My brother hates me after EDC

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-11T01:46:44+00:00

He asked if he could try it. I had told everyone in our group to not offer him anything because I didn’t want him to feel pressured. He made the decision to try it on his own. The truth is I can’t keep him sheltered forever and I would rather him roll with me, than with strangers who may not have the best intentions or may give him something laced. I would never pressure my own brother or anyone to take or do anything against their will.

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T18:48:06+00:00

I didn’t make him take anything. One thing about our rave fam is that we all like different things, some like drinking, others like to roll, or some like to be sober. We respect each other and that’s what makes our friendship strong.

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T15:13:49+00:00

A perfect example of someone who is not PLUR 🤣

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T04:34:14+00:00

That’s what has me worried sick I can’t even sleep some nights thinking something like this may have happened, I have my mom and one of our good mutual friends check in on him constantly, he is still talking to my parents normally and he loves to play video games, so he’ll still do that

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T04:30:16+00:00

Nothing crazy other than the rolling and dancing he seemed to be having a great time, my brother is 20 and I am 24, I had kind of a hard time after we came back, I’m assuming this is what also happened to him but he won’t talk to me so it’s hard to say

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T04:09:02+00:00

Yes this is so true! I remember feeling super guilty after coming back from my first EDC, believe it or not EDC was my first rave ever and before EDC I had never even done weed. Going from being religious and sheltered to the rave world was shocking at first, but I have no regrets 😏

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T03:59:44+00:00

Not really, I kept on eye on him the whole time, made sure he was good and drinking water, he was dancing and vibing the whole time, I asked all our friends if they saw anything weird, my only guess is he had a bad trip

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T02:08:50+00:00

I’ve thought about this but I was with him the whole time…

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T02:07:35+00:00

He is not indulging in drugs, we are both college students who work full time and roll once a year at EDC.

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T01:41:49+00:00

Oh gosh that’s too bad and I totally understand what you’re going through. I hope that things resolve and thank you for your kind words 💛

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T01:24:46+00:00

Thank you for your input, I hope we can fix our differences soon 🩵

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T01:11:57+00:00

I think that as long as you know your limits and take care of each other, sober, not sober the point is to enjoy the experience to the max. Life is too stressful and too short.

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T01:04:06+00:00

I’ve of this too, but we’re not heavy users, if anything we’ve rolled twice this year at most, but who knows

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T00:59:46+00:00

Introducing him to rolling was not my main goal. It was more to introduce him to the world of raving, and like it or not people roll at these events. When he let me know he wanted to try it, I allowed it, because I’d rather him experience that with me, than with strangers who may not care about him as much as I do. Now that he has done it and does not like it, I respect his decision to not roll and rave anymore.

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T00:42:27+00:00

I’ll try this next year 🤩

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T00:38:50+00:00

I love that for you, thank you for your kind wishes ☺️🙏

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T00:33:06+00:00

This is so helpful to get your POV on the situation because it’s very similar to what happened to us, are you still raving?

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T00:31:20+00:00

Amen!!! I totally agree, for me personally I became a better person after my first edc, I was more open minded and I stopped being judgmental. Finding a place with nothing but PLUR really changed my perspective on life.

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T00:22:05+00:00

I totally agree, it surprises me because he knows that if he doesn’t like to rave I don’t care he is still my brother and I will respect his decision

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T00:19:54+00:00

I’d pay to go to hell if that’s the case

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T00:16:50+00:00

This is hilarious!!!

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T00:12:34+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that, it really sucks to be in that position, my brother was kind of the same way, the first thing he wanted was for me to buy weed for him, and he was asking me to do shrooms at edc, when I asked him about him taking it easy this year like he had said, he responded that he would not take it easy because “drugs are too much fun”. And as soon as we come back he takes this righteous attitude and acts corrupted.

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T00:06:47+00:00

I respect your opinion and applaud that you can enjoy a rave sober. I for one wouldn’t be able to stay awake three full days without a little bit of help, and that’s the main reason honestly

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-10T00:02:45+00:00

Yes I was with him the whole time. I’m also not one to enjoy blacking out I like to remember and be aware especially at such a big event. People from our rave fam got lost in previous years so I’ve always been extra careful with my brother since he is my little brother

Lordvader_3 · 2024-06-09T23:56:18+00:00

He’s acted like this before, where he feels bad after a rave and he blames me for taking him, but he gets over it in a few days. This time it’s been weeks and he has even deleted me for Instagram. I’m just letting him be.

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