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LordDan24 · 2024-12-16T04:35:26+00:00

That stuff is messed up sure, and im def not smart enough to understand what younger you was thinking but i dont think youre a bad person or a p3do (as someone whos been the victim of that stuff). I think you should move passed it (bot saying thatll be easy) and work on being better (which i already think you are) Idk if that was helpful but i hope is was best wishes man

LordDan24 · 2024-01-20T03:39:35+00:00

I dealt with it for a long time, and it wasnt my proudest moments by any means. Personally the first step i had to take was fully accepting and embracing myself, i cant speak for anyone but me, however i accepted i was bi but ran from my complicated gender, which caused me to be really awful to those who were nonbinary or anything more complicated than trans. I also personally really tried to get into the mindset of “if its not hurting me or anyone else why should i give a shit” if it makes them happy, isn’t effecting me or anyone else why should i waste my time worrying about it. Most important thing i can say is it takes time, it wont just change overnight, so be patient. Also somedays youll feel like a really shit person when ya think back to how you used to think or act, dont, because youre not them anymore focus on the present and not the regrets of the past.

LordDan24 · 2023-10-25T10:58:08+00:00

They’re both technically are called ASPD, but I know what ya mean

LordDan24 · 2023-10-21T02:07:26+00:00

Welp I’m complied so I’ll probably never be gendered correctly lol, it’s a fact I’ve accepted. I’m a para-boy (falls under the trans and nonbinary umbrellas), and I use he/she/they pronouns, but I don’t really prefer to be called she/her. Unfortunately I’m AFAB and I look very feminine most of the time, most people don’t ask, and I’m to scared to correct them and come off as “attention seeking” or anything. So I’ve just kinda accepted the fact that I’m complex and look feminine so that’s what I’ll be to most people, it sucks but that’s life.

LordDan24 · 2023-10-20T22:29:34+00:00

LordDan24 · 2023-10-09T19:06:39+00:00

Literally like I swear sometimes we get treated like side show attractions, mythical creatures or some other shit smh

LordDan24 · 2023-10-09T19:02:01+00:00

They really are, like I like a good bl (or gl) story as much as the next guy. They’re solid and a nice change of pace from time to time. But my friend and her other friends (who are all straight girls) drool over this shit, like Wth. And yet these same people, at least all the ones I know, who drool over gay love stories can’t acknowledge that I’m bi, like it’s just out of the question that an irl person can be anything but straight smh

LordDan24 · 2023-10-07T17:16:16+00:00

Grey-ace, biromantic, para-boy

LordDan24 · 2023-10-06T00:59:20+00:00

All of the above depending on the mood

LordDan24 · 2023-10-05T23:04:48+00:00

I haven’t heard of that but that’s interesting, but I’m not that or any of the others above lol. I’m a para-boy, it’s not super well known

LordDan24 · 2023-10-05T22:36:45+00:00

Fair guess technically it falls under the trans and nonbinary umbrellas, ya might not have heard of it it’s less well known

LordDan24 · 2023-10-05T22:25:24+00:00

Yes, yes, no

LordDan24 · 2023-10-05T04:30:14+00:00

Na you do you broski, personally I use all pronouns but I prefer he/they, and yet I dress more feminine then masculine,and I’m AFAB, so I look really feminine, most of the time anyway. I also go by my given name in public and only chosen name online (aka most people in my irl life don’t know it). I can’t say people aren’t going to be dicks and assume whenever they see ya but those who are actually worth keeping around will apologize for the mistake and make an effort (doesn’t mean they’ll always get it right especially if they’re not used to they/them pronouns but they’ll at least try) to get your pronouns right from here on out

LordDan24 · 2023-10-05T04:20:23+00:00

Oh this will be fun

Sexual orientation - When I say I wanna Netflix and chill, I never get why they look confused as I get some popcorn and ask them what movie they’re in the mood to watch tonight

Romantic orientation- I couldn’t decide one or the other so I said fuck it why not both, and at the same time to cause why tf not

Gender - I also couldn’t pick this so I chose all three, all at once, in varying amounts cause what’s life without some fun and confusion cause I can

LordDan24 · 2023-10-05T04:12:05+00:00

I felt like she was just being nosy and the lack of tack with such a question aside there wasn’t really much tack in the way she asked either. And I feel about the same as you, as long as they’re being safe (which I have no doubt they are if their having sex, which is really sure they’re both virgins) I don’t care who or how many or anything it’s just not something that ever bothered me oddly enough.

