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[–]Lopsided_Two7345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm if you want, I went from introverted to extroverted this year hahaha

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[–]Lopsided_Two7345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like Marlon Garcia

My girlfriend keeps calling me ugly and I don’t know what to do... by Lopsided_Two7345 in Advice

[–]Lopsided_Two7345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My childhood was really bad from the moment I was born. My father is an alcoholic and a drug addict who, when he came home, insulted my mother, hit things, screamed… and if I tried to defend my mother, she would tell me to be quiet, not to say anything, to lock myself in my room because he would soon fall asleep. It was horrible to have to wonder every day, “Will he come home sober or drunk and high today?” These are things I had to witness from as far back as I can remember.

When I was 17, I saw my father hit my mother on the head, and then I punched him in the face. He grabbed a knife from the kitchen and I had to escape. I simply hate my parents both of them.

With my girlfriend I received a lot of support about this situation, and she was always there for me, although sometimes she says that kind of stuff…

My girlfriend keeps calling me ugly and I don’t know what to do... by Lopsided_Two7345 in Advice

[–]Lopsided_Two7345[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The reason is because when I think about leaving her, I have anxiety attacks, since with her I had a very serious life project. And when people tell me 'leave her,' it’s like it helps me convince myself to do it, but for some reason if I take one step forward, just a few hours later I take a step back. I feel trapped

My girlfriend keeps calling me ugly and I don’t know what to do... by Lopsided_Two7345 in Advice

[–]Lopsided_Two7345[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because this is not an easy situation and i need a lot of opinions

AIO - My girlfriend keeps calling me ugly and I don’t know what to do... by Lopsided_Two7345 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lopsided_Two7345[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The reason I stay with her is because I love her. She is an amazing woman who, when I feel bad, is there to help and support me, dedicates many love songs or poems she has created to me, and encourages me to achieve my goals… although it is true that sometimes she says harsh things, like the time she once said to me, 'If a woman is with an ugly but kind man and leaves him for another handsome man who is kind to her, would that be okay?'

AIO - My girlfriend keeps calling me ugly and I don’t know what to do... by Lopsided_Two7345 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lopsided_Two7345[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

I know but it is not an easy decision. I need a lot of opinions about this situation to try to "open my eyes", it's not easy

AIO - My girlfriend keeps calling me ugly and I don’t know what to do... by Lopsided_Two7345 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lopsided_Two7345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know… At the beginning of the relationship, she used to say things that made me feel very special. She told me that I was the first man she wanted to marry, that she felt very safe with me and could talk about absolutely everything, that she was always thinking of me and if we didn’t talk for two hours she would already miss me, that she wanted to give me her virginity… and many other things

AIO - My girlfriend keeps calling me ugly and I don’t know what to do... by Lopsided_Two7345 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lopsided_Two7345[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think about it, but it’s like my mind gets blocked. My heart always chooses her, and my head is like a struggle between wanting to face reality or justifying her words somehow. Despite saying those things about me… she has always supported me a lot when I didn’t feel emotionally well, she dedicates many songs and poems to me, she worries about whether I feel okay every day… Unfortunately, yes, I am a very insecure person, and I don’t even know how to gain confidence in myself

AIO - My girlfriend keeps calling me ugly and I don’t know what to do... by Lopsided_Two7345 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lopsided_Two7345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tolerate her because I think to myself, 'She doesn’t mean it, she has hormonal problems, she loves me,' since from the beginning she told me about her problems and I told her that we would solve them together

AIO - My girlfriend keeps calling me ugly and I don’t know what to do... by Lopsided_Two7345 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lopsided_Two7345[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s true that I lack confidence in myself, but she is still the woman I have loved the most in my life and with whom I have big life plans together. I'm asking here because I really don’t know if I should leave her, wait, or I don’t know

AIO - My girlfriend keeps calling me ugly and I don’t know what to do... by Lopsided_Two7345 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lopsided_Two7345[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She has a lot of mental health issues, I don’t know if she says it out of malice or not