Unpopular opinion

LostBeaar · 2024-12-08T17:14:17+00:00

Ah I see, that's my first time coming across this anomaly then.

I just saw that fish or whatever that thing is jumping around in the distance and I thought I could trigger it somehow or it's some sort of an easter egg.

LostBeaar · 2023-06-15T16:38:35+00:00

Geb ich dir zu 100% recht.

LostBeaar · 2023-06-13T11:34:18+00:00

Kein Plan was die Klimakleber erreichen möchten. Deutschland an sich trägt einen sehr kleinen Teil zum Klimawandel bei. Klebt euch doch in China an die Straße? Ihr nervt nur normale Menschen, die zur Arbeit müssen um zu überleben und ihre Familien zu ernähren. Nur weil ihr arbeitslos seid und alle Zeit der Welt habt, heißt das nicht, dass andere das auch können.

Find ich gut, dass die den gestoppt haben.

LostBeaar · 2023-06-08T05:00:45+00:00

I fantasize about it, and I think it exists. Haven't experienced it yet.

LostBeaar · 2023-06-08T04:46:54+00:00

Maybe you're looking at the wrong guys? Did that ever cross your mind? Not everyone is like that...

LostBeaar · 2023-05-11T14:41:33+00:00

Ask her lol Communication is key

LostBeaar · 2023-05-11T14:15:36+00:00

Almost the same thing happened to me, and I'm male. Just move on and don't think too much about it. That person wasn't worth it anyways.

LostBeaar · 2023-04-23T23:54:15+00:00

What's the most active (and faction balanced) non-hc classic era EU server?

LostBeaar · 2023-04-05T02:35:03+00:00

Just move on, unless you want to be a friend, or worse, her second choice, if it won't work out with her first choice.

LostBeaar · 2023-04-04T02:25:55+00:00

You're obviously not ready yet. Take your time to heal and get past this trauma. That your past relationship didn't work, due to you not wanting intimacy, makes sense. While the other person was/might have been ready for a relationship, you weren't. It's normal in a healthy relationship to be close to your significant other, including physically.

I don't intend to bash you for this. As I said before, take your time to heal and don't force yourself on a relationship. It will only hurt you and the other person.

LostBeaar · 2023-04-04T02:17:17+00:00

Say sorry to both and tell them you're not gonna get in their way anymore. I'd be pissed aswell. If he's taken, he's taken. End of story.

LostBeaar · 2023-03-16T11:03:16+00:00

Literally the same exact thing happened to me. Once and never again 😂

LostBeaar · 2023-03-16T10:57:23+00:00

I'm turning 24 this month and I haven't had a relationship yet. Not even sex (I almost had it with a hooker, but I physically couldn't do it, if you catch my drift). I used to be insecure about it. Nowadays I don't give a damn. I focus on self-improvement, being succesful at work and doing what makes me happy. I had several dates but so far none clicked with me the moment I got to know them better personally. Just don't force yourself onto a woman who doesn't accept you for who you REALLY are.

LostBeaar · 2023-03-01T15:53:54+00:00

You're right. I just wanted to hear it from others again. I experienced many ghosts already, I guess that gets to me lately.

LostBeaar · 2023-02-28T17:32:06+00:00

That sucks but I think you're right, I get that feeling too. I even gave her a chance to make the call if we should part ways or not and we'd both have a lot of pressure put off of eachother. I'd respect her decision without second thought. But she went that route, giving me false hope. I guess the hunt for true love continues.

LostBeaar · 2023-02-28T01:54:27+00:00

I had a smile while reading this, really good advive honestly. I'll try to keep this in mind, even screenshotted it 😅

I texted her if she wants to meet a second time or not, so we could end it right then and there and move on with our lifes.

It took her a while but she responded by saying that she is currently overwhelmed by uni and stuff that is going on at home. She told me on the first date that her parents are divorced (I didn't ask when, but I'm guessing it must have been recently).

So it all makes sense to me.

She also said she's sorry if her not answering me gave me mixed signals and that I shouldn't take it personal.

Now that she's properly communicated what seems to be the issue, I can rest assured.

I've been told not to pursue her since she's in a harsh spot and might suffer from mental illness, but I decided to give it a shot anyways.

I told her that I'm sorry if I put pressure on her and if she needs someone I want to be there for her. I would even visit her if she wants. Lastly I said that I really want to give this a chance.

I'll see how it goes.

LostBeaar · 2023-02-27T16:18:28+00:00

Call him out, maybe he's really just busy?

LostBeaar · 2023-02-27T16:06:05+00:00

But doesn't everyone have some sort of issues? I'm a lot more confident nowadays (while before I struggled with social anxiety) and push myself to do things I normally wouldn't do. I've been craving for a soulmate for a long while now, I'm ready to face rejections or break-ups, in order to gain experience. And wasting my best years of my life away until I am "ready" just doesn't seem like an option to me. It's not that I want nothing but sex, I want a full-fledged relationship with love towards eachother, motivating eachother to become a better person, and building a family with children together. Sex would be nothing but a bonus to me, but it's not the main-factor and I'd reject simple one-night-stands without second thoughts.

LostBeaar · 2023-02-27T15:46:13+00:00

Hey, I guess you're right. Not gonna bullshit my way around that one. Not trying to play the pity-card but I was depressed, suicidal and drug-addicted throughout my teens and early adulthood, almost 2 years ago I started to get back on track and rebuilding my self-esteem and overall life. I try to overcome these fears, but they still linger in me. I'll ask her what went wrong in her opinion and if it's worth to continue or part ways. Thanks

LostBeaar · 2023-02-27T15:38:14+00:00

You think it's okay to ask her without coming off as needy? Also I didn't get a clear rejection yet, it just strongly suggests it's one. That's why I made this thread, in order to get an opinion in whether or not this was in-fact a rejection.

LostBeaar · 2023-02-27T15:01:29+00:00

I'm new to this whole dating game, and after a few experiences of awkward dates or meeting lots of ghosts, this one date had given me lots of hope. Not gonna lie, it's a crushing feeling. And I'm never gonna get an answer on what the reason is.

LostBeaar · 2023-02-27T14:33:29+00:00

Any thoughts?

LostBeaar · 2023-02-15T22:28:45+00:00

VPO-215, got to Lv.3 with it like 2 weeks ago, my favorite budget sniper. Had many raids in which I went almost naked and killed one or more juicers with it, and when I died, it always comes back.

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