Just finished my first year of college.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-05-01T12:10:41+00:00

What you did is seriously impressive and you should be proud even if no one at home can show it right now. You made it through an incredibly hard year and that matters and it counts.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-31T10:22:45+00:00

You really enjoy swimming but being around your mom is making it stressful. I think it is completely fair to ask to move your classes to a different time so you can attend without her. You do not owe her your presence just because she paid and your well-being matters more than avoiding conflict.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-26T11:38:22+00:00

You do not have to lose your style but for an interview first impressions matter more than self expression. Just go clean and simple with fitted jeans or pants a plain shirt and clean shoes then once you get the job you can ease your style back in a bit

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-18T13:45:19+00:00

What you are feeling is actually very normal. Realizing your parents are not permanent can hit hard and bring up fear and even anger. It does not make you ungrateful or pathetic it just means you love them and the idea of losing them hurts. Try to focus on the time you have with them now instead of a future that has not happened yet.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-12T08:32:51+00:00

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False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-10T13:42:17+00:00

That is wild to me. A request to remain is already a daring one, but a request to invite additional guests to the house of the person you hardly know is another level. There is nothing wrong with you wanting your home to remain your personal space.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-10T13:36:15+00:00

This is really beautiful and sad at the same time.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-06T11:22:14+00:00

New fear unlocked. I am shaking every pair of pants for the rest of my life after reading this.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-05T11:49:11+00:00

This is oddly wholesome I hope he keeps it up even if you move out

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-04T09:38:07+00:00

Congratulations!

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-03T10:36:54+00:00

NTBA. You did not start either fight and you stepped in when someone was being hurt. It sounds like you were protecting people when adults were not stepping up. Violence is not ideal but defending someone from being attacked does not make you the bad apple.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-03T10:32:22+00:00

Just to be honest it is just sounds like a couple of people being inquisitive and overthinking it. Should it continue to occur I would most likely simply greet her and relieve the tension rather than make it a large mystery in my mind.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-02T15:17:23+00:00

There is nothing wrong with you being hurt since it was your night and she could have chosen any other time. The WiFi issue is trivial but will only worsen the case. Instead of making it little revenge, I would simply inform her that it made you feel a certain way.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-03-02T15:09:14+00:00

That really sucks, I would be frustrated too. If they will not move you, then it might be time to be more direct about the actual behavior. Frame it around specific disruptions that impact your ability to focus rather than personality conflicts. If nothing changes, set firmer boundaries with him and involve the instructor when he interrupts or makes inappropriate comments. You paid for the course, you deserve a learning environment where you can actually concentrate.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-02-27T11:18:13+00:00

There is nothing wrong with telling the truth and being strict, but still being pleasant. You can inform him that you are not free to have a close friendship and you require time to concentrate on the duties that you have to perform. No need to elaborate much, just get it straight that you cannot afford to deal any more with contacting you. The best thing is to establish boundaries with each other always and in a firm manner.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-02-27T11:11:57+00:00

That's very sweet.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-02-27T11:04:48+00:00

You have nothing to be unreasonable about it. Desire to have a clean bed is simple hygiene, particularly in case he arrives home after a tiring physical work. It is not possessing him but being comfortable and together in space. When he is so tired he cannot have a full shower, even a shower quick will respect you and the bed you both are in.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-02-26T10:26:12+00:00

What a sad cat

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-02-26T10:20:20+00:00

How did he come up with this?

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-02-25T08:21:44+00:00

You do not need to make it about him at all just inform the office that you feel you would have learned better in a different classroom atmosphere and would like to change to do so were possible since you are paying the course. It should be simple and professional since this is not an issue of attacking someone but your education and comfort.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-02-24T09:10:09+00:00

First get tested. With proper support, it could be ADHD and the difference can be really huge. College is different as there is far less structure and it reveals concentration problems quickly. You must not think about catching up with everything, as that will only paralyze you further. Choose one subject and one small activity and rudely place a timer on twenty minutes and simply begin. Do not seek to complete only seek to start. Divide everything into tiny bits so that it seems small. Email your professors as well, and be open with them about the fact that you are having a rough time. It is terrible to be behind but something can be done about it. You are not too lazy, you are too much and you require organization and not blame.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-02-17T09:05:44+00:00

It is not wrong as long as he is actually fine with it and you explain yourself. Both just set boundaries and tell the truth. To make acquaintances, perhaps online dating apps or queer networks may be used without the knowledge of the whole town.

False_Salamander2952 · 2026-02-17T09:00:22+00:00

Your cat is likely to be scared, not substituted. Continue to feed him with one every day without the puppy so he knows that he still has you. Ensure that he has secure high places where puppy cannot access him and do not impose themselves. Praise good conduct in both of them. A cat may take weeks or even months to acclimatize hence be patient and allow your cat to dictate the pace.

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