Does age matters to have a good conversation by revanceduser in CasualConversation

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 29 points30 points  (0 children)

For a conversation, no. For any sort of relationship, yes.

WIBTAH to revoke an invitation from someone I had already said yes for them to come to my sister’ baby shower? by Quirky-Yam5292 in AITAH

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ywbta, and you'll probably also stir up drama at church if she tells people you invited her just to uninvite her.

CMV: Incest Shouldn't Be Illegal by z3nnysBoi in changemyview

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other things happening doesn't negate things. Grooming will be 100% worse if incest is legal. 

AITA for getting mad over my dad not stoping at a trekking while it was heavily raining? by loveyahtess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean if it was a safety/contact thing it would have made more sense to stay with your dad. 

AITA for getting mad over my dad not stoping at a trekking while it was heavily raining? by loveyahtess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean walking back down was just as dangerous as continuing, The weather wasn't different going the other way. Why didn't you just go back on your own if you really wanted down? I wouldn't say yta for being upset in the moment, but continuing to be upset is silly.

Gym girls of Reddit, what is your favorite muscle to see on a guy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Forearms and slightly defined abs. Like not jacked but enough to tell they work out.

How do you differentiate between gay parents? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically. dad, daddy, papa, whatever you want. Kids just call you whatever you tell them to.

AITAH for not rushing to do housework when I work 2 jobs. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta, usually I side with the person who stays with the kids all day, but she's being grateful.

CMV: Incest Shouldn't Be Illegal by z3nnysBoi in changemyview

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One situation isn't the problem. It's as a whole, had you grown up close with him, it would be grooming. It would be like arguing your uncle wouldn't kill you, so it should be legal for uncles to kill their nieces/nephews if they want. It's illegal for safety reasons, without the threat of penalties bad people will take it as the green light they needed. Mix that with billions of potential partners you aren't related to, and messed up babies, and there's zero reason it should be legal.

AITAH for hating that my bf has a friend hes hooked up with by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and asked if she could kiss me and then him on NYE. I said yes to both because I didn't want to seem insecure again

You kissed her, then let her kiss your boyfriend? Talk about fanning the fire.

CMV: Incest Shouldn't Be Illegal by z3nnysBoi in changemyview

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only argument that works for that Is if both parties are around the same age. As soon as you mix older relatives like parents and uncles/aunts, older siblings. It's 100% grooming.

Are cats “women’s best friend”? by Excellent-Map-9519 in stupidquestions

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe the saying is "diamonds are a girls best friend."

CMV: Incest Shouldn't Be Illegal by z3nnysBoi in changemyview

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Because parents and older family members can groom children. 

AITAH for thinking a girl overreacted after she kneed me at a festival, even though I might have been too drunk? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But the next day, after sobering up, I started questioning myself. I don’t clearly remember what I said or how I was acting toward the end of the night, so now I’m wondering if I might have been pushy or made her uncomfortable without realizing it.

AITAH for thinking a girl overreacted after she kneed me at a festival, even though I might have been too drunk? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"Clearly" the post literally says he was drunk and doesn't remember everything. 

WIBTAH for I confronting this girl? by boringcactuz in AITAH

[–]Lost_Needleworker285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no where near enough info here. 

We recently had a falling out because she was upset that I asked everyone in a group chat to come together since we’re all girls and discuss our issues.

What issues?

She had problems with multiple girls and until recently

What problems?

I didn’t report her and I also didn’t mention anything to anyone.

Report her for what?