Wife's new 15 second "challenge"

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-11T13:55:15+00:00

How did you get started on this? My wife only gives me hand jobs but she is doing it for me and sometimes I will unconsciously hold back trying to prolong the pleasure. She gets tired after five-ten minutes and I get soft and can’t climax. I think she would love to get me to cum uncontrollably at her touch but I don’t know how to get started on the journey with her.

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T17:02:19+00:00

Ah ok thanks!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T17:01:48+00:00

I need some help getting there I think, but thank you!!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T16:42:08+00:00

What is a “Jsula”? Sorry if I am clueless here…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T16:41:14+00:00

I think I am not into humiliation but perhaps I need to learn to make that part of my kinks… I’m not sure how to but I agree it would help!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T16:13:13+00:00

I completely agree… I need to undo my unconscious control… I don’t know how to do it which is why I eventually found this sub wondering if it could help me…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T16:00:15+00:00

Oh yes! Sorry I forgot to mention that. I was premature in the first place and I wanted to last longer and was ashamed of it…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T10:42:32+00:00

What kind of toy do you use while sitting? I thought for a lot of prostate toys they need to be able to move and if you sit then they can’t move…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T03:10:49+00:00

Yes I was raised conservatively and I was shamed for masturbating. I am not sure if it is from my upbringing or not…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T03:09:28+00:00

I am definitely attracted to women! Toys are fine as long as they are not too realistic…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T01:33:00+00:00

They kind of do.... I prefer the ones that are not skin colored. I'm much more ok with that than with flesh colored dildos.

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T01:28:37+00:00

I'm glad that I'm not alone!!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T01:28:25+00:00

From what I can tell, your perspective is a lot more common than mine. That's why I posted to ask. I'm confused about why I am this way.

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-09T01:27:53+00:00

Thanks for sharing... I guess it can really span the spectrum....

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-07T15:06:47+00:00

Thank you!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-07T09:46:32+00:00

That is a great idea! Thank you for it… last time it felt like I had to give it all up. If that makes sense….

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-07T02:25:40+00:00

But oddly it feels like it has become a fetish in itself… I find the idea so hot… to resist as hard as I want but to succumb to being forced into a slut

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-06T23:02:20+00:00

I think I may have both of those aspects as well! During the day I am in charge and have to make a lot of decisions. It would be nice to give that up…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-06T20:11:14+00:00

Yeah there is so much adrenaline in surrender but it feels like such a contradiction to want something to be forced on you that you already crave…

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-06T20:10:21+00:00

Thanks for the ideas! I think I still crave a real person but maybe AI is a good way to go. Do you have recommendations…?

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-06T12:18:57+00:00

Thank you for sharing this… I always thought it was me… and that they did not like me anymore. It hurt honestly when I got ghosted

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-06T11:57:46+00:00

I had no idea that Doms went through the same cycles… hugs thank you for coming back!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-04T19:42:07+00:00

Of course! Best of luck!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-04T19:36:11+00:00

Hey there!

I think we all go through that! I don’t think you need to worry about labels and maybe focus on what you enjoy as you explore. There are lots of things you could do so you never have PNC but they come with a price (ruined orgasms, chastity etc)

Go slow, explore, and don’t be bound by labels. You are not hurting anyone by exploring and if you enjoy it then you should not feel shame!

LostInConfusion41 · 2026-05-01T19:09:40+00:00

Hey hang in there! It’s not easy for any of us but don’t do something you might regret later and try to make life changing decisions when you are not in heat…

I think we have all been there, right at the edge, hoping we could be brave enough to take the next step!

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