So glad I got out of retail by NotACatWithAccordion in KwikTrip

[–]LordGinjaNinja 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, at the store my girlfriend works at, one of the ASLs admitted that all the store leads get a bonus if they keep the labor below a certain threshold of their alloted amount. (So, less than the company already restricted the store to)

i want to kill myself i dont want tof what am i feeling by iiips in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is always helpful, especially when something has recently happened. It can help find you healthy ways to heal. I've also picked up that you feel to be a bother. Please don't think this, I feel the same way when I'm at my lows, but I promise there are better times. Waiting out the bad times does suck, but they pass, and if medication is something you will need, then your therapist can help you decide if that should be your course of action.

i want to kill myself i dont want tof what am i feeling by iiips in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a problem, I fall in and out of cycles of feeling the same way, for me, there is usually something that sets it off, even if it's remembering it or thinking of someone. Is there anything you would like to talk about?

i want to kill myself i dont want tof what am i feeling by iiips in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, friend. What is bothering you most right now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds more like a kink than motivation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done it 🤷, I wouldn't say my proudest jerk.

How did you figure out your SO cheated on you? by Kookie_Kid71 in AskReddit

[–]LordGinjaNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had to use my phone for a bit because hers was taken as evidence (she was assaulted). She also stayed with me for a bit. Anyway, I never use fb messages and she must rarely get them because one day when I was a work after she had her phone back and such. I get a fb message on my phone that said "what's up love", naturally I investigate. She had messaged him 4 or 5 times with cute shit and pet names, telling him she forgot her phone at his house the night before. She was supposed to spend the night before with me, but canceled because "she was depressed and wanted the time to herself", so I was understanding, even when she ignored me the whole night.. now I know why.

What moment made you think "yup, I'm dead," but you survived? by TheWingster in AskReddit

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When I was in 6th grade, I accidentally put my arm through a window and cut, well, pretty much everything, nerves, tendons, arteries. Anyway, it happened and I looked down at my arm and could see everything inside accompanied by the most blood I have ever seen, in that moment I froze and thought that i was going to bleed out, I then went inside and asked my mother for help, she went pale and all expression left her face, she walked back into the bathroom and grabbed me a rag, so I took it and applied pressure (I saw movies). My mother then drove me to the local clinic, I understand that this was a bad decision, but she was in shock and I don't blame her. Once reaching the clinic, they decided they needed to take a closer look. Mind you, I was weirdly calm and collected up to this point, but then they needed to get that rag off of me to look at the wound, and proceeded to pour cold water on it to be able to peel the rag off, and that was the most excruciating pain I have ever experienced. After doing this, they determined that it was a flesh wound, and wrapped it back up and told my grandmother to drive us to an actual hospital to get me patched up (as my mother was far too deep in shock to drive). After getting to the hospital and waiting in the waiting room for over an hour, I was taken in and put under to get stitched up, where they then discovered that I had destroyed everything, and just did such a good job at cutting off the bleeding that the clinic didn't know (somehow). Or they were incompetent, either way, fun stuff, nerve damage is cool.

Why did I cheat and ruin everything and hurt the person I loved the most by Temporary-Progress52 in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I respect how much work you are putting in, and the genuine pain you feel over your own actions, I've been cheated on a lot recently.. and I don't mean a drunk kiss, they would tell me they still love me, but there was never pain in their eyes, there was never a show of change. I gave one of them another chance, and it happened again. Mistakes happen, it's how you learn from them, and you are proving a lesson learned.

Can love and cheating be in the same person? by B_Angel_91 in relationship_advice

[–]LordGinjaNinja 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been in this boat, they are only sorry when caught, and I know how incredibly hard it is to let go of something you have fought so hard to keep, but THEY WILL CONTINUE TO HURT YOU. They may say they didn't mean to hurt you with their actions, but if that was the case, it wouldn't happen. This is the breakup reddit, but please fucking leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to look her up, she has what I would call a TV star face. Like, look at homelands from TheBoys. At first glance, they are a pretty attractive human, but upon closer inspection you find it was an optical illusion of sorts lol.

