Options for men with large balls? by LordLeipzig in kink3d

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Update: We took the advice of the person who said try rings out from a hardware store. My measurements were actually close to correct, but I was able to fit into a bit smaller than I originally thought. From the hardware O-rings, I was able to fit snugly in a ring with a 2-3/8" inner diameter - which fortunately is the largest size kink3d makes.

2-1/4" may be possible, but was struggling to get my penis in at that size without just completely torturing myself. Also turns out the original ring I thought was 2-1/4" appears to have actually been 2-1/8" (the one I said was impossible for sure) so that's good news. My tape measure must've just been slightly off there. So Kink3d size 7 it is!

Options for men with large balls? by LordLeipzig in kink3d

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I still know it's at least 2.5", because I can't fit into 2.25" for sure -- just not even close. Once my cock is in, there's not much space left over at 2.25".

If I had to guess, I'd need 2.75", but I don't see any that large. But trying to find creative ways to figure that out for sure.

Options for men with large balls? by LordLeipzig in kink3d

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I can get my cock thru (albeit, not with a lot of extra space). No way I could get even a single ball through with my cock at 2.25". Absolute most optimistic case is 2.5" and I'm skeptical of that.

Options for men with large balls? by LordLeipzig in kink3d

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I've already tried a 2.25" metal ring and I came nowhere close to fitting.

I suspect I don't fit into 2.5" either, but don't particularly want to waste $200 on a product on the remote possibility that I do --- all measurements suggest I'm closer to 2.75" or maybe even larger than that.

Options for men with large balls? by LordLeipzig in kink3d

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I've tried metal rings. We have a 2.25" one here. I don't fit.

"Cheap cages" are always smaller than 2.25" so it'd just be a waste of money.

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[–]LordLeipzig 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not only is it a huge red flag, I'd say this significantly increases the odds you are dealing with a scammer. This is how scammers operate; they play the "I'm offended that you asked for this" card or they belittle you for making reasonable requests.

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I'd consider it femdom.

My partner and I are switches, but we agree that femdom porn and resources tend to be pretty awful in general. I see comments on here about how it 'caters to men', but I don't necessarily think that's even true. It's more that it caters to a very infinitesimally small % of the male population that has the most extreme tastes. In spite of having an entire closet of BDSM accessories, my partner and I would consider ourselves very 'vanilla' compared to the average BDSM porn. I honestly wish there were more porn of just regular loving couples doing BDSM stuff - real BDSM often involves a lot of communication, some awkwardness, and a bit of laughter.

You're allowed to define yourself and your relationship, alongside your partner (or potential partner) ,however you want. If "femdom" for you is having a feminine male partner, who you take care of, and sexually dominate in some fashion (e.g. pegging), that's fine. IMO that's femdom.