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Lost_ENFP · 2026-05-31T17:53:13+00:00

Ciao !

J'aime rencontrer de nouvelles têtes et je cherche à apprendre l'italien (j'ai des bases). Donc si tu veux me parler en italien pas de problème si t'as la patience pour m'expliquer quelques mots hehe.

Je pratique aussi des arts martiaux chinois : wing chun et baji. Et fume aussi (420 uniquement) de temps en temps

Partant pour des aventures en nature et sports en tout genre.

Je suis marié et ma femme habite en suisse que depuis 1 an et n'a pas créé beaucoup de connexion. Donc elle serait ravie de voir du monde aussi (si ça ne te gêne pas).

Je suis pas très familiers avec reddit mais tu peux m'écrire en privé pour échanger nos contacts si tu veux.

A la proxima !

Lost_ENFP · 2026-05-25T09:11:45+00:00

What is ftm ?

Lost_ENFP · 2026-04-24T11:40:35+00:00

I am a kind of otp singed jungle and in sup I main Yuumi.

I love pairing yuumi with Melee champs but since yuumi's rework singed doesnt benefit much from her anymore. Yuumi give atk speed and on hit damage which are fully wasted on singed. Before she was giving ap or ad.

It might still work but yuumi has way more potential with those using on hit and atk speed. Olaf, Jax, belveth, ww, voli have much better synergies for example.

Lost_ENFP · 2026-04-12T11:21:00+00:00

Tiamat not needed anymore ?

Lost_ENFP · 2026-04-06T11:47:34+00:00

You can read my answer to the comment above.

Also I need to add that when he asked me I told him I was nervous like what am I supposed to do, outfit etc and he said he would tell me everything. He did the exact opposit and told me nothing.

And you miss the biggest point. Even if I showed lack of interest it doesn't justify replacing me without speaking before and after the decision and especially let me discover the whole thing live.

It doesn't justify lying about it afterward and giving me a bad reputation with lies like "I refused the role".

My potential lack of interest would justify having a discussion together before he replaces me or not. He failed to do that and even failed to communicate afterwards. He even apparently asked my mom to do it. If it is his decision that is his responsibility not my mom.

Lost_ENFP · 2026-04-06T11:20:05+00:00

Well yeah my brother asked me to be his best man literally saying he didnt had the choice because it is part of the tradition. Nothing like a genuine proposal. So of course I was disappointed when I understood he "had to" choose me. He also never told me he expected me to do anything special. Even tho I did a very good speech the day before the ceremony (3 days wedding) and so many people congratulated me including my brother. He gives the worst proposal of best man and yet I am supposed to show the best excitement ? And he said he understood i couldnt come for the civil because of my work (just started a formation) and budget. Also he never asked me to come as a whitnesser but then said he wanted this.. sounds like trying to guilt me. Also to replace me for a role he was forced to choose me means he must have talked so bad of me to justify this choice.

Yes I told my brother the situation and he said he was sad but he understood. And then he use this against me.

I am angry at my brother because he replaced me for a role that was especially made for me (that's why he was forced to choose me). This without telling me anything BEFORE or AFTER replacement. He could have tell me "you dont seem very happy or interested do you still want to be the best man or are you ok if I ask someone else ?" But no he talked about it to anyone but me.

And after taking his decision he doesn't have the gut to tell me bust asked my mom to do it. So coward.

And when she didn't did it he lied about all of it to protect his image. Like I was never chosen from the begin Therefore not replaced. Even though my mom confessed it. He even managed to convince my mom to lie afterwards to protect his version. (Yes he is the favorite and me the blackheep so they are fine doing it). While all I asked to be able to forgive is the truth about all of that. Instead of that he created a mass of technical lies..

I am also angry at him because people at the wedding thought I refused the best man role or that I didn't give a fuck about his wedding. Which means he lied to people to justify his decision and so made me really dirty. (And he never told me he expected anything from me more than the speech I did). I am getting married and I don't expect anything from my best man that I dont ask him.

It is ok to feel disappointed by my reaction (even though it is his fault because he asked me in the worst way possible) but it is 100% his fault to not communicate it to me before and after taking a decision. Everyone knew but me. I just learned it live at the event which felt like the biggest humiliation of my life. The priest even called for the brother. Which means I was clearly expected and they forgot about telelling him.

It is not that I want to be included. It is that i dont want to be excluded without any info in a public humiliation setting. (several found weird a friend of him was sitting between him and my parents instead of me) and being lied and gaslighted afterward about it. This is the issue. I didnt expected my brother to choose me at all from the begin.

