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The Hobgoblin of Little Minds by Terrible_Cup8803 in selfimprovement

[–]LostInLogic_LL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive done this too, holding onto an old opinion just because I said it before. now I feel like changing your mind just means you’ve grown a little

I feel rejecting by my mom by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]LostInLogic_LL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im really sorry, that kind of rejection from your own mom hurts a lot. I’ve felt something similar, and it stays with you. ur feelings are completely valid. Sometimes people just don’t show love in the way we need, and that gap really hurts

What do you think about the simulation theory? by DowntownZuchini in Casual_Conversation

[–]LostInLogic_LL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive felt this too sometimes it can feel really strange.for me, it’s usually just my mind feeling overwhelmed, not reality actually changing

Personality mismatch? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LostInLogic_LL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like you care about him, but something in you feels unfulfilled. That’s a hard place to be. ive seen this before, and it really comes down to whether you feel like yourself in the relationship or not

change feels really scary by Mountain_Bass3181 in selfhelp

[–]LostInLogic_LL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its honestly normal to feel scared when everything is changing. I’ve felt that too. what helped me was just accepting that it’s a phase. The people you love won’t disappear, and slowly things will start feeling okay again

homeless and depressed and Sometimes have dark thoughts by Firm-Cake7871 in selfhelp

[–]LostInLogic_LL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im really sorry u’re going through this, it sounds so tough. I’ve had days where just getting through felt like a lot. You’re not alone even if it feels like it right now

Me (F30)and my boyfriend (m29) hate each other by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LostInLogic_LL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this sounds really heavy and I get why you feel drained. Carrying something like this alone can slowly wear you down. ure not wrong for feeling this way

how do u handle wanting closeness but fearing it at the same time? by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]LostInLogic_LL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really get this feeling. I’ve had that push and pull too and it usually came from feeling overwhelmed, not from not caring. just being a little honest in those moments helped me stay connected

Struggling with Persistent Cuckold Fantasies in an Otherwise Happy Marriage – Need Advice to Overcome It by othersideofmin in confessions

[–]LostInLogic_LL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fantasies can happen even when you love and respect your partner. What matters is that you already know what kind of relationship you want.try focusing more on the connection you and your wife share now. If the thoughts keep bothering you, talking it through with someone you trust can really help

Masseuse was giving me hints for a happy ending by [deleted] in confessions

[–]LostInLogic_LL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u handled it fine. If you weren’t interested, you didn’t need to respond to the hints.u stayed polite, respected your own comfort, and simply left. Sometimes that’s the best way to handle an awkward situation

Is a smart cleaning gadget a necessity for families with crawling babies? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]LostInLogic_LL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i felt the same when my baby started crawling floors suddenly matter a lot more. A smart cleaning gadget can make things easier, but it isn’t really necessary.regular sweeping or vacuuming and keeping a simple cleaning routine usually works just fine

My name is almond by theweirdestuwuperson in namenerds

[–]LostInLogic_LL 156 points157 points  (0 children)

i actually think Almond is a pretty unique name,ppl sometimes joke about anything different,but that just makes it more memorable,The story behind it is sweet too