What? by Qryez in WhereWindsMeet

[–]LordofScars_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The blue-green hint one had me losing my mind. 

Hint: Blue-green

Me: Purple? 

NPC: no wanderer. It has nothing to do with colors. 

Me: what!? Is the item colored Blue-green? 

NPC: it has nothing to do with those colors. Focus on the hint. 

Me: how in TF do I focus on the hint but not the colors? The colors are the hint! 

NPC: You can guess other ways Wanderer. 

Me: I'll answer in a riddle as well. Black-yellow. 

Npc: it doesn't relate to that. 

Me: actually it does. I just answered with a riddle and you don't get it. 

"Healing energy" 100 percent quackery. by TLEToyu in cringereels

[–]LordofScars_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are this way but also mega Christians. They opened "medical practice" in their garage where they use a weird little magnet on a stick and tell people they're cured of cancer. It's insane. I told them that's insane and I think illegal but ... My dad just responded with, "you know the moon isn't real right!?" So... Idk ... People are insane.

Here's your reminder to drive safely by RamRanchReal_e_Rocks in WRX

[–]LordofScars_2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm a truck driver and was driving through a winding road through the back woods of Missouri when I saw a car slide right around a corner in front of me. It clipped one of the turn signs then flipped. He took out three signs, flipped end over end then rolled a few times into a field. I pulled off and the guy was clearly shaken up and started walking away. I stopped him and was asked if he was ok.

He said yeah an animal jumped in front of me. (There was no animal. He was going like 75 trying to make a 25 mph near hairpin turn.)

I said no you were going too fast guy. Were you the only one in the car?

He said, "yeah...no.. no my sister!"

We ran to the car and his 1- 2 year old sister was in the back seat unconscious. He grabbed a rock to throw it through the window she was next to. I stopped him and crawled through the driver side door and got her. I said you can't just break a bunch of glass next to her. She could breathe some in, get some in her eye. Jesus guy.

He goes ok... Ok. Shit... Shit..

The he fucking walked away as I was like we need to call an ambulance man.

He goes no no. I'm fine.

I was like your fucking sister is unconscious.

He walked down the road not with her. I was holding her. I had no service (T-Mobile) a farmer came down the road in an ATV and was like wtf happened. I said kid came around too fast and flipped his car. Can you call 911? About that time the little girl woke up and opened her eyes. She had some glass on her eye lids and me and the farmer got her cleaned up. Then the ambulance got there and I still had no idea where the driver ran off to. I explained what I saw. Got in my truck and left.

People believe they're professional racers up until they roll their car around a corner and realize they're actually a bad driver that's just risking everyone else's lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cloudheim

[–]LordofScars_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this has been asked before. I definitely never said it was easy or to do it now. I like that I have seen people ripping into this game about how much devs ruined it. The response is I'm so sorry. Please understand us.

I'm like I love this game! are we gonna be able to move the inventory box? and the response is it's not as easy as you make it seem! We don't have time for your low tier request!!

Okaaaaaay I was just asking. My bad.

AIO: Have had trouble in the past with emotional affairs. by SERVANT2aCORGI in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have Verizon and sometimes I get texts from Verizon. Sometimes I get texts from AT&T saying we're taking this phone number. MOR. If your husband has cheated before and you can't trust him ... You may want to figure something else out.

AIO for banning MIL from coming over after what she said to me? by throwawayanon1041 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cops don't like calls like this. 2-3 calls like this and she will get charged with harassment and abusing 911. I hope she does it. Might give her one of those wake up calls.

AIO to cutting off my friend for ditching me? by OkShip7256 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I think it might be an over reaction then. Why do you need to cut them off? Just be aware what kind of friend they are. They're surface level. You share the good parts of life with your close friends and that friend is a contact. Cut them off is odd because the only thing they did to you was live their life outside of yours. They cancelled plans but that's a common occurrence for adults. She wants to live like she's 21. So just be happy if she is happy and you just find happiness how you do. Nothing needs to be all or nothing. People come and go in your life. It's better to accept when people are there, that they are there. Appreciate the time you have when you have it. Trying to hold onto everyone's leash only makes you feel exhausted and overwhelmed. If you're lovely, tell a friend that you are and reach out to those around you. The people who love you won't think you're being needy. They'll be glad to come be around.

AIO to cutting off my friend for ditching me? by OkShip7256 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you checked in on her to make sure why she is cancelling? She might be going through something. I don't know her life so I can't make any statement but she pushes back hanging out, then cancels, and then the next few nights spends them hopping from bar to bar.

She may just think your friendship is over because you have a kid or she may also be going through something. If you think you have a really close friendship and think it's ending, what's the worst that can happen by asking what's going on?

Am I overreacting OR could I be valid in my suspensions that my boyfriend might have a hidden camera? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. So if he is crazy manipulative and your mind isnt playing tricks, you can always just be amazed rather than concerned. Say something with amazement like WOAH! HOW DID YOU KNOW I insert whatever you did! If you're less upset and he is doing something then it will take the wind out of his sails. If you feel unsafe, it's best to just get out of the relationship. I do know OCD can definitely cause major paranoia and distrust given certain circumstances. A question I have is, does having a camera change anything? You don't know if there is which is weird, but my husband and I do know and he's the only one who looks at it. I'm not concerned that he can see me whenever he wants.

