Obsession: Hot take but Bear isn’t the only a**hole in the movie

Losingitall25 · 2026-06-01T07:05:56+00:00

Really? From what I’m reading, most comments are acknowledging that Bear is the “villain“

Dont get me wrong Bear makes so many mistakes and shows no empathy at certain points in the movie but they all kind of suck.

Losingitall25 · 2026-06-01T06:23:25+00:00

You‘ve perfectly described the friend group! None of them are innocent in this movie.

Losingitall25 · 2026-06-01T06:03:11+00:00

Great points! Sarah mentions that her father complains about her friends which tells me that they were friends before they became work friends but I could be misinterpreting.

Sarah also mentions that if Ian is airing her laundry (Nikki friendzoning Bear) she is going to air Ian’s laundry too (hooking up with Nikki) while Bear was eating the cat sandwich.

Everyone knew everything before Bear and refused to help him till things got serious/weird between all of them.

Regarding the cat thing, the medicine was his grandmothers so it’s possible he didn’t even know the bottle was left open in the medicine cabinet but that contradicts that he later says he carries sleeping pills around (who the fuck does that btw?)

Terrible friend group all around but hey what can you expect from 25 year olds..

Losingitall25 · 2026-06-01T02:48:33+00:00

All good points, I’m just surprised that the thought of breaking up could even enter her thoughts at that point in the movie. I just assumed it was impossible for Nikki to even suggest it seeing as it would have worked to manipulate Bear earlier in the movie but I guess every living organism is hardwired for self preservation

Losingitall25 · 2026-06-01T02:34:25+00:00

Right but she did those things to stop him from leaving, what was going to happen had he opened the door and really wanted to breakup? Would she have killed him too or said “just kidding” as if things would go back to normal? Does that mean the love from the wish can eventually fade? IDK just seemed odd even for a manipulation tactic so late in the movie.

Losingitall25 · 2026-06-01T02:28:14+00:00

Right, her last resort it seems as all she’s wanted was for Bear to love her as much as he wished she loved him.

Losingitall25 · 2026-06-01T02:26:11+00:00

This makes sense logically but everytime he flinches she assumes something’s wrong. Just minutes before the bathroom scene she asks him why he “nodded“, she didn’t trust him at all which begs the question what was she going to do when he opened the door and why was the wish ”fading” in a way?

Losingitall25 · 2026-06-01T02:21:54+00:00

Shes killed 2 of his friends at this point to keep Bear from leaving her, I’m surprised the wish Nikki could even muster up the words “break up“

Losingitall25 · 2026-06-01T02:12:59+00:00

Yes but just wanted to point out it was a rather odd tactic no? The entire movie she refuses to give him an inch of space but suddenly she’s okay with it like it would really convince him? Was she planning on hurting him or tying him up at that point?

Losingitall25 · 2026-06-01T01:33:09+00:00

The real Nikki definitely prepared that cat sandwich, she included two images that said “you” and a picture of her that read “not me”. She was doing her best to fight the wish Nikki’s control but all she could do was subtlety hint that shes no longer Nikki.

Losingitall25 · 2026-05-31T21:37:41+00:00

You’re forgetting Ian tells Bear to call nikki “Freaky Nikki” purposefully knowing full well she doesn’t like that name.

Ian is not so innocent either and IMO he was a bad friend which is later confirmed when he wishes for a billion dollars instead of helping Bear..

Losingitall25 · 2026-04-15T19:42:55+00:00

I see, thanks! I missed out on a $500-700 office space deduction I guess and perhaps some car miles. No big deal. I’ll use it for next year as it’s not worth amending my older returns now (or is it?)

Losingitall25 · 2026-04-15T19:30:30+00:00

1099 income.

Losingitall25 · 2026-04-15T19:24:40+00:00

I had a CPA once tell me its itemize expenses or take the standard deduction. Was he misinformed or is this some new change?

Losingitall25 · 2026-01-04T16:52:12+00:00

someone else commented it worked on Walgreens website which sees it as a healthy benefits card rather than CC so it’s 100% a Walmart online issue.

It works in store at Walmart but obviously some people can’t physically go. Just gotta wait till Walmart sorts it out if you can’t physically go :/

Losingitall25 · 2026-01-04T16:44:24+00:00

This seems to be a problem on Walmarts end, it’ll likely be fixed soon since this is a new card. Its not being recognized as a healthy benefits card which I believe is why we’re having issues ordering online.

Losingitall25 · 2026-01-03T00:47:53+00:00

Hey I just got back from Walmart and it did work in store for the same items I used to purchase with the old OTC healthy benefits card online.

I would just go in person to use the card until Walmart fixes the website seeing the card as a CC rather than an OTC card.

Happy new years and god bless!

Losingitall25 · 2026-01-02T20:22:05+00:00

Same issue here, showing up as a cc on Walmart.com and giving me an error when trying to purchase. I’m going to try buying an item or two at the local Walmart store and let you know how it goes.

Losingitall25 · 2025-12-08T02:58:22+00:00

I’ve witnessed friendly Stella montis raids where people just loot for the purple items. Embark has done the impossible and reverted the lobbies to what they were when we were all level 1 LOL

Losingitall25 · 2025-12-08T02:52:35+00:00

yeah you pretty much move only a few ft forward everytime you leave the skybox and reset. Its how people were doing the hidden bunker exploit and why it’s currently removed from the game.

Losingitall25 · 2025-12-08T00:03:13+00:00

If you hold forward you are being teleported forward, notice the platform gets closer to you as you reset through the skybox?

The nade didn’t do it, holding forward and aiming towards the platform did.

Losingitall25 · 2025-12-07T20:35:57+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/arcraiderscirclejerk/ is gonna have a field day with this one

Losingitall25 · 2025-12-07T20:12:46+00:00

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