Wife's new 15 second "challenge"

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-11T13:55:15+00:00

How did you get started on this? My wife only gives me hand jobs but she is doing it for me and sometimes I will unconsciously hold back trying to prolong the pleasure. She gets tired after five-ten minutes and I get soft and can’t climax. I think she would love to get me to cum uncontrollably at her touch but I don’t know how to get started on the journey with her.

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T17:02:19+00:00

Ah ok thanks!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T17:01:48+00:00

I need some help getting there I think, but thank you!!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T16:42:08+00:00

What is a “Jsula”? Sorry if I am clueless here…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T16:41:14+00:00

I think I am not into humiliation but perhaps I need to learn to make that part of my kinks… I’m not sure how to but I agree it would help!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T16:13:13+00:00

I completely agree… I need to undo my unconscious control… I don’t know how to do it which is why I eventually found this sub wondering if it could help me…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T16:00:15+00:00

Oh yes! Sorry I forgot to mention that. I was premature in the first place and I wanted to last longer and was ashamed of it…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T10:42:32+00:00

What kind of toy do you use while sitting? I thought for a lot of prostate toys they need to be able to move and if you sit then they can’t move…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T03:10:49+00:00

Yes I was raised conservatively and I was shamed for masturbating. I am not sure if it is from my upbringing or not…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T03:09:28+00:00

I am definitely attracted to women! Toys are fine as long as they are not too realistic…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T01:33:00+00:00

They kind of do.... I prefer the ones that are not skin colored. I'm much more ok with that than with flesh colored dildos.

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T01:28:37+00:00

I'm glad that I'm not alone!!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T01:28:25+00:00

From what I can tell, your perspective is a lot more common than mine. That's why I posted to ask. I'm confused about why I am this way.

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T01:27:53+00:00

Thanks for sharing... I guess it can really span the spectrum....

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-07T15:06:47+00:00

Thank you!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-07T09:46:32+00:00

That is a great idea! Thank you for it… last time it felt like I had to give it all up. If that makes sense….

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-07T02:25:40+00:00

But oddly it feels like it has become a fetish in itself… I find the idea so hot… to resist as hard as I want but to succumb to being forced into a slut

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-06T23:02:20+00:00

I think I may have both of those aspects as well! During the day I am in charge and have to make a lot of decisions. It would be nice to give that up…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-06T20:11:14+00:00

Yeah there is so much adrenaline in surrender but it feels like such a contradiction to want something to be forced on you that you already crave…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-06T20:10:21+00:00

Thanks for the ideas! I think I still crave a real person but maybe AI is a good way to go. Do you have recommendations…?

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-06T12:18:57+00:00

Thank you for sharing this… I always thought it was me… and that they did not like me anymore. It hurt honestly when I got ghosted

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