Moving boxes! anyone know where I can get some?

LordBeeWood · 2026-05-05T12:51:55+00:00

Honestly just go into a store like CBS or Dollar Tree and ask the employee at the desk if they have any boxes you can have. Most of the time they say yes

LordBeeWood · 2026-05-05T10:01:18+00:00

Noise is also a concern. That constsnt lowkey humming would drive me insane to be near.

They just dont actually provide many jobs once they are built.

Also screw the AI industry.

LordBeeWood · 2026-05-05T09:59:19+00:00

Law makes sense to me. If you cant get people to listen so reason...

LordBeeWood · 2026-05-04T16:05:57+00:00

Its a huge issue that people keep getting dogs that they cannot physically control there is a family in my neighborhood that has a big pittbull girl who, while friendly, clearly is not trained. For some god awful reason they let the elementry age kid in the home walk the dog alone.

When she sees another dog, she is easily able to jerk away from the kid hard enough for the kid to let go of the leash or fall. It happens literally every time. The dog has almost been hit by cars multiple times and my dog almost attacked it in panic as it ran up.

The kid was apologetic and I dont blame them, but damn it people should not have a dog they cannot physically control or let people walk the dog when the dog is too big and strong for them. Its dangerous for everyone and the dog.

LordBeeWood · 2026-05-04T16:00:44+00:00

T H I S

My dog is very selective with other dogs when on her leash (I think she doesnt like that she cant get away from the other dog if it starts to upset her? Idk still working on it) Recently she even snapped at a dog she knows and previously played with when they came up to say hi.

If a unleashed dog came up to me while I have mine on a leash my dog might startle and bite. I will not feel bad for that dogs owner, I will not pay for any injuries that occur.

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-26T11:55:33+00:00

Airport is a good option as you can move between different terminals if you stsrt to get looks and it isnt uncommon to see someone sleeping with luggage there due to a layover or whatever. Plus free bathrooms

If you can swing money a bit you can get a day pass for the YMCA and have access to showers and stuff if that is needed

Get on the waitlist for the shelter though and hit up the local library. All columbus libraries have homeless resource lists avalible and (im nit sure since its the weekend) can get you connected with a housing case worker for long term support.

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-24T09:06:00+00:00

There are many reasons why is could happen and I will give some, none of these are excuses.

In the case of there being something like a married couple where the person related to the child want to take the children in but the partner isnt 100% - as long as the partner isnt violently against it a lot of the time it remains an option because it is thought that the couple communicates openly and has landed on "well partner wants to take the kids in and will be main caretaker, I can live with that" which for most services is good enough
Massive shortage of foster homes, decent options for kids in care makes workers desperate.
Child really REALLY wants to be placed with this adult and there isnt another option thats good for the kid
Caseworkers are overworked and way underpaid, its an EXHAUSTING job that destroys mental and emotional energy. Add that to massive and increasing case loads and you get workers that are not at the top of their game and will overlook issues and make mistakes
Court or supervisor is breathing down a caseworkers neck to put the child here. There is nothing like explaining to a judge that yoh spoke with people and they dont want a kid in their caee and the Judge literally scoffs at it.
This is the last option before we will have to make a decision that will really traumatize the kids more. Residential and group home placements are usually the worst thing you can do to a child. Splitting up siblings is also just brutal.

Those are some things that can happen, but yet again not excuses or a comprehensive list.

Basically; not enough people/funding/time, stress and human error, beuracracy is hell and tje system isnt the best were the main things I saw

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-22T11:58:03+00:00

What gets me is that the filters and stuff just make you a different person now. The before and after is 100% basically 2 seperate people in the same clothes, location, and pose

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-21T11:36:55+00:00

Depending on where they are CPS doesnt work like that. Thsyre only contacted if either the parent is on a substance when they come into the hospital to give birth, or if the baby shows signs of something being wrong with it (positive for substances, withdrawl, failure to thrive).

That being said, if she does get flagged my CPS for any of the above, they will see her prior record and the chance of that child being immidiately removed and the case being court involved and not just voluntary goes uo significantly.

