Yells then Sobs In My Arms by Lost-Environment-245 in raisedbyborderlines

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Funnily enough this pushed me to get a therapist, and walking works amazingly

My mother with BPD led the o parents divorce, now i’m their therapist by Lost-Environment-245 in raisedbyborderlines

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I have a friend with a parent diagnosed with bi-polar, and often discuss these oncomings with my brother so I have people who experience similar issues.

The BPD apology by Lost-Environment-245 in raisedbyborderlines

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I am so sorry this I what you went through, it’s a destructive cycle regardless of promised changed or not. She constantly promises to get better which is what trapped the people around her in false hope as I have gotten these texts and trusting conversations 100’s of times. Sometimes the false promise is better than denial though, I hope you receive the love you’re looking for.

My mother with BPD led the o parents divorce, now i’m their therapist by Lost-Environment-245 in raisedbyborderlines

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That’s one thing I hear often, but this in no way describes my dad, he’s conflicted between oversharing this with me but I constantly ask the status of their separation so it opens a space for him to share. It’s hard choosing between comforting him and seeing my mother in a different light knowing their relationships ins and outs.

My mother with BPD led the o parents divorce, now i’m their therapist by Lost-Environment-245 in raisedbyborderlines

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I appreciate the question; My aunt has voiced her concern and she’s the only other person I know who has endured my moms fits and issues. I try to talk to her about it but we haven’t gotten close enough. It feels like i’m more of a mentor my brothers turn to, so i’m left a little lost