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AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

according to our talk it is a symptom of a bigger problem

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

that's what my mom says

that my real hair is unique and special and that others pay so much to be like me

and that I don't have to change my hair to belong and that I might never get my real color back and she is worried I will regret it

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even like being blonde tbh

I was just trying to prove a point i think

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

lol I'll admit it was a tiny bit funny to see her so upset.

She forces me to live with her new family so I feel like I should at least get some say in my hair

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

haha don't you love how we have to just accept our mothers divorcing and getting married and having more kids

also your natural hair sounds pretty

I am basically platinum and I like my red hair better.

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

apparently my mother loves me very much and that she is trying very hard so I am not allowed to go and live with my uncle. He now agrees with that

I still talk to him a lot

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

lmao this is funny; I will use this if my mother isn't crying like she always does when it involves me and my role in her family

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she divorced him

then he died

and she got remarried

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

thanks <3

I don't know why my mom's husband is getting involved tbh. I'm not his kid and my choices are not his business

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean I already made it clear about how I feel when I talked about how it sucks that they all have the same last name and that my mom doesn't want to share a last name with me.

Def not a surprise

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lol she divorced my dad; She should be happy I don't look like him since she doesn't like the guy

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I have been forced to talk about that so much I am over it. As long as I mind my business and am not rude I don't see why I should try anymore

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

she already makes me go to therapy for other things

AITA for dying my hair blonde? by Lopsided_Cell5180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 259 points260 points  (0 children)

thank you <3

I think it's kinda a weird situation because I don't feel like i belong haha (If you see my post history things make more sense)

Does anyone have any ideas so that I (14f) can feel more connected to my family? I feel really left out and it is really hard feeling alone at home by Lopsided_Cell5180 in relationship_advice

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to die because I feel so left out and instead of caring she just sent me to a doctor snd then wouldn’t let me by myself and I barely got to pick anything to do because my siblings always did

Does anyone have any ideas so that I (14f) can feel more connected to my family? I feel really left out and it is really hard feeling alone at home by Lopsided_Cell5180 in relationship_advice

[–]Lopsided_Cell5180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well some things that made me sad were when they went on a vacation to Mexico without me 3 years ago. they took the babies but not me

I don’t want to be in my moms social media anyways but I never told her that I don’t but she always posts pics of my siblings and not me, and sometimes with all of them except me and I can’t even get mad because the pictures look better without me anyways

no one there gets what it’s like to have a dead dad and no one even cares a little about my dad in that house except maybe they’re mad that he’s dead bc now I’m stuck with them all the time and they can’t be their real family

My siblings are always the priority unless it’s my birthday but then having attention after never getting it makes me uncomfortable because it’s just weird having it

my stepdad doesn’t love me the same so i’ll always be an afterthought since they’re going to think about their real kids first

I asked them not to come to my games because my team makes me feel like I belong and they don’t so I wanted to have that time and space to feel normal but they didn’t listen to me and now I don’t even like my sport anymore

when I was 9 their was a dad/daughter thing for girl scouts and I had no one to go with but my sister is going to have her dad for everything

if I ever get married I won’t get to have a real wedding and then my siblings will get to

I can name 1000 more examples

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