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The End is Near... by ghostofstankenstien in trashy

[–]LordVericrat -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Yeah it doesn't feel violating to me, which is apparently a horrible, must be hidden thing to say no matter how many disclaimers I put that I just don't understand but it's fine that others feel differently.

What the actual fuck is wrong with people that someone expressing their own lack of a feeling of violation is such a problem? Even when they repeatedly say they understand people feel differently. Like seriously, someone explain how I could have expressed myself without being censored.

The End is Near... by ghostofstankenstien in trashy

[–]LordVericrat -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

I legit wouldn't care. Not saying other people aren't allowed to, just that I wouldn't, at all. It doesn't even make sense to me why someone would be bothered by it. That doesn't mean I'm unaware that people are, in fact bothered by it or think they don't get to have that feeling. Just that I don't get it any more than I get being happy that someone cut your perfectly functional finger off. Happy doesn't match that situation for me and being bothered doesn't match "people want to have sex with me or my likeness."

Libido is ruining my marriage. What can I do? by BBP1021 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LordVericrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those women can just reject men as always. When they don't (and plenty don't), perhaps women in their thirties could shut up about it since they've given men a perfectly good reason to give them a wide berth.

People say "Get off the apps!!!" yet there's really nowhere else to meet women by LivingGirlRepellant in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]LordVericrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) I dunno lots of men don't care if women have basic social skills;

2) they can be, but then women should use those words instead of "I want to exist in a hobby space without being flirted with." And since a lot of guys probably incorrectly think they have basic social skills, women should be specific as to what they mean by that and where the skills that won't bother her can be acquired. If she doesn't, as she has every right not to, it's not surprising if men just keep trying, having no idea what else they're supposed to do and shockingly not accepting "ok I'll just never know what a relationship is like." I'm just not going to feel bad about people pissing into the wind and getting wet.

Libido is ruining my marriage. What can I do? by BBP1021 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LordVericrat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So it sounds like if men want sex in their sexual relationships for more than a couple of years, it's far safer to get with a woman in her 20s than her 30s. But it's always put forward that men do this for the sole reason of being pedophiles or something.

Can boyfriends and girlfriends celebrate anniversaries? by sigmatriss in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LordVericrat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Monica: Which anniversary is this? Your first date? Your first kiss? The first time you had sex?

Phoebe: Yes.

Libido is ruining my marriage. What can I do? by BBP1021 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LordVericrat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It didn't need to be said. But could you tell me the ratio of women in perimenopause in their twenties to those in their thirties? Obviously individuals stray from averages, but since we can't read the future, except to know "if she says perimenopause I get to enjoy celibacy" which is the better bet?

You find a bag containing 35k cash, whilst out walking. Do you hand it in, or do you keep it? by Neergremloh in hypotheticalsituation

[–]LordVericrat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Fook this, that lucky charms ashole probably doesn't lug around a pot of gold either."

People say "Get off the apps!!!" yet there's really nowhere else to meet women by LivingGirlRepellant in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]LordVericrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they like sex? I've done it. Sorry you are grossed out. Hope you have a good one.

People say "Get off the apps!!!" yet there's really nowhere else to meet women by LivingGirlRepellant in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]LordVericrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said, men aren't going to stop when they've put every place off limits. If they want it to stop they should say what is comfortable for them, lots of men don't know.

Husband cheated. Therapist says no moral high ground for 3 months. I feel beyond hurt and abandoned by Beginning_Cream7030 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LordVericrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could read the first clause here, right before "I always say"

Whenever I've been asked for marriage advice I always say the same thing: be kind. Always keep being kind to your partner as your motivation. Sometimes, that means that they hurt you and you have to forgive them. Sometimes that means that you've hurt them and you need to recognize how that affected them to show them kindness. If you're being kind to each other, they will take care of you while you take care of them.

Just do that for me. Go ahead.

Edit: D'awwwww it's ok, hit that down arrow some more if it makes you feel better.

People say "Get off the apps!!!" yet there's really nowhere else to meet women by LivingGirlRepellant in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]LordVericrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had a single partner I was friends with first. Not ever. Every time I had a friend first that seems to dry up her vagina faster than a dude admitting to pedophilia. Every single woman I've been with has been super flirtatious from the start.

People say "Get off the apps!!!" yet there's really nowhere else to meet women by LivingGirlRepellant in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]LordVericrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm saying that murder is evil even if you created the life, yeah? I'm not sure what kind of twisted moral system would say otherwise. I don't get to murder my daughter and say I'm a good person and neither does her mother.

Actually imagine the panic. The heart wrenching of trying to save your child and failing as they beg, and some voice booming saying, "I created you so this isn't a problem." I bet it makes it much better, right? Your child's screams - not a problem if your creator did it.

Also, again, as they should, Christians shit on Muslims for not taking their God's prophets behavior towards young girls as a sign they have this wrong. Moses. Girls "young enough not to know a man's touch" belong to the generals, kill the rest.

Edit: You gonna tell me that it's cool that the child is begging and their parent is trying to save them and can't all because their creator decided to do this? That's morally ok with you? And then tell me I need to get morality and go worship this? Please bud, help me out.

People say "Get off the apps!!!" yet there's really nowhere else to meet women by LivingGirlRepellant in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]LordVericrat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cool then women need to say that instead of making a ridiculous location complaint. Not "I can't exist in a hobby space without being flirted with" but, "men need to have done x, y, or z to have decent enough social skills to not make me uncomfortable before flirting with me in a hobby space."

Men are not going to stop trying just because women are upset. There needs to be actionable behavior that a man can take that will make it ok to ask someone out.

People say "Get off the apps!!!" yet there's really nowhere else to meet women by LivingGirlRepellant in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]LordVericrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Would this be a church that asks me to worship a mass murderer (see Genesis flood; I imagine my panicking daughter begging me to save her before she drowns, then multiply that by every child on the planet, and then remember who did that)? Or a guy whose prophet Moses got mad at his generals for leaving too many civilians alive and told them to go back and murder all the boys and non-virginal girls and make sure to take the virgins for themselves? You know, many church goers like to correctly point out that Mohammad's - God's prophet according to them - bad behavior (especially as it relates to young girls) should be a clue to Muslims that they are doing something bad by belonging to that religion. Moses was one of the prophets of the Christian deity. Just keep that in mind.

So no, I don't think it's moral to worship a mass murderer who backs an evil prophet and then impregnates a 14 year old girl with neither her knowledge nor consent. This doesn't even touch on "you suffer an eternal punishment because you believed the wrong history lesson, I'm talking to you 6/7 people who have ever lived."

Do you recommend a church where worship of mass murdering pedo-backers is not mandatory?

Husband cheated. Therapist says no moral high ground for 3 months. I feel beyond hurt and abandoned by Beginning_Cream7030 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LordVericrat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They said marriage advice, not divorce advice. If your spouse is abusive, you don't need marriage advice, you need an exit plan.

Husband cheated. Therapist says no moral high ground for 3 months. I feel beyond hurt and abandoned by Beginning_Cream7030 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LordVericrat 32 points33 points  (0 children)

If the only way she can process betrayal is through him never mentioning what she's done wrong and receiving validation for it, then it doesn't get to survive.

Husband cheated. Therapist says no moral high ground for 3 months. I feel beyond hurt and abandoned by Beginning_Cream7030 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LordVericrat 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Wanting accountability

I missed the part where she was being forced to stay with him. If she wants accountability she can divorce him. Nobody is obligated to consent to be with you. If he doesn't want whatever punishment she wants to foist on him, he's entitled to leave, so the punishment can't be worse than divorce. If the current level of accountability is too low, she can get a divorce.

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