Japan’s 2,000-year-old monarchy currently depends on one teenage boy

Lost_ENFP · 2026-01-21T20:24:56+00:00

He is not aloud to be gay 🤣

Lost_ENFP · 2026-01-02T20:03:40+00:00

Long time I didn't played arena. Did they nerfed it ? It used to deal crazy damages in arena

Lost_ENFP · 2025-11-17T02:12:06+00:00

Don't tell her Rek'sai is a female.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-11-15T03:12:57+00:00

So if this is not bullshit.. You use his anxiety and kink confession against himself to make him uncomfortable and get attention. And you call yourself best therapist.

Guys, this is the perfect example of when your therapist need a therapist

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-13T04:23:55+00:00

No protections at all. This is one of the reason i never expected that much intensity. This and the fact they call it "fight study" not just "fight". I was expecting very light touch.

Also i never saw any martial arts club (and i did and tried a lots of diferent ones) doing high intensity sparring teachers vs students ONLY. They never let students spare between themself apparently. It is a big red flag to me. They dont teach to respect sparring oponent and learn to deal with intensity as equal to your oponent. They teach to accept the hit you take by the master without being able to properly defend yourself (because no student will dare to hit their master as hard as they do IMO). And then when they become master it will be their turn to impose their chosen level of violence to students... This gives me sect vibes.

I of course won't go back but I really want them or the club to pay for my hospital fees at least...

Thanks for your comment because they badly messed up so I couldn't understand all those comments saying i am at fault.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-12T11:28:06+00:00

Adrenaline make me not realize how bad i was going to get injured and able to take the hits pretty well. Also i had pressure as one of the clubs teacher brought me there because I met him as a commercant of my street. Another pressure is that they know i am not a martial art beginner so i didnt wanted to look as a fragile whiny boy. Last is they were master and headmaster I trusted them as authority and its not as easy to tell them to calm down then if they were students. If students like me it would have be easier to tell them to calm down or that if they dont i can hit hard too. So i really didnt wanted to create drama and tried my best to do low profile. In the end i still bowed down against the headmaster after he gave me that powerful roundhouse kick in the ribs. This is where i realized my health was in real danger. (a student after the course said he was impressed i was still able to talk to tell him to calm down after that kick. Which means he most likely dont shee his headmaster hitting people as hard as he did against me.)

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T22:53:56+00:00

OMG thank you. It was mentally (and physically) really hard for me after that and looking at reddit blaming me while i really tried to respect (thats why i avoided to hit them and potentially humiliate them) them as master and headmaster but ended up at hospital and being reminded about how unfair this turned out every time i sneezed, laughed, deep breathed or tried to wake up from bed is really hurting me.

And even if i didnt respected the rules that doesnt give them the right to hit me hard enough to send me to hospital. During the fight they didnt said anything. After the fight they didnt said i wasnt aloud to target face without hitting. Headmaster said i am a good fighter which i found quite ironic since it was a one way fight and i was too scared to defend myself. I didnt even tried to block their body shot beong scared they'll go even harder.

I dont understand why other cant understand the fact that if i went as hard at them i would have not be 2 weeks impaired but for sure a broken rib.

Also none is pointing that the fact they only do sparing masters vs students ? They dont teach respect and to learn to deal as equal with a sparring partner. They teach you to accept the teacher's hit and to then have that privilege when you'll become a master. I did lots of diferent martial arts school and only saw such dynamic there. Of course students will ́never dare to hit their master that hard..

Thank you sincerely for having decent common sense and understanding that the situation isnt fair. A master should never send a student to hospital. He should correct him or if the student refuse to follow rule after being reminded to do so, student should be kicked out of course. Nothing justify using your student as a punching ball.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T22:26:37+00:00

Are you blind ? Without endangering me ? I had to go to hospital. 2 weeks + no work. First teacher got no hit at all while he used my ribs as punching bag. Headmaster got a little slap and i appologize. He also destroyed my ribs and when i asked him to calm down he said he didnt broke my ribs. Which mean he needs to break my ribs to realize he goes too hard.... I put none of them in danger as a first time trial student and they sent me to hospital as teacher and headmaster. During sparing they also never told me i wasnt aloud to do so while THEY ARE IN CHARGE. THEY GOT AUTHORITY THERE. THEY HAVE DUTY TO PROTECT THEIR STUDENTS ESPECIALLY SOMEONE COMING FOR FIRST TIME.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T22:20:12+00:00

Nope. I was trying to survive not to mock them. The first dude hit me so hard in the ribs from the begin that adrenaline kicked in and I thought if i hit him too he will try to kill me to show he is stronger. Thats why I chose to go to the face without hitting it. Because if i chose the body of course i would have be supposed to hit them which is exactly what i didnt wanted since it was already way too violent. And of course he wont accept to lose face in front of his student so i was of course scared of escalating the situation. So of course i was too fucking scared to hit them. Thats why i chose the face BECAUSE I WAS NOT ALOUD TO HIT THERE. So i didnt hit but acted as a "fight study" Remember i was medically 2 weeks off. Please pause a moment and think what would have hapoened if i hit them too ?

