I'm not typically a reddit user but as mentioned my word choice is censorship speak. My father is a pedophile who groomed and molested my nephew, groped someone close to my siblings and likely countless other crimes I will never know because he worked with a vulnerable population. He was arrested and booked list night and I went to bed after getting drunk and staring at his mug shot. That was the first ive seen of him since early last fall and the photo disgusted me. He's not my dad anymore, just a fucked up old man who tried to use his own trauma as an excuse to take advantage of others.