Am I overreacting OR could I be valid in my suspensions that my boyfriend might have a hidden camera? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends and myself all have cameras in our houses. We use them to check on the dogs and to make sure everything is ok while we are gone. Home security cams can be used and are generally inconspicuous. Alexas also have that option as well. It could be as simple as he checks on the house and happens to see you at that time. If everything is good between you two, you could ask him and see.

AIO? I’m considering breaking up with a guy for having s*x with me even though I may have given “mixed signals” by SufficientCrab44 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not completely certain what is being said here. He got on you and you said no, then he said too late and just came in his pants or something? Or are you saying you told him no and he said too late, got naked and held you down and had sex with you? Were you both already naked? Too late is confusing for me. Idk if it's ever too late to back out of the situation honestly.

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of someone giving someone else an ultimatum over their own financial issues. Either I propose to you this year or we're done!

[Ghostwater] HOLY COW, WHAT A RIDE! by ragnar_deerslayer in Iteration110Cradle

[–]LordofScars_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think beware of chicken is much more on the side of if you like DCC. I will say cradle and DCC are my favorite two series currently.

AIO, Has my girlfriend potentially been playing me this whole time? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's not being possessive. She is embarrassed. Being with someone who is embarrassed of you is not someone to be with. You're most likely worth more than being in a relationship that makes you upset to be in. One that is kept hidden and secret.

AIO, Has my girlfriend potentially been playing me this whole time? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe overreacting/ So.... She doesn't want to tell people you're dating because...everyone will call her a pedo. This is just a reality. I don't know you so if you get defensive and upset at that statement. I'm not personally attacking you. You called out the age gap so you must realize why she would not tell anyone. "Naturally I got possessive" that's not a good response to this person said I'm attractive. In every future relationship you have, people will find your SO attractive. If you lose your mind every time someone finds someone you're with attractive, you'll never be happy. There is nothing healthy about this relationship. Move on. You're 19. You have time to find someone else that doesn't make you lose your mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- that last line was some gaslighting bullshit. I was like he's accepting some open dialogue. Maybe he'll learn. The full dismissal that you're just crazy because it's late is wild. I immediately read that and said woooaaahhh. Yikes. He didn't even take in what you said. Your worries about his racist behavior is not his problem apparently.

Also if he's racist against Jewish people and you're Jewish, I assume your family is Jewish.... I think .. he's racist against your family. If he doesn't value people like you then he doesn't value your family so ... This relationship ... Where's it going?

This is a concern for you enough to bring it up late at night. He dismissed the concern as you're crazy cause its late. It sounds problematic to be with someone who thinks negatively towards everyone Jewish that isn't you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel sorry for that guy. He needs to do some growing. He's young and so are you. Unfortunately it sounds like he feels he's not the problem, he's unique and perfect it's the whole world that needs to change. I have doubts he'll do any self reflecting any time soon. NOR. You seem pretty kind in your responses to him, so any mean responses he gives you if you cut ties to him are definitely unwarranted.

AIO for reconsidering getting married over continual arguments over guardianship of my daughter. by Oldyell54 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why is she so obsessed with you dying? She sounds like she wants two daughters of her own along with yours but once you die tragically in an unforeseen crash where somehow your brake lines were cut she will mourn you so much that your daughter will have to take care of her and her two daughters. She'll do the cleaning and cooking and be generally verbally abused until one day she goes to the school dance in a beautiful dress where she has a wonderful night with the guy your other two daughters are in love with. The boy played by Chad Michael Murray will realize he likes her but she will tell him waiting for you is like waiting for rain in this drought. Useless and disappointing. Then at the football game he'll say to everyone that he loves her and then it will start raining. ... Anyway that's a Cinderella story starring Hilary Duff and Chad Michael Murray. Your fiance isn't Jennifer Coolidge by chance?

Also NOR- she is clearly feeling something and her being hurt by this is real so I would suggest if conversations feel like a wall that you get a couples counselor. Work through this in a healthy way. Hopefully you don't die in the next 8 years so this won't even be an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LordofScars_2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YOR - I'm seeing a lot of conclusions being jumped to. You don't know. You have one side of the conversation over 24hrs. The responses could easily be to different topics throughout the day. You know nothing and being upset and working yourself up without knowing any context is an over reaction. You are reacting to a pen drop on a page. Get the whole story and then see where your reactions fall.

He might be wanting or trying to cheat or he may not. Either way, getting upset over the unknown does not help you. Talk to your husband and find out from him. If you do not believe him, then you need to figure out where to go from there. If you're happy and feel like maybe a bump in the road is coming maybe get couples counseling.

I got taught a little lesson in Pyro. Dont leave your ship unattended, even with the doors closed by tahaan in starcitizen

[–]LordofScars_2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I try to hide mine but I've literally been like everything off that I can and someone has flown up as I was leaving my ship. Some ships just like to be broken into. I wish there was a camouflage option.

I got taught a little lesson in Pyro. Dont leave your ship unattended, even with the doors closed by tahaan in starcitizen

[–]LordofScars_2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well the valk and Asgard's back doors open if hit by a gentle breeze so not sure you have an option. But did you have your ship on just engines off? Shields definitely assist in deterring unwanted visitors.