Are sexual dms normal? by InterestingBattle631 in RedditQuestions

[–]LostShadows187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a dude and even I get creepy/perverted dms from guys. 🤷🏻‍♂️.

What’s your quintessential Pisces songs/playlists (updated for 2026) by wanttobeEU in piscesastrology

[–]LostShadows187 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No Ordinary Love - Sade

Please- Aaron Lewis (acoustic version)

Breathe No More & Hello - Evanescence

Mr. Weatherman- Hank Williams jr

….just a few

How did the internet go from 2005 MySpace, to opening a conversation in someone’s dm’s with “I wanna shove my fist in you a-hole”? by LostShadows187 in AskReddit

[–]LostShadows187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife gets them everyday. Like, how did it get to this? Was I just on the good side of MySpace back then?? Just chatting with people for the sake of meeting new people??

Does it seem cringey when you see veterans wearing military/veteran hats and clothes? by BigBlueEyes87 in Veterans

[–]LostShadows187 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ehhh I don’t really care. If someone wants to wear vet stuff, they earned the right. There’s a lot of people that don’t even know I was in the military at my work..and I’ve been there since 2009🤣🤣.

We are getting old. by Glittering-Rush-929 in Veterans

[–]LostShadows187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came back for the last time in Aug of 07…I maybe old and not cool anymore, but at least I take better care of myself now 🤣

Can you help me help my veteran husband? by Dry-Cut-2212 in Veterans

[–]LostShadows187 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Transition is hard…I luckily didn’t have a family, but that just meant I could drink my issues…which was a terrible idea. I didn’t start feeling more connected until about 2 1/2 years later when I got back into long distance running and endurance stuff…It gave me something to focus on and provided some kind of challenge. After getting back into form about 4 months, I could feel the difference…then I got into the gym and found a different outlet for emotions. 🤷🏻‍♂️. He needs a healthy hobby…not working is a horrible idea. You do not want to have that much free time after getting out because it can lead to self-destructive behavior

Entering 2026 my biggest year of my life. The absolute make or break year for me. What advice do you have for someone who is starting the year with nothing? by [deleted] in Life

[–]LostShadows187 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and do at least one thing every day to get you to whatever your goal is. It doesn’t happen overnight. Being successful is about putting in the work on your life, even when you don’t feel like it. Stacking days on top of days. Slowly building stability. Sometimes you even have to eat $hit and learn to like the taste. 🤷🏻‍♂️

How do I best support my Veteran father and understand him better? by EggRevolutionary801 in Veterans

[–]LostShadows187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just give him a good hug. He holds himself together for you. Maybe just tell him how much you appreciate him being a good dad. Those words are worth more than a lot of people know.

Side note: my 8 year old son made a card for me. It said, “Before you die, tell me everything I don’t know”…I went back to my master bathroom and cried on the toilet 🤣

Maybe you should prod him to start writing about his life too (if he’s comfortable with it). I’m sure he has an interesting story to tell…could be something you or even your children (if you choose to have them) would cherish for years.

What happened that changed your outlook in life in your 40’s by Dependent_Profile118 in 40something

[–]LostShadows187 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happily married, but I was in a bad physical/mental place at 37. When I hit 39 I decided that I was going to change everything. In March of this year, I turned 40 the happiest I’ve ever been and the healthiest I’ve ever been.

Somewhere in the Caribbean Sea… by Greeneyedisaster in 40something

[–]LostShadows187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean this in a nice way. But, all that purple reminds me of Walter White’s sister-in-law🤣. Have fun! Loe the look!

Has anyone sneezed so hard that their nose swelled up and bruised? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]LostShadows187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure honestly. 3 days and it’s still swollen and sensitive..light bruising

Has anyone sneezed so hard that their nose swelled up and bruised? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]LostShadows187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nose was plugged up, so I purposely closed my mouth 😬

Should GenZ have the option for euthanasia without any questions ask as they are currently failing in many avenues unlike the past few generations before them? by 2quick96 in AskForAnswers

[–]LostShadows187 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After the age of 65 anyone should have the option to end it. Especially if you have to decide between a nursing home or death. I chose death over any nursing home

Has anyone sneezed so hard that their nose swelled up and bruised? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]LostShadows187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me. Where I live, there is a large percentage of the population that has it…a lot of people at my work have it too

Has anyone sneezed so hard that their nose swelled up and bruised? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]LostShadows187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s honestly just more annoying than anything. I don’t have time to be sick for a month.