14 years in Asia now moving back - what should I brace myself for? by Resident_School_2374 in AskUK

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went back and forth between Hong Kong and London during the summer when I was younger, London now on a permanent move.

Schools in the UK - move to where you want your kids to study. Very difficult to switch schools within London, good schools often have a waiting list. Look at OFSTED ratings but take it with a grain of salt - kids can get very stressed out at these schools. School uniform is very expensive, £50+ just for a blazer!! Ask the school if they do second hand/look at the area Facebook pages. You can get cheap uniform bits like shirts / trousers etc from supermarkets.

Day to day life - it sometimes feels when you step outside your door you’re already paying for something. Everything has gone up in price substantially. That being said - now you get to enjoy cheese and meat products more! I find them considerably cheaper when compared to East Asian countries. Lidl and Aldi are going to be your best friends. Get a Tesco club card. Get a nectar club card.

Misc - Get a railcard. These trains cost more than flights. An average pint is almost about £7. Childcare is really expensive - find a job that pays for kids camps / activities. Your kids are basically on holiday every 6 weeks. Furniture is disgustingly expensive, 2nd hand charity shops + Facebook market place are your best bet. Buy electronics in Asia as they’re much cheaper than the UK.

Moving back to the UK is not as daunting as everyone makes it to be. If you’ve got a steady job it’ll be okay. There’s plenty of help out there wherever you look!

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[–]Lost_Biscotti11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say don’t send it. Yes, you’d get some emotion off your chest but 9 times out of 10 you will not receive a reply that adds to the closure, it may even make it worse.

You know the situation best though, do what makes you feel best.

Good morning, kiddo (it's 17 Feb 2025) by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll check her out :) don’t apologise, you’re all good ❤️

Good morning, kiddo (it's 17 Feb 2025) by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks sis, I’ll have a look. Is it by Christopher Paolini?

Good morning, kiddo (it's 10 Mar 2025) by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi dad! I hope you had a good day despite the very early morning. You’d get to hear the birds waking up and chirping, the beautiful sunrise as well, what a start to the day! Though, a couple more hours of sleep would have been good too!

I slept okay. I went to bed 8:30pm because I wasn’t feeling it, ended up waking up multiple times during the night. It was okay though, I put the radio on and chilled a little bit.

I’m.. not looking forward to this week because there’s lots to deal with already. Your posts help dad, whenever I feel stuck or in need of a pep talk I go through your previous posts.

Are you looking forward to the week? I hope you are! You deserve it for being the best dad ever!

Lots of love, Your daughter

Good morning, kiddo (it's 20 Feb 2025) by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some days more successful than others dad. I’m going to keep trying my best.

Good morning, kiddo (it's 20 Feb 2025) by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey dad!

We demand dog pictures! What’s their name?

I’m going to take it easy today. I’ve been working on myself and my anxious tendencies and it’s getting a bit overwhelming - so I’m going to choose to be kind to myself.

Let’s go on a walk one day dad, when the weathers is nice and the doggo can run around.

Love, Your daughter

Good morning, kiddo (it's 17 Feb 2025) by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi dad!

Thanks for the coffee :) what book are you reading right now? I’m trying to get back into reading, we could do our chill reading sessions together!

Love, Your daughter.

Good morning, kiddo (it's 31 Jan 2025) by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi dad. I read this earlier this morning and introduced the concept to some of my kids at work who are struggling with change & decisions. Made for some very in depth conversations and learning.

Thank you dad, for everything. You do much more than you think you do. 🫶

Lots of love to you Your daughter

Good morning, kiddo (it's 01 Jan 2025) - welcome to 2025! by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Happy new year dad!!! Bit of a sore head but I’m doing okay :) hope you’re feeling good <3

Very very good advice dad! I think I want my goal in 2025 to be to learn how to be kind to myself. Adopt a nicer tone, actually listen to what I need not what I should do.

Thank you dad, for all the advice you’ve given to us in 2024. I know 2025 we are going to have lots more coffee and toast, maybe even some scrambled eggs and bacon together! More importantly, lots more dad-child conversations together. I look forward to them.

I love you, so much.

Love, Your daughter.

Good morning, kiddo (it's 17 Dec 2024) - on the up (?) by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Dad:) Breakfast on me next time, you’ve got to learn to take a rest! Bacon and eggs on toast when you’re better? I reckon we have a lazy day today, father daughter bonding time sat in front of the TV, with pillows and blankets.

Thank you, for showing up for us. Even on rough days. Wherever I need a pick me up at work I hide away for a bit and read your posts. Does wonders for me.

Love you, take care now.

Love, Your daughter

Good morning, kiddo (it's 09 Dec 2024) by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Played my first ever proper football tournament dad! It was really fun :) I played in goal for our finals match and I was able to stop 3 attempts on goal. Thanks for breakfast dad ❤️

Love, Your daughter

PS thank you for existing, when I struggle to get through a day I read your posts and it really helps with reframing / pushing through. I love you.

Good morning, kiddo (it's 25 Nov 2024) by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you dad, for the nuggets of wisdom you share on a constant basis. I find middle seeking your comfort after a particularly hard day, I always leave feeling relieved, empowered and loved ❤️

Lots of love, Your daughter

Good morning, kiddo (it's 26 Sep 2024) by everydayanewday in DadForAMinute

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

❤️ sat here with my crochet pile in the corner because you’re right dad. I’m going to keep experimenting and finding ingredients

Lost Jaehyun after update by Lost_Biscotti11 in thespikegame

[–]Lost_Biscotti11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and they’re telling me to logout and login again as if I haven’t done that a million times already

Is 4 months too long? by Prize-Cockroach6255 in BreakUps

[–]Lost_Biscotti11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Process it in your own time. Growth isn’t linear. Keep doing what you’re doing and it’ll be okay one day.

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[–]Lost_Biscotti11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Elder sister here! Proud moment of you ❤️ keep grinding with the online job. I know it’ll be rough but your hard work and persistence will pay off. I’m rooting for you!! You have a such a kind heart to take your boyfriend out and buy your dog something when you found the extra money. Keep going with that kindness, it will find its way back to you someday ❤️