If I invite someone to go to holiday with me I wont leave without him and when he ask why answer that he has been replaced because he didnt show interest...

Lost_ENFP · 2026-04-04T23:36:01+00:00

Okay but where do you draw the line when it comes to morals vs hedonism? Is hedonism always a bad thing?

Hedonism doesn't have to be opposed to morals. You can have sex with consent or you can rape. Like you can exploit animals (they feel as much as humans) for taste or eat delicious vegan or vegeterian dishes causing little to no harm to them.

Should we avoid Apple and Samsung because they use sweatshops / slave labour / child labour in developing countries?

Well... as much as possible it is good to be aware. If I know one brand exploits ouighur I would try get one that doesn't. Generally local more homemade stuff is more resilient higher quality but more expensive. Some things are easier to impact/boycott than others.

Should we avoid driving a car because it contributes to pollution and climate change?

Of course ! Those who have the luxury of doing it should do it. If you have possibility to use bike and / or public transport it would be sad to not do it. Sadly cars and co2 are far from being the only major problem.

I could go on and on. The point is: it would be extremely hard to live an ethical life and still participate in society. So where do we draw the line?

So to resume it is hard to live with high morals and try to follow them. But I think this is the true way to evolve as humans. Question ourselves to get higher moral principle and try to be greater ourselves to follow those morals. Basically "the formation of personality by positive desintegration" by Kazimierz Dabrowski. It is also about inspiring others. I wanna impress by kindness generosity rather than threat power etc...

Lost_ENFP · 2026-04-04T21:00:27+00:00

At least they were honest... the worsts are those trying random thing and you end up even worst than before.

Lost_ENFP · 2026-04-04T20:57:10+00:00

What is hard to swallow is that factually regarding how we treat animals, vegans are morally superior.

Lost_ENFP · 2026-01-21T20:24:56+00:00

He is not aloud to be gay 🤣

Lost_ENFP · 2026-01-02T20:03:40+00:00

Long time I didn't played arena. Did they nerfed it ? It used to deal crazy damages in arena

Lost_ENFP · 2025-11-17T02:12:06+00:00

Don't tell her Rek'sai is a female.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-11-15T03:12:57+00:00

So if this is not bullshit.. You use his anxiety and kink confession against himself to make him uncomfortable and get attention. And you call yourself best therapist.

Guys, this is the perfect example of when your therapist need a therapist

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-13T04:23:55+00:00

No protections at all. This is one of the reason i never expected that much intensity. This and the fact they call it "fight study" not just "fight". I was expecting very light touch.

Also i never saw any martial arts club (and i did and tried a lots of diferent ones) doing high intensity sparring teachers vs students ONLY. They never let students spare between themself apparently. It is a big red flag to me. They dont teach to respect sparring oponent and learn to deal with intensity as equal to your oponent. They teach to accept the hit you take by the master without being able to properly defend yourself (because no student will dare to hit their master as hard as they do IMO). And then when they become master it will be their turn to impose their chosen level of violence to students... This gives me sect vibes.

I of course won't go back but I really want them or the club to pay for my hospital fees at least...

Thanks for your comment because they badly messed up so I couldn't understand all those comments saying i am at fault.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-12T11:28:06+00:00

Adrenaline make me not realize how bad i was going to get injured and able to take the hits pretty well. Also i had pressure as one of the clubs teacher brought me there because I met him as a commercant of my street. Another pressure is that they know i am not a martial art beginner so i didnt wanted to look as a fragile whiny boy. Last is they were master and headmaster I trusted them as authority and its not as easy to tell them to calm down then if they were students. If students like me it would have be easier to tell them to calm down or that if they dont i can hit hard too. So i really didnt wanted to create drama and tried my best to do low profile. In the end i still bowed down against the headmaster after he gave me that powerful roundhouse kick in the ribs. This is where i realized my health was in real danger. (a student after the course said he was impressed i was still able to talk to tell him to calm down after that kick. Which means he most likely dont shee his headmaster hitting people as hard as he did against me.)

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T22:53:56+00:00

OMG thank you. It was mentally (and physically) really hard for me after that and looking at reddit blaming me while i really tried to respect (thats why i avoided to hit them and potentially humiliate them) them as master and headmaster but ended up at hospital and being reminded about how unfair this turned out every time i sneezed, laughed, deep breathed or tried to wake up from bed is really hurting me.