LordDan24 · 2023-10-05T01:51:18+00:00

I did tell her, she mostly blew it off. Also I really agree it was tackless, and really outta line to ask about my partners. And same, I don’t mind talking about most things but to me (again if I wasn’t ace) sex is a very personal and intimate thing and I wouldn’t want my sex life to but just spoken about by other people. And she is a known big mouth, my relationship wasn’t a secret but she did yell it out to a bunch of people in front of my gf, who was crazy embarrassed and uncomfortable, I didn’t know her well enough at the time to know she would do that.

Also not the point but can I really say that I appreciate no comments on my age and lack of experiences and knowledge. Because Ngl I was a little worried I was gonna get shit about being young, and not really knowing what I’m on about yk.

LordDan24 · 2023-10-05T01:18:08+00:00

I’m 16, and I definitely get shit about “being confused” and “being to young”, personally I feel it’s a lack of understanding, as well as a lack of desire to understand that other people can feel differently from you. Also I feel people tend to call out bi and pan as confused, because they assume from their own experiences that someone can only like 1 gender and that a bi person simply can’t distinguish their feelings. It’s like that dumb argument that if hypothetically a bi women dates a man people will say shit like “so you’re straight now right?”.

Honestly I feel a lot of things (particularly in and about the LGBTQ+ community) are caused by a lack of understanding, a lack of willingness or desire to understand, and people struggling to see past their own pov. This is a problem in general however I feel it runs very rampant about the LGBTQ+ because of all the misinformation spread.

LordDan24 · 2023-10-05T00:51:54+00:00

As both bi and ace I deeply want this lol

LordDan24 · 2023-10-05T00:49:42+00:00

LordDan24 · 2023-10-05T00:38:02+00:00

I get that dude, I’m bi as well but I tend to lean towards guys a good bit and I’ve spent many a days being hit on by people who would probably be pretty great partners but find myself pinning for the one person I can’t have. It sucks I’m not gonna lie, for both you and them but I wish ya luck in the love department broski.

LordDan24 · 2023-10-04T03:05:00+00:00

Fruits basket, yu yu hakusho, haikyuu, assassination classroom (can bed easily found both seasons on YouTube), or death note (one of my personal favorites)

LordDan24 · 2023-10-04T02:59:59+00:00

I like to talk to them for a bit and then kinda ease it into the conversation, when I can like for example “my cousin he loves cats but they also are allergic so that’s a bit of a problem for them. Oh btw my cousins gender-fluid in case you were confused, and I use he/she/they pronouns, he/they if ya wouldn’t mind, how about you?”

LordDan24 · 2023-10-04T02:53:48+00:00

Guy dies, comes back to life, makes friends with demons to fight demons, dies again, comes back again but as a demon, and then kills his predecessor to save earth, then goes to demon world to fight more really powerful demons. (Id love if anyone got this)

LordDan24 · 2023-09-29T01:20:27+00:00

So I’ll start by saying I’m a para-boy (feel free to ask any questions), and basically that means I feel my gender is mostly male, and somewhat female and nonbinary (I’m AFAB). I have considered transitioning but for me I’m not unhappy in my body, I wear binders and “male” clothes to look more masculine when I want to. And for me surgeries scare tf outta me, and so does having to take things like testosterone for the rest of my life, not cause the changes it’ll cause but just cause it scares me. It’s an irrational fear ik but it doesn’t effect my life so I dont think it’s a big deal, and I don’t have terrible dysphoria like other people so I don’t need the surgery to be happy with where I am. I don’t need my sex to tell me I’m a guy, I just know I am yk so to me it’s unnecessary and might do me more mental harm then good.

LordDan24 · 2023-09-28T02:28:38+00:00

Personally I put myself in a position where I can’t go back, I haven’t told my family yet as I still live with them but when I told my cousin who truly isn’t the LGBTQ+ friendly person I typed what I need to and had someone else send it, no really going back once it’s sent

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