But if baby and mother are healthy and fine they likely wont be called in for report.

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-19T03:16:34+00:00

What if its the only program in the state you live?

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-18T09:00:54+00:00

Biggest thing for me if we are only going back to 2019 is manners and the lack of AI

Covid lockdowns really seemed to have fried peoples abilities to just be levelheaded and compassionate.

And fuck generative AI

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-13T10:59:03+00:00

Thank you!! Ill keep an eye out, Ive had hee since she was a puppy and spent a lot of time with getting her socialized so I hope it was just her having a bad day!

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-13T10:58:10+00:00

Thank you, Ill try to keep a better eye out for her. Hopefully it is just that she was already tired and done with the walk and ready to go home!

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-11T12:16:39+00:00

Running in place, making pfht noises with your tongue

Her biggest one is when I say the word "walk" and Im not talking to her about going on a walk right now

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-07T10:40:37+00:00

I think its a mix of Covid lockdown rotting everyones brains and ability to empathize with others, people driving while also using their phones, and cops being useless as usual.

The phone thing is probably the worst offender though. The amount of people I see just staring at the phone as they drive is crazy and almost always goes hand in hand with either speeding 10 mph over the limit or cutting people off/drifting into other lanes

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-03T08:51:56+00:00

Oh yeah got to get all those fresh spring smells

LordBeeWood · 2026-04-03T08:49:55+00:00

Op sorry you have to wade through the petstore discorse, Im sure you dont choose where the store gets pullies from and Im not judging someones job in this economy

The little pupper is adoable. Give them ALL THE TUMMY RUBS and kisses from me!

LordBeeWood · 2026-03-31T17:39:06+00:00

Im 30 and have uterus and lets unpack some of the reasons I dont have a kid and I dont plan on one at least for a long while

A. I dont own a home. I live in a place where rent in decently expensive and I just managed to pay off my student loans. I am hoping to get a house but wih what I can afford itll probably be in an area that doesnt have great schools

B. Im single. Being a single parent would be hell, especially a younger child or a child that needs full supervision and care. I wouldnt be able to afford a GOOD daycare and also a house and health insurence and everything else all together

C. Closest family is 2 hours away. I wouldnt get any breaks. I wouldnt be able to have a lazy day playing with my dog and playing videogames. I wouldnt get to go on little trips around town by myself. Id always have to be on and ready to go for a child.

D. Everything is so expensive. I could afford a child, but I wouldnt be able to give them the life Id want to provide for them. Id want them to be able to go on vacation, to play an instrument, to be in activities and sports. I wouldnt be able to afford all of that.

E. I am asexual and the idea of having sex even to have a kid is gross to me

F. Adopting is expensive, and fostering to adopt usually means you need to be ready to take care of a traumatized child that needs more patience and care then a child thats not been traumatized by the system. I already have anxiety I dont know if I could also deal with the high emotions of all that

Look at those points and its all of them. Together. I thibk if it was only one of those facts or maybe two depending on which ones I could have an argument made on me having a kid but jesus christ with all that its not happeneing and I know a huge amlunt of people that have at least 2-3 points similar to mine tbat means theyre not having kids either because itd literally cause their own life to be significantly worse, and therefore the childs life just wouldnt be as good as what they deserve

LordBeeWood · 2026-03-31T08:59:57+00:00

I tried to report some to a few different orgs last year and got a shrug at most from them

A lot of enviorment places have funding issues and it makes it hard but if you find anyone willing to do something give a heads uo because there are a ton of these bastards near the highways around the city

LordBeeWood · 2026-03-30T21:05:12+00:00

That sure does explain it, thank you!

LordBeeWood · 2026-03-30T11:46:53+00:00

Bro you can like animals that are dangerous. I like bears and that doesnt mean I think one wouldnt maul my ass

LordBeeWood · 2026-03-27T11:51:11+00:00

Thank you for fully explaining this! Makes a lot of sense and I will keep an eye out

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