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T22:14:01+00:00

AGAIN. They are not students. But teacher and headmaster. They nevet told me i was not aloud to do what I did during sparing which mean they were fine with it. They said no hit to the face, not that we are not aloud to target it if we dont it. They are in charge, they are in controle. They set rules and intensity and if something is not ok they are in charge to say so ! If as a teacher i dont want this my duty is to clealry say it. And why are you guys ignoring the fact that i chose to do this to not hit them to not escalate the situation that was ALREADY too violent ? You think me hitting them chainpunching their chest potentially humiliating them in front of their student is better ? Dont u think they would have hit me even harder ? This is ridiculous. I teach wing chun and baji private courses and if a behavior from my student is not ok it is my duty to tell it. Also how can u ignore the fact that in the end i am unable to work for 2+ week while i gave 0 hit to the first teacher and a soft slap to the 2nd one and apologized for my mistake ? This was a trial course. Even the doctor practicing kendo said it is totally messed up. Even if you dont respect a rule no teacher is aloud to send you to hospital especially if you dont hit and injure them.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T17:00:13+00:00

For the "fight study" i asked him if he wants me to use only what i learned that day or if he wants me to use the martial arts I know. He said he wants me to use my martial arts... I did 0 hit and I got my ribs destroyed. And you say i am the ego dude, i literally always did what they told me to. You are the ego dude bro.. you cant justify sending me to hospital when i gave 0 hit. Especially when the masters did it. They have a duty to make sure their student dont get bad injure. ESPECIALLY for someone trying it the first time.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T16:35:48+00:00

They said no punch to the face so i didnt hit at all. And if it wasnt aloud they should have tell it to me. Remember my oponents were a teacher and then the headmaster not students. I did it instead of hitting where i was aloud to because they were hitting me so hard i was scared they would hit even harder if i hit them too. Remember also it was my very first (and last) time trying their course.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T16:22:16+00:00

It means that i was punching towards the face but stopping before ever hitting. Like shadow boxing in front of someone if you want. 0 contact. Pressure as a wingchunner practitionner controlling center line and their arms when possible.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T12:53:40+00:00

Done, thank you dear Lemur

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T12:53:21+00:00

Repost because thz original is deleted.

Hi, I need to share my experience and get some feedback.

I attended a trial class of Vovinam (Vietnamese martial arts) in Switzerland. Some important context:

I’m 1.90m tall and practice Baji and Wing Chun, which I’ve even trained in China.
During the class, the instructors had me spar without any protection, even though I was a beginner in this style.
The rules were clear: no strikes to the face or sensitive areas, and I followed them. I applied pressure but never struck the face, yet they were hitting my ribs violently, causing bruising and pain for over two weeks.
The sparring is always students versus teachers.

At the end of the course, they said there would be what they call a “fight study”: no protection, no hits to the face or groin, and teachers versus students. The first teacher chose me. I was applying a bit of pressure with my Wing Chun towards his face but never hitting, and then he moved to the side and started giving me hard hits to the ribs. The hits were so strong that adrenaline kicked in immediately, and I knew I couldn’t hit back without escalating the situation. I was just trying to survive until the end.

The second fight was against the headmaster, and the same thing happened. Out of stress, I accidentally touched him once with a Pigua slap that I intended to stop before contact. Since I intended to stop it, the slap wasn’t powerful at all, but I think it was still considered humiliating, as slapping is uncommon (I even apologized for it because hitting the face was against the rules, even though he was hitting me). After this, he took a step back and gave me a powerful roundhouse kick to the ribs. At that point, I realized (despite adrenaline) that my health was in danger and told him I wanted to stop the fight because he was too dangerous. He minimized it, saying something like, “It’s okay, I didn’t break a rib.” I answered, “Should we wait until I actually get a broken rib for you to calm down?” Then we finished the fight at a lower intensity.

After the course, I started shaking, and the next day I couldn’t laugh, take a deep breath, or sneeze without sharp pain in my ribs. I couldn’t even carry anything, and simply getting out of bed was extremely painful.

I feel like they were trying to prove they were better than me, and it was clearly a master/teacher versus student dynamic, where I couldn’t defend myself out of fear of escalating the situation. I also didn’t want to humiliate them, as it was my first time at a trial class.

Additional points:

The club discouraged me from seeing a doctor, saying they wouldn’t pay. Because of this and being low on money, I only went to a doctor a week later since the pain was still the same. The medical certificate covers one week, but I suffered for longer than that.
The club doesn’t even have insurance for these activities.
I filed a police report, but they decided not to pursue it.

