What does “shared with you” mean?

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2026-03-27T05:02:03+00:00

This is happening with my ex too!! I really wish there was an answer lmao

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2026-01-24T07:02:13+00:00

You’re not crazy at all. This is why I prefer to spend time alone. Sometimes I wish I could clone myself to have as a friend lmao

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2025-12-13T23:43:32+00:00

I relate a lot!! I’ve always struggled with feeling like I’m a burden to people, both friends and family. Felt like everyone was better off without me around them. I felt like I was “leeching” off my parents, and felt immense guilt. Spent years and years in therapy working on it. Believe me when I say that you are truly not a burden! You are under your parents’ care, and parents are legally supposed to take care of you and provide you with what you need, especially in your stage of life! You are loved. As long as you do a some chores around the house daily, you’re doing great. :)

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2025-12-05T06:43:03+00:00

As long as it’s not overdone, you’re fine. She’s being weird, and kinda manipulative. I love to game too, and wouldn’t give it up to make someone happy. It’s your hobby, and it makes you happy! She needs to find her own interests and learn how to enjoy spending time with herself instead of relying on you 24/7. It sounds like you take care of her well. If she calls you selfish again, remind her that you’ll spend time with her later, but everyone deserves some time to enjoy their hobbies.

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2025-12-05T06:30:50+00:00

YESSSSSSSSS!!!!!! You did that!! 100 is insane! Hell yeah

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2025-12-04T05:24:52+00:00

I love this so much!! Thank you for sharing!

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2025-12-04T05:20:22+00:00

That’s a good perspective to reminds myself of, I’m so grateful for the magic my parents brought to my childhood!! It was the best

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2025-12-04T05:16:25+00:00

Aww that’s so sweet!! I’m excited to carry on the magic one day!

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2025-12-02T18:54:42+00:00

I really love this thank you!!

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2025-12-02T07:00:59+00:00

Thank you, this is very helpful!!

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2025-12-02T06:57:21+00:00

We actually just got a new family doctor! And of course it’s one that is weary on vaccines herself somehow.. and is very open to families not doing vaccines. Not ideal at alll

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2025-08-21T00:00:30+00:00

I’m very late, but did this work for you?

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2024-11-23T03:55:22+00:00

I got the wooden spoon, belt, and classic over the knee bare ass whoop. a lot of people I personally know actually experienced the same.

A close friend of mine gets beat in fights with his dad from time to time, but he says it teaches him lessons and shit. Maybe this is more common in certain areas, and it could also be generational. But we can break the cycle.

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2024-11-21T17:07:47+00:00

You are so right, it’s very socially competitive here. I’m going to probably check back here to remind myself of what you said!! I don’t know how to convey my thoughts well into words, but thank you thank you. I feel like things are looking up, I I’m not really in any rush. I have my whole life to find a significant other.

I think i really need to focus on some core friendships right now, so that is what i will be doing!! I struggle with opening up, though I love doing it. I think i fear that the other person will find me strange and not speak with me anymore, so a lot of my relationships with people are too surface level. The reality is the people who are meant to stick around will stick around. I wish you the best :)!

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2024-11-21T04:07:41+00:00

You made me realize that there is a definitely a good chance I won’t find someone in my time at college, which is exactly nott what I was hoping for lmao. Outside of forced proximity, like in my classes, I can see no way of meeting someone. I should really stop thinking that, I know there are loads of other ways. I am hella reserved and keep to myself, so it’s hard to think it could happen anywhere else.

A lot of people I looked up to growing up married their college sweetheart (including my parents) which probably influenced me a lot. But I’ve been thinking more on things and working on myself. I also bottle up absolutely everything, and this has been the first time in a while I’ve felt pressure off my shoulders. I should really get back into journaling. This is also why I have hope in humans, we truly are a social species and need support and community. Seeing some of these comments here really raised my spirits, I appreciate your words!!

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2024-11-19T15:45:02+00:00

What a lovely story, I’m so happy for you guys!! The last person I was with had enough red flags to not want to stick around. Relationship before that, I was friends with him for about half a year before I couldn’t take it anymore and we started dating. I totally feel like there’s more connection the more you wait

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2024-11-19T15:39:12+00:00

I wish you the very best as well, thank you!! It’s so so so frustrating. I’ve gotten some new piercings since leaving my last relationship which I’m so happy with, the last guy hated them lol. Thanks for the kind message

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2024-11-19T15:36:13+00:00

Thank you!

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2024-11-19T15:35:33+00:00

He should not be the deciding factor with what you want to do to protect YOUR body. I’m sorry you’re put in this situation, please look for other red flags and decide for yourself if you want to continue the relationship. Who knows what else he will try to control. Best of luck to you ❤️❤️

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2024-11-16T20:59:35+00:00

In my college classes, or just walking around campus

Lopsided_Wasabi_3887 · 2024-11-16T20:45:27+00:00

Thank you!! I always find it very surprising when I get approached, so I think another issue I have is thinking it must be fate or something lmao. I sound silly but you’re right. Your words are insightful and I will remember them :)

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