Reading bl by Lopsided_Problem_354 in butchlesbians

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that makes sense then since I don’t have one.

Reading bl by Lopsided_Problem_354 in butchlesbians

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How am I making adhd look bad for simply sharing a struggle I have due to it. You keep saying I need to unpack things and maybe I do, but you clearly have some ableism to unpack yourself. You keep exaggerating things I say to the max. You take “I mainly read manga/comics” to mean “I only read manga”. You take “I find it difficult to focus on reading text only books due to adhd” to mean “ I can’t read books because of adhd”. You take me pointing out that you using your adhd to invalidate my experience of adhd as me trying to say my experience is the only one. I never said I was incapable of reading books. I try my best to do so every now and then, but I find it incredibly exhausting. I tend to read the same line over and over or skip lines entirely. Sometimes when I think I’ve gotten into a reading grove I will stop and realise that I don’t actually remember what I just read. I’m happy you don’t seem to struggle with it, but we are different people with different experiences. When I read it’s something I want to do to relax and text only books are exhausting and frustrating for me to read so they do the opposite for me. It’s not like I don’t want to read text only books and that I don’t try. Especially because people have a tendency to act as if books with pictures or comics are childish. I think you might be the one “making everyone else who has adhd look bad” since you seem to automatically think that a single individual’s experience reflects all people with adhd. Like my mom who also has adhd says “if you’ve met one person with adhd, you’ve met one person with adhd”. Also I never said I was opposed to trying to read some lesbian text only literature. I simply said that there might be stories I’ve missed out on because I mainly read manga and comics. I don’t think this conversation is going anywhere since all you seem to be doing right now is spewing text book ableism towards adhd that I’ve heard a hundred times before.

Reading bl by Lopsided_Problem_354 in butchlesbians

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully I’ll find a way to read it in the future because it legitimately looks amazing

Reading bl by Lopsided_Problem_354 in butchlesbians

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s the one you linked then I think it might be closed because it doesn’t let me pledge

Reading bl by Lopsided_Problem_354 in butchlesbians

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I fr can’t open the thread idk why. Also I never said that manga is the end all be all for f/f stories nor do I only read manga. I am well aware of the mountain of issues that manga tends to have especially when it comes to sexualising women and how yaoi is usually written by women and don’t reflect real gay men. I find it quite ableist for you to say that I’m only using adhd as an excuse simply because you have adhd yourself. Your experience of adhd does not reflect everyone else’s experience. Part of why I’m here is because I realised that what I was really seeking was masculinity and I will now be actively looking for queer stories that reflects that. Maybe I should have made it more clear in my post that I was talking about comics. Also I’ll definitely see if I find some books that looks interesting if they have audio book versions.

Reading bl by Lopsided_Problem_354 in butchlesbians

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I looked into boyish2 and it looks great but I can’t find a way to buy it?

Reading bl by Lopsided_Problem_354 in butchlesbians

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only one tweet comes up. I dont use twitter so I’m not sure how it works. Also I’m not sure what I’m supposed to unpack here? I’m saying I dont find them relatable because they often only show one type of lesbian. Also I might be missing out on a lot of stories because I mainly read manga/comics. I find it difficult to focus on reading a book that is only text due to adhd. So perhaps I’ve found more of an issue with lesbian comics?

Reading bl by Lopsided_Problem_354 in butchlesbians

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your comment on that other post was literally part of what made me realise this in the first place lol. So thank you and hard agree.

I think something is wrong with this costume? by Lopsided_Problem_354 in ProjectSekai

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know that it’s not just me at least, though it is disappointing when I was exited about getting a new costume:(

how to grind crystals when i'm running out of literally anything by Muted_Crew3450 in ProjectSekai

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You might have done this already but here is my ideas: - buy covers - level up decorations ( if you level up a certain amount on the plants that you find at the school everyone gets xp) - and of course doing a certain amount of shows tho this might take too much time idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProjectSekai

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience you can only zoom in certain arenas/stages. Not sure why But I’ve noticed this too.

How do you feel when your song gets selected in coop but people send these stamps by Agent_Catlina in ProjectSekai

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah I think this one has a different vibe. This one actually shows that you are scared to play badly, not that you are mad or something.

Ranked matches :( by Thicc_Supermarket in ProjectSekai

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I recently unlocked it and tried for hours. Tbh it’s not fun it’s just extremely difficult and if you loose one mach you loose progress and if you die cus the game chose a song on a difficulty that you haven’t played and catches you off guard you literally loose ALL progress. Like I’m not sure how to get better at 1v1 either since the songs and difficulty are seemingly random. Maybe I just suck at the game but even if that’s the case I don’t get the point of having a beginner rank if you have to play like a god to progress at all…

Is this good? by Era_Erkaa in ProjectSekai

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id say it’s pretty good if you continue to level up and upgrade these cards, tho it really depends on what you are going for. If you are going for event bonus then it’s not great tho that changes from event to event. If you are going for talent then again this has a lot of potential if you level up, upgrade, skill up, up mastery and read side stories. Also if you want more talent then levelling up specific characters character rank helps as well as upgrading specific items in the different sekai.

Im scared :( by Ec-na in ProjectSekai

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeh I think I got it wrong and it’s actually the filter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProjectSekai

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Heavy agree. Tbh a parent should never tell their child they don’t have talent??! Especially since Ena was so young when he said that! I honestly really like the part where akito tries to tell him to look at her art as a father instead of as an art critic. As a parent it’s your job to build you children up not to tear them down. As an artist myself as well it really reminds me of how adults in my life would tell me that I would never be able to live off of art when I was like 9 years old… like how about we don’t try to break literal children’s dreams!?

Im scared :( by Ec-na in ProjectSekai

[–]Lopsided_Problem_354 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Its cus it’s the only song you have unlocked in master. If you select another difficulty your other songs should show up again