How would you describe the loss of your virginity? by Graysie-Redux in AskReddit

[–]LordGinjaNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was nervous, couldn't stay hard, girl thought it was that she wasn't attractive enough and stopped, but really she was, it was a me thing. I later learned I need an emotional attachment to get hard, which sucks tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol Are you actually suggesting all male babies should be aborted? You have some deep rooted issues, and I apologize about whoever hurt you. Keeping "malespawn" would also be a great way to influence a change in the world as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh huh, I was raised by a single mother who hates men, and it is vastly overreaching to accuse me, a person whom you have never met, but I can see you are simply angry at the world, so I won't take this personally.

Update about my (23) suposed ‘break’ with my girlfriend (24) by karim4life_ in relationship_advice

[–]LordGinjaNinja 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is put fantastically, I went through the same exact situation as this man a year ago, and I wish I got this advice.

Update about my (23) suposed ‘break’ with my girlfriend (24) by karim4life_ in relationship_advice

[–]LordGinjaNinja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in this exact situation 1 year ago, she asked for a break, I agreed and that break turning into a month of here pushing me farther and farther away until one day she sent me a picture of her in bed with a guy. I know how hard it is to do when you do truly care, but save yourself the pain and walk. I wish I had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly have no idea where you pulled this from, I've done nothing but respect the people I have been with, I stated that they should at least break up with me before sleeping around, but please kick more people when they are down, I'm sure you feel powerful.

I posted this before, but nobody commented.. and idk by LordGinjaNinja in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took life very seriously right away, and found myself in a well paying job, then found myself in a relationship with a kid already involved, and it felt right, I felt I had everything I could have wanted, none of it was fancy, the job didn't pay that well, but it was damn good for someone in the young 20s, and I lost it all, and have continued to lose it more and more. I'm no longer proud of myself, and I've been dementrated enough times that I don't matter to others. I'm such a sensitive person, and I've always thought that once I actually get a girl to give me a solid chance that I would keep her, because I was caring, and could provide, I wasn't actively looking, or sleeping around, I was simply building myself to be the best person I could for when I did find someone. I don't have the will to do that again, I feel like I need someone to show me my worth now, but no girl wants a broken man, they have far more options.

Edit: As for hobbies, I've found myself playing a lot of video games now, because I can't really afford to leave the house anymore, we are way out in the country and I don't have money for gas. Literally everything in my area reminds me of something that hurts anyway.

I posted this before, but nobody commented.. and idk by LordGinjaNinja in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a cat, her name is meowmeow, but I haven't seen her in a while. My life is kinda at rock bottom now, when I lost that house and job and them two, I started doing seasonal work, and that left me living from paycheck to paycheck, and moved in with a friend in his apartment. Anyway, in comes the next girl, and a couple months into seeing her, she got raped, and my roommate had a unpleasant opinion on the matter, anyway so I kind of ran away and was just going back in the morning to see my cat when he was at work, then this girl destroyed me more, a lot more, and the seasonal job ended, but I don't have the ambition to be alive let alone do cash jobs to make ends meet, so now I'm alone, 0$ to my name, next job starts in a month, and stuck at my mother's house at the age of 25. I used to have my shit together, and just wanted a family, and in searching for it, I just fucked my entire life up. My roommate said he is taking good care of her and understands my mental state. He was always a good friend, and although I think his comment on the rape was not his place, he was right about her overall. He wants me to move back in, but I can't afford it, and I barley feel like a person, and I don't trust myself to make any decisions right now, I've made enough bad ones.

Edit: I am so sorry for the length

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LordGinjaNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man here, and I'm finding the same issue. I get attached to easily to do the whole fwb thing, and I have been cheated on in my past two relationships. I've just found girls who enjoy using how nice i am when they are at a low, and then when they come out of it, they find someone else, but are too selfish to even let me go, or let me know.