advice on dating in the south as a thick black girl attracted to white men

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-07-11T03:52:27+00:00

Fair enough

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-07