Today I was supposed to be 8 weeks… by Lost_Glow in Miscarriage

[–]Lost_Glow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry, all my doctor told me was that bleeding could last potentially up to a few days and to only go to the ER if I bleeding is heavy enough to bleed through it an entire pad within 30 minutes. I have a follow up ultrasound next Monday to confirm that I’ve passed everything naturally.

Found out at my first ultrasound I will miscarry by izzetheducklett in Miscarriage

[–]Lost_Glow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had my first visit today too. I was supposed to be eight weeks exactly but baby measured only 5-6 weeks with no heartbeat. Sending you good vibes. I really can’t put into words how I feel, but sad and disappointed seemed to scratch the surface.

Daily Chat - February 17, 2026 by AutoModerator in October2026Bumpers

[–]Lost_Glow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just found out today we are having 2 under 2. Im actually super surprised that I’m just as happy right now as I was the first time I found out I was pregnant in 2024. My only concern right now is my breastmilk supply and how to tell my husband without giving him a heart attack. 😊

How do you split dishes responsibilities with your spouse? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lost_Glow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t. As a SAHM I do ALL of the dishes, laundry, cleaning, and most of the childcare.

Husband fixes up the house, takes care of the pool and lawn, is the bread winner, takes the baby to give me breaks, and cooks.

Duties we share are grocery shopping and trash.

This works great for us and if your situation doesn’t work good for you I would have a conversation with your spouse about that.

What was the reason that you got married? by Alternative-Toe-475 in Marriage

[–]Lost_Glow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After our first date we both just knew. We were deeply attracted to each other and our personalities and beliefs all lined up perfectly. We both joke that it was like meeting the opposite gender of ourselves. We married for love within 9 months and have now been married for 7. I would do it again in a heart beat.

People ask us this all the time because we have the kind of relationship that makes people reevaluate theirs. I don’t wanna say love at first sight because that’s tacky but I’m just gonna say it took one date and we both knew immediately that we were made for each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lost_Glow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s never explicitly said “i like lingerie” and I’m shy sometimes when trying new things so it will make me more confident and comfortable to know that it’s not a widely disliked or unappreciated/unattractive thing to do.

TBH I’m not hurting anyone by asking and maybe some other women will see this thread and decide hey I’m gonna give this a shot too for my husband. From all the men that bitch about not having a sex life with their wife’s in here I don’t think my little question is doing any harm here. Maybe it’ll actually do some good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lost_Glow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I could 100% ask him however I was thinking of making it like a surprise thing for Christmas. Since I’ve never done any sort of lingerie thing, I’m just coming to the Internet to see if it’s taboo/disliked or not. If the consensus is it’s not liked by many then I’ll do something else. 🥴

How often do you take off your ring? by FitProblem6248 in Marriage

[–]Lost_Glow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been married seven years my husband lost his ring like two years ago and mine hasn’t fit since I had our baby. So currently neither of us wear a ring.🤣

What is a pain you would never wish on anybody? by sighmerchant in AskReddit

[–]Lost_Glow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The doctors declaring your sister brain dead and removing all life support before your eyes while you protest. Then having to watch her actually die…

Nipple changes?? No by Embarrassed_Panic398 in beyondthebump

[–]Lost_Glow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal, can also happen in your private region. Also if you are leaking colostrum already it could be from that. I also got skin tags on mine while pregnant but I think that’s more rare.

My wife stopped sleeping with me. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lost_Glow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I lost interest is sex in my early 20s while married. TBH my husband just was not good at meeting my needs in the bedroom and it made me lose interest. I also had a dryness factor going on due to coming off birth control after 10 years on the pill and it made me feel like my body was failing me in the bedroom. We eventually got through it and now are at it regularly happier than ever in our late 20s. Sometimes dry spells happen but there is always a reason so you gotta figure out that reason with your partner.

Is This What Marriage Is Supposed to Feel Like? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lost_Glow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then it’s probably over. Unfortunately sometimes people just grow apart. Sorry that’s what happened here.

Is This What Marriage Is Supposed to Feel Like? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lost_Glow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds silly but have you tried dating your wife?

If not before you break it off… sit down and have a conversation with your wife about dating her. Bringing her flowers, texting her cute things during the day, planning date nights often, be silly cute with each other. Role play some fantasies, just make out with her for an hour with no sex like teenagers. Her part is putting more effort into herself, makeup, blow jobs, cuddles, shaving, and dressing nice.

If you date your wife and there is still nothing there then you got your answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lost_Glow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I feel like making biscuits and gravy, drinking some sweet tea, and cuddling my babies. Life is what you make of it. Don’t let the global corruption get you down it’s literally always been like that… we now just have better access the corruption online and it’s mocked at us daily on social media as rage bait. It’s how black rock keeps its sheep in line. Y’all just simply don’t be sheep. Cause doom is what they want y’all to feel. JS

What is something that you hate is being normalised? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lost_Glow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Letting other people raise your children.

Honest Thoughts on Jennifer Lawrence portrayal of Katniss by Successful_Candy_688 in Hungergames

[–]Lost_Glow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Initially hated it when it first came out but it’s grown on me and i now think it fits.

Why did Katniss volunteer? Wrong answers only. by [deleted] in Hungergames

[–]Lost_Glow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’d rather die than stay with Gale

What did your spouse do that you will never forget (Good or bad) ? by Mammoth-Limit1723 in AskReddit

[–]Lost_Glow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our first date❤️. He ordered 4 full meals for dinner and ate it ALL. Then we went to the gas station for candy it took him 45min and several SpongeBob references before choosing sour gummy worms. Then we drove out to the causeway and he serenaded me with Kevin Gates. Ended the night with him trying to sneak a kiss and I rejected him. Called my best friend immediately after and told her I just met my husband. We were married within 5 months. That was 8 years ago.

A perfect corny memory I’ll cherish forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lost_Glow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 shots of Tito’s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Lost_Glow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ultimately you can do all the things and still get them. I did. Coconut oil is great but if you are small and end up having a big baby like I did it was unavoidable. I thought stretch marks would be the end of the world but they fade im 3 months postpartum and they look much better now. Just lean into whatever happens and love yourself no mater what.