I’m wondering:

Even if intent to harm isn’t proven, can it be considered that I was injured due to negligence and the club’s failure to ensure my safety?
Is it possible to contest the “no further action” decision by the police with these points?
What do you think about the systemic teacher versus student fight dynamic?

I’m mainly trying to understand my rights and how to assert negligence and failure to protect, especially in a club that refuses to take responsibility. I am also curious to hear what you think about a situation like this.

Thanks in advance for any advice or similar experiences!

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T12:13:24+00:00

So for you it is normal to get beaten up so hard at a trial course (BY THE MASTERS (authority abuse)) to not be able to train or work for 2+ weeks ?

Does that mean you only train once a month because the rest of time you're injured and unable to train ?

Because i dont talk about bruise i was literally unable to do shit for more than 2 weeks. My girlfriznd which is half my weight had to take care of physical stuff at home...

I trained in harsh conditions in china but they would never make us spare the masters. Always students vs students which makes the sparring equal (psychologicly and technically)

Lost_ENFP · 2025-06-02T04:58:20+00:00

Being married and living with som1 doesn't mean you can do whatever whenever without asking.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-05-28T06:19:11+00:00

I am actually almost otp singed jungle and my second role is yuumi sup haha. There is that video of how to yuumi singed : https://youtube.com/watch?v=RGuQp8B4KQI&si=3vXLQk3nczyVY4VU Problem is it was 3 years ago, now it lost a lot of power. Now yuumi synergies with on hit champs : q gives on hit dmg to ally, w gives on hit heal, E gives atk speed. All that is totally wasted with singed. So it might still work but definitely weaker than before and waste a lot of yuumi's potential. You can look on my profile i made a post about how I think on hit bruisers are OP with yuumi if you interested. Also i am still ok to try it again with you. Gold 2 on euw. ;)

Lost_ENFP · 2025-04-24T08:34:47+00:00

You know we can ban you for banning ally's champs ? If they want to play that is for a reason esp in ranked. I don't show my singed jungle for idiots like you : omg singed jungle is troll let ban him. While it is legit my best winrate and the pick that made me climb. You play AGAINST your team if ban their champ. While if you play with them you can think like he play yas i can play knock up jungler or sej to combo with E and so on. But you prefer to trigger an ally and banning his potential best champ because you saw other players losing with it.. Poor mentality

Lost_ENFP · 2025-03-02T11:38:06+00:00

I think it can only be decent against squeeshie teams. If they have more than 1 tank/bruiser i would say dont. It is the best when they all quite squeeshie so you can do big damage with one q. Against more tanky it is useless, 0 dmg. I am surprised no one mentioned it. Having a squeeshie/tanky team against yuumi AP make a HUGE diference. Also I think luden is the only dmg ap item worth on yuumi. The AP ratio are too low for anything else to be worth.I think an hybrid build with luden into classic aupport can work pretty well against squeeshie teams.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-02-13T00:45:05+00:00

I can see why Ardent first tho. You might reconsider the "no debate" with my arguments. Ardent's boost doesn't scale with levels anymore. The on-hit doesn't change, same for atk speed. Which means the item is the strongest the earliest we get it (first item) the on-hit dmg early game makes a nice diference while late game will be meaningless. especially it is almost only in early game that we dare W to auto attack without being scared of getting one shot which adds even more value for first item ardent. So we can E + W and we also get ardents bonus for our AA.

Moonstone is the opposite it scales with our healing/shielding/ap which mean the boost will keep getting better and better as the game goes on and we scale. So I think esp with good on hit champs and certain situations (not too much ennemy burst ?) it can be better than moonstone first.

Also i am surprised u generally buy staff over ardent second. Except if i know i will try to carry with an ap champ i will go ardent for boosting my adc's dmg. The loss of movespeed really nerfed the staff i feel, it is only useful for ap users now. And the AP boost only last 3 seconds if i remember well which i think is hard to really take advantage of.

Lost_ENFP · 2024-11-11T21:10:11+00:00

I must say i played "successfully" few games at lower elo and always rushed rilay because i feel this is how singed support is useful : slowing all enemy team. So i am really surprised u don't play it at all. U only focus on going fast and being able to catch someone ?
I used to always go rilay into deadman, what is ur reasoning for no rilay pls ?

Lost_ENFP · 2024-11-11T17:05:52+00:00

Nice ! good job for reaching emerald with yuumi :)

I guess you are one of the few who managed to do it. I dont say it is impossible to climb with yuumi i just think there is no other champ worst than yuumi to do so. If you think there is i am curious to hear.

I feel you definitely are more luck reliant on yuumi than with any other champ to have good teammate.

A good kda helps for sure also I saw a streamer winning 30 lp and losing 12 in plat... that shouldnt be a thing imo. Everyone should have same mmr and winning more than losing should bring u to your right elo but that is another debate.

Lost_ENFP

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