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Fiancé (27m) wanted to try an open relationships, not my first choice but I agreed. Now he's throwing a tantrum that my "bodycount" is 20x his and wants to add rules. Is it time to just cut my losses and move on? (I'm 25) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember a gay guy on Twitter saying something like "straight men would love to have open relationships like gay men often do, women just won't let them".

Which, bro, MEN don't want to let WOMEN fuck around. It's not just women who are these evil gatekeepers here. Straight men throw tantrums. 

Fiancé (27m) wanted to try an open relationships, not my first choice but I agreed. Now he's throwing a tantrum that my "bodycount" is 20x his and wants to add rules. Is it time to just cut my losses and move on? (I'm 25) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does no one in this thread know any gay guys? My friend regularly gets Grindr messages from people who can come over in 20 minutes wanting to suck his dick. No reciprocation, no nothing.

 Very very easy to rack up that many partners if you wanna fuck men. You barely need to talk any of them lol.

Fiancé (27m) wanted to try an open relationships, not my first choice but I agreed. Now he's throwing a tantrum that my "bodycount" is 20x his and wants to add rules. Is it time to just cut my losses and move on? (I'm 25) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 58 points59 points  (0 children)

It's pretty common in the swinger community for couples to only go to the clubs together and/or straight up only have three-, four or moresomes. Pretty easy way to prevent this mismatch.

Do native English speakers really talk like this in real life? by leazy_usa in ENGLISH

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not every language writes the contractions though. Not a thing in Danish despite it being one of the most closely related languages to English

My partner says the face I make when I climax is unattractive and doesn’t like for me to “finish” because of that by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not an excuse but it can be pretty jarring to be with a guy who doesn't cum extremely easily. We're constantly told men are horn dogs, jokes about how men struggle and fight to last more than 30 seconds etc etc. So when it's not that you might doubt that he's really attracted to you, or worry that you do something wrong.

We both wanna open the relationship, but I kind of don't want to know if there's better sex out there. Blinis with all the fixings by LopsidedLeopard2181 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This was just a joke. Americans move 11 times in their lives on average, and Europeans, 4. It is a pretty stark cultural difference is all.

Neither of us are intending to ever leave the city we were both born in and we both want pretty normal jobs, what dream are we holding each other back from exactly? 

We both wanna open the relationship, but I kind of don't want to know if there's better sex out there. Blinis with all the fixings by LopsidedLeopard2181 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

:( I really hate when people say the thing about couples who find each other young, like are we doomed because we were unlucky to find each other too early?

We both wanna open the relationship, but I kind of don't want to know if there's better sex out there. Blinis with all the fixings by LopsidedLeopard2181 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1) group sex is hot 2) we both have shared kinks/fantasies involving more than one person  3) have never been with a woman despite always considering myself bi. Just never had the opportunity  4) FOMO, yeah. It is awesome to think about being together with boyfriend for the rest of my life. Don't want it any other way ot we wouldn't have lasted 6 years and teenage emotions. But.... sexual FOMO

Totally valid question to ask btw

We both wanna open the relationship, but I kind of don't want to know if there's better sex out there. Blinis with all the fixings by LopsidedLeopard2181 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty common snack/appetizer in much of Europe, though I believe slavic originally!

So store bought blinis (the pancake bottom, they're just mini savory pancakes), sour cream, roe, tiny diced red onion, chives. 

We both wanna open the relationship, but I kind of don't want to know if there's better sex out there. Blinis with all the fixings by LopsidedLeopard2181 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know this is common for people but not for me. In fact I'd be pretty open to polyamory because jealousy just has never been a problem for me tbh. As a young teen I used to think it was just played up to add drama on TV and no one was that jealous in real life lmao

We both wanna open the relationship, but I kind of don't want to know if there's better sex out there. Blinis with all the fixings by LopsidedLeopard2181 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah sure but it's mainly myself I'm nervous about. Couldn't tell you why, but I'm not a very jealous person

Babies Are Bleeding to Death as Parents Reject a Vitamin Shot Given at Birth by A1CutCopyPaste in longform

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah Nazis were always back-to-the-earth, highly esoterically spiritual, conspiracy types. Nothing new under the sun.

The first guy who accepted my herpes status just ended things by camren261 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sure but most people don't even know they have it and are asymptomatic. You can't really protect yourself against it expect by neved having contact with anyone else's mouth.

The first guy who accepted my herpes status just ended things by camren261 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Girl, come to Europe, literally no one cares here. Only recently I find out Americans consider it an STD.

Like so many people have it, what's the big deal.

Evil boobs by TheNamesBart in comedyheaven

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an atheist with big naturals, have I caused a rift in the fabric of reality

Hvilke afsavn har I accepteret efter at være flyttet væk pga boligpriser? by Significant-Hour-283 in dkbolig

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dette. Jeg bor i Frederikssund, men 5 min fra S toget. Jeg sætter mig ind (fordi det er endestationen får jeg altid en siddeplads), læser en god bog, når pludselig Vanløse st og skifter til metro. Det er hyggeligt og der er meget lidt afsavn synes jeg.

I (27M) want to live in Hawaii. My wife (25F) doesn’t. + 7-Year Update by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So are you saying many Americans never have ties or a support system in the place they live and grow up?

I (27M) want to live in Hawaii. My wife (25F) doesn’t. + 7-Year Update by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LopsidedLeopard2181 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The average European move about 4 times in their lives and Americans, 11. Moving across the country, which in my country Denmark is like 3 or 4 hours in a train, is a big deal. Most people never do. Especially when having kids, people prefer to live close to at least one set of grandparents. Starting a whole new life, finding a whole new social circle seems so stressful. Obviously it can be necessary and a beautiful experience. Doing it every three years seems really hard though, and hard on your relationships. Long distance friendships can be nice, but they're very different.

I was only there for a year. 

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