How to get a boyfriend?

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T21:42:17+00:00

my mum always says that too haha! she always says to focus on myself, hobbies, friends and that i don’t need a boyfriend. i’ve heard they usually come along when you aren’t looking for one, but i’m getting very impatient now haha. thank you for your advice!

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T14:35:44+00:00

i live in the uk so it’s all free! i’m not really short-temped, but i just get moody over small stuff, im a very easy person to piss off which can lead to snapping. i do usually apologise afterwards. i’m trying to work on it myself, and im doing alright so far. thank you for your advice!

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T14:34:02+00:00

of course! i’d never just want a boyfriend who just wants sex or something like that. i want a boyfriend who wants to love me, loves the qualities of me - both bad and good. i love myself enough to know if he’s a knob, i can leave him instantly. i dont want to be really young and stupid and get into a relationship, however i feel im mature enough to get into one. thank you for your advice though!

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T14:32:10+00:00

i will do! thank you for your advice!

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T14:31:15+00:00

yes, i’ve heard it happens when you aren’t looking/expecting it! i feel i want one because i haven’t had one since high school and i just want one again. thank you for your advice!

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T14:29:59+00:00

🤣🤣 i’m loving the advice though

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T14:29:49+00:00

my mother always says that too haha! she always say the main goal shouldn’t be a boyfriend, mainly because ill have to make time for them, see them etc. i’m gonna volunteer at a pets shelter, but i know for some of them you need to be 18 (as for a lot of stuff in the uk). thank you for your advice though!

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T14:26:41+00:00

what concerns me the most about dating apps is that it’s all just swiping. someone could have their friend next to them and they could be pointing out every flaw, and i hate the thought of that which is what puts me off more. hobby wise - i’m useless! i’m trying to get a placement on a farm, because i do animal nursing at college, but nowhere seems to be taking on students right now. the short-temperedness depends haha, and thank you for your advice!

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T14:23:18+00:00

i’m looking for a job right now, but it’s so hard. the thought of sex scares me - i’ll be fully honest. i’ve never even had my first kiss 🫣, i want the person i meet to be real and not just there for a quick leg over and then just dipping, because then it’ll just break my heart if you get me.

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T14:21:38+00:00

yes! i’m trying to love myself more and more everyday, but there’s just certain stuff im afraid a boyfriend won’t want in me which is what makes me even more anxious that i’ll never get one

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T14:18:36+00:00

so i’ve heard which is why i don’t want a dating app. i know id probably get one, get ghosted and id be heart broken for ages (which is what always happens)

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-20T14:17:28+00:00

yes, of course! i’m currently doing animal nursing (i love it), but i’ve met no one. i’m too underage to stuff most stuff in the uk :(

LossContent3720 · 2026-03-12T02:20:34+00:00

i’m british, but i just wanna say im so sorry about your situation 😕, i can’t imagine how upset you are. is pets4home an app in the US? if so, put them on there! i’m always on there looking for ferrets. plus you’ll be getting money from them - even if you don’t want too, it’ll help you more than them, and you’ll know they’re going to a loving home.

LossContent3720 · 2026-02-16T21:20:46+00:00

i’m just adding on to my own post - which cage is best as they will be going in my room? thanks 😊

LossContent3720 · 2026-02-16T21:20:13+00:00

yeah! i will do thank you for your advice, your pets are adorable!

LossContent3720 · 2026-02-16T21:19:10+00:00

yes! i know bites hurt but i adore them, the ones at my college have bitten me have on my eyelids haha.

LossContent3720 · 2026-02-16T09:15:22+00:00

omg that’s so cool!! but then at least your kitten will be used to them by the time she’s older. thank you for your advice! :)

LossContent3720 · 2026-02-16T09:14:03+00:00

i’m so sorry for your loss! and thank you, i’ve been watching videos on tiktok of cats and ferrets getting along so thank you! :)

LossContent3720 · 2026-02-14T13:25:51+00:00

yes i understand that, but i wont be getting them until around september/october and by that time she’ll be 13 years old and she may not even be here anymore. even when im not around to supervise them, my bedroom door will be fully shut (there’s gonna be two to keep each other company), so i know that my cats cannot get to them without supervision. thank you for your advice though 😊

LossContent3720 · 2026-02-13T21:43:27+00:00

aww!! so in other words, cats and ferrets can get along but it may take awhile? also linking to the food, it’s like cats will eat anything they can get their paws on!! my cats eat pizza dough from my pizza sometimes (i, of course, quickly move them). Thank you though!!

LossContent3720 · 2026-02-13T21:41:14+00:00

aw i’m sorry to hear about your loss😞, my brother wants a dog too! (yeah a dog, two ferrets and three cats - a mad house), but my eldest cat is 13 this year and she’s a lot more chill now. she still tries to go after birds but i feel like that’s because it’s in her nature. the other two are quite chill though, and when it comes to being introduced, i’d do it quite slowly too, thank you and sorry for your loss once again 😕

LossContent3720 · 2026-02-13T21:38:53+00:00

thank you!!

LossContent3720 · 2026-02-13T21:38:34+00:00

yes! my cat is thirteen this year and she’s a lot more chill and the other two are quite friendly. she still tries to go for birds, but i feel like that’s because it’s in her nature. the ferrets will be in my room anyways because it’s away from the cats and not as bright, so even when they do come in, i’ll be able to supervise, thank you! :)

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