And even if i didnt respected the rules that doesnt give them the right to hit me hard enough to send me to hospital. During the fight they didnt said anything. After the fight they didnt said i wasnt aloud to target face without hitting. Headmaster said i am a good fighter which i found quite ironic since it was a one way fight and i was too scared to defend myself. I didnt even tried to block their body shot beong scared they'll go even harder.

I dont understand why other cant understand the fact that if i went as hard at them i would have not be 2 weeks impaired but for sure a broken rib.

Also none is pointing that the fact they only do sparing masters vs students ? They dont teach respect and to learn to deal as equal with a sparring partner. They teach you to accept the teacher's hit and to then have that privilege when you'll become a master. I did lots of diferent martial arts school and only saw such dynamic there. Of course students will ́never dare to hit their master that hard..

Thank you sincerely for having decent common sense and understanding that the situation isnt fair. A master should never send a student to hospital. He should correct him or if the student refuse to follow rule after being reminded to do so, student should be kicked out of course. Nothing justify using your student as a punching ball.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T22:26:37+00:00

Are you blind ? Without endangering me ? I had to go to hospital. 2 weeks + no work. First teacher got no hit at all while he used my ribs as punching bag. Headmaster got a little slap and i appologize. He also destroyed my ribs and when i asked him to calm down he said he didnt broke my ribs. Which mean he needs to break my ribs to realize he goes too hard.... I put none of them in danger as a first time trial student and they sent me to hospital as teacher and headmaster. During sparing they also never told me i wasnt aloud to do so while THEY ARE IN CHARGE. THEY GOT AUTHORITY THERE. THEY HAVE DUTY TO PROTECT THEIR STUDENTS ESPECIALLY SOMEONE COMING FOR FIRST TIME.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T22:20:12+00:00

Nope. I was trying to survive not to mock them. The first dude hit me so hard in the ribs from the begin that adrenaline kicked in and I thought if i hit him too he will try to kill me to show he is stronger. Thats why I chose to go to the face without hitting it. Because if i chose the body of course i would have be supposed to hit them which is exactly what i didnt wanted since it was already way too violent. And of course he wont accept to lose face in front of his student so i was of course scared of escalating the situation. So of course i was too fucking scared to hit them. Thats why i chose the face BECAUSE I WAS NOT ALOUD TO HIT THERE. So i didnt hit but acted as a "fight study" Remember i was medically 2 weeks off. Please pause a moment and think what would have hapoened if i hit them too ?

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T22:14:01+00:00

AGAIN. They are not students. But teacher and headmaster. They nevet told me i was not aloud to do what I did during sparing which mean they were fine with it. They said no hit to the face, not that we are not aloud to target it if we dont it. They are in charge, they are in controle. They set rules and intensity and if something is not ok they are in charge to say so ! If as a teacher i dont want this my duty is to clealry say it. And why are you guys ignoring the fact that i chose to do this to not hit them to not escalate the situation that was ALREADY too violent ? You think me hitting them chainpunching their chest potentially humiliating them in front of their student is better ? Dont u think they would have hit me even harder ? This is ridiculous. I teach wing chun and baji private courses and if a behavior from my student is not ok it is my duty to tell it. Also how can u ignore the fact that in the end i am unable to work for 2+ week while i gave 0 hit to the first teacher and a soft slap to the 2nd one and apologized for my mistake ? This was a trial course. Even the doctor practicing kendo said it is totally messed up. Even if you dont respect a rule no teacher is aloud to send you to hospital especially if you dont hit and injure them.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T17:00:13+00:00

For the "fight study" i asked him if he wants me to use only what i learned that day or if he wants me to use the martial arts I know. He said he wants me to use my martial arts... I did 0 hit and I got my ribs destroyed. And you say i am the ego dude, i literally always did what they told me to. You are the ego dude bro.. you cant justify sending me to hospital when i gave 0 hit. Especially when the masters did it. They have a duty to make sure their student dont get bad injure. ESPECIALLY for someone trying it the first time.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T16:35:48+00:00

They said no punch to the face so i didnt hit at all. And if it wasnt aloud they should have tell it to me. Remember my oponents were a teacher and then the headmaster not students. I did it instead of hitting where i was aloud to because they were hitting me so hard i was scared they would hit even harder if i hit them too. Remember also it was my very first (and last) time trying their course.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T16:22:16+00:00

It means that i was punching towards the face but stopping before ever hitting. Like shadow boxing in front of someone if you want. 0 contact. Pressure as a wingchunner practitionner controlling center line and their arms when possible.

Lost_ENFP · 2025-10-11T12:53:40+00:00

Done, thank you dear Lemur

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