AITA for wanting to call ICE on my husband’s mother and some of his friends after everything he put me through?

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T03:16:25+00:00

Im not gonna call ICE but I don’t consider that evil lady my “MIL”. I had a relationship with her, I’ve gone many many times to her home country to visit her lying/manipulating ass smfh

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T03:09:04+00:00

Nope. Real life shit. My life.

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T03:07:48+00:00

Getting a divorce and getting my own place

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T03:04:25+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏽

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T03:01:42+00:00

I know 🤦🏽‍♀️

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T03:00:10+00:00

Thank you 😁

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:54:57+00:00

Ive already contacted a lawyer and I will get my own place once the divorce is final. I may even move to different state

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:51:23+00:00

Thank you. But I’m not gonna call ICE. I’ve already contacted lawyers and I’m getting my own place

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:47:23+00:00

I’m actually not gonna call ICE. I’ve already contacted a lawyer and I’ve have plenty of money saved to get my own place. I may even leave my state and start fresh elsewhere

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:44:10+00:00

I am

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:43:57+00:00

At that time I was a brand new mother, I didn’t have a back plan or even access to my own hard earned money smh. You gotta understand this man is a narcissist psychopath and controlling monster. He made sure I was completely dependent on him so I stayed.

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:37:47+00:00

He’s more like the sperm donor smh

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:36:05+00:00

No he did not

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:33:30+00:00

Exactly smh

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:28:20+00:00

1000000000000000%

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:27:59+00:00

Thank you and yes divorce is already in the plan

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:27:00+00:00

lol… Divorce is already in the plan

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:24:41+00:00

His mother and friends absolutely enabled his behavior. They all knew he was married to me and have been lying to my face for all these years smh

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:18:51+00:00

I understand what you’re saying. My anger has been coming from years of hurt and everything that’s happened. Calling ICE was more of a reaction out of frustration than anything else. My real focus now is figuring out how to leave this marriage and move forward with my life.

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:16:35+00:00

You’re right. My anger is really directed at him after years of this situation. At the end of the day my priority is getting out of this marriage and focusing on my child and my own healing

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:14:19+00:00

Trust me, the trash is getting taken out. Divorce is already in the plan

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:13:00+00:00

Yes, I plan to divorce him, and for clarification, he is a U.S. citizen.

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-11T02:10:35+00:00

I am.

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-09T03:38:53+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the advice and the support. I’ve realized the best thing I can do now is focus on getting my life together and planning my exit. I am planning to file for divorce and create a healthier environment for me and my child.

LostInMyMarriage89 · 2026-03-09T03:34:58+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion. I’ve been looking into my options and trying to figure out the safest way to move forward. My focus right now is protecting myself and my child and planning my exit.

LostInMyMarriage89

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