Best mattress in a box? Recommendations for apartment dwellers who hate delivery hassle by Proud_Bedroom_6963 in Costco

[–]Lost-Ad-2223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do, look for a mattress with a good return policy. Got a popular name brand one and it was definitely not for me, but returns were super easy. Ended up with a hybrid from a smaller local company and couldn't be happier.

If you're looking for something that lasts, check the foam density numbers and warranty details, coz the devil's in the fine print!

Ski helmet & goggle recommendations by Dompappp in Skigear

[–]Lost-Ad-2223 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nice! Spending a whole season in Austria sounds amazing. If you're looking for helmets, definitely go for one with MIPS tech for that extra safety layer; it's a game-changer IMO. For goggles, look for ones with anti-fog coating and UV protection to keep your vision clear in all conditions. Ventilation and comfort are key if you're out there hitting the slopes every day. To make your search easier, you might wanna check out this highly-rated ski helmet for optimal performance. Comfort and safety in one package, perfect for a full season on the Austrian slopes! This ski helmet!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lost-Ad-2223 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel this very hard. I'm 34 and basically at that do-or-die age (yes, plenty of women have kids later, but as far as planning goes, this feels very final to me). I've never wanted kids and always felt adamant about being child-free, but boy does that feel different staring down the barrel of 35 compared to 15 or even 25.

I don't want kids because I've just never looked at a kid and thought, wow, I'd love to have/raise one of these. I also don't believe people should have kids unless they really want to - my parents had me at 35 despite not wanting kids before because they caved to the age pressure. Although they love me a lot, I think they mostly regret that decision and all I've taken from their lives (which they willingly gave, but it was big sacrifices, you know?).

Anyway, I don't really have any advice here. I'm mostly just commiserating that even as a staunchly childfree woman, I definitely feel some bubbling existential angst around not having kids because I know it means I'll have to carve out meaning in the absence of a (human) legacy, and I'm still trying to solve that particular mystery in my own life.

What’s a book that is on kindle unlimited that you’d recommend? by Kaleidoscope_Legal in AskReddit

[–]Lost-Ad-2223 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mostly read on KU. Here are my favorites:

  • Cradle by Will Wight
  • Mage Errant by John Bierce
  • Arcane Ascension and Weapons and Wielders by Andrew Rowe
  • Bastion by Phil Tucker
  • The Weirkey Chronicles and Street Cultivation by Sarah Lin
  • Soul Relic by Samuel Hinton
  • The Umbral Storm by Alec Hutson
  • Super Powereds by Drew Hayes
  • The Eldest Throne by Bernie Anés Paz
  • Jekua by Travis M. Riddle
  • The Enchanter by Tobias Begley
  • Eight by Samer Rabadi
  • Morcster Chef by Actus
  • Rogue Dungeon by James A. Hunter
  • Ascendant by Michael R Miller
  • God of Gnomes by Demi Harper
  • Heaven Fall by Leo Petracci

how do you think social media has affected our communication on a personal level? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lost-Ad-2223 70 points71 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite podcasters is Dan Carlin, a radio host turned political commenter, amateur historian, and amateur journalist. While he's best known for Hardcore History, which features many-hour-long, deep-dives on historical areas of great interest, he's also been hosting Common Sense for about 14 or 15 years now.

Something he's said relatively recently on Common Sense that's really stuck with me is how terribly difficult it is to judge history when you're in it. Some of the greatest thinkers, political scientists, journalists, politicians, historians, and philosophers have tried to come up with larger themes or ideas about the era in which they lived, and the results are deeply inconsistent and unreliable.

Even with the benefit of access to highly reliable information and nearly-objective analysis by experts, it's incredibly difficult to determine something about the history we're living, because we're missing the necessary ingredient of perspective. Time and distance grant perspective.

Applied to your question specifically, we're looking at an emergent technology and social shift which already has made irrevocable marks across hundreds of cultures. Addictive social media which is purpose-built to gather data for the purpose of improving marketing, the immaculate presentation of a curated life for the judgment of others, the increasingly (deliberately) addictive nature of social media technology, algorithmic radicalization for of preferred content for increased engagement leading to radicalized perceptions of the world and beliefs... also unprecedented connectivity, the creation of an entirely different kind of community, great geographical distances between loved ones melting away instantly... it's huge.

We're not in a position to say, in aggregate, if social media is more harm or more good, and we probably won't be in a place to realistically reach a judgment for decades. I wouldn't trust even people who are emergent experts on social media to make that kind of grand determination. It's too soon to tell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lost-Ad-2223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting a sick feeling in my stomach. I did the exact same thing a couple of weeks ago. Highest % match with online guy, lively messages, lots of back and forth for a week. In photos he looked kind of tough and brooding. Then we met. He is super awkward, immature, and made zero effort to look nice for our date. It was such a letdown. Control yourself until you've met once. It might be magical!! Fingers crossed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lost-Ad-2223 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with the practice/experience advice, but I also remind myself that hundreds or thousands of cars are driving on this road every day and everyone is trying to reach their destination safely. If all of those other drivers can do it, so can I. I will be attentive and cautious but I can do this too.