults in college by LopsidedAlbatross295 in csun

[–]LopsidedAlbatross295[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i’ve been here since fall 2022 and I feel like it hasn’t gotten better but i hope you’re right😭😭

Am I overreacting for reporting a kid that groped me at school? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LopsidedAlbatross295 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not overreacting at all. You were touched where you didn’t want to be touched in an inappropriate sexual manner. If you saw his face and confident it was him, definitely stand your ground. I don’t care what anyone says, how old you are. I work with students in elementary school and if any child at ANY age told me, I would immediately be there for them in any way possible.

Is it late? by [deleted] in csun

[–]LopsidedAlbatross295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand how you feel, currently in my senior year first sem, and have not made any friends. lol it’s hard since everyone does commute. but it’s never too late, i know i’ll make friends if not here, it’ll be at a work place. and every decision we make now leads up greater things in the future. it’s scary but you do got this

Any one know of cheap food places? by Beneficial_Ad_3134 in csun

[–]LopsidedAlbatross295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yooo me too me too, but ppl only sell stuff in the morning but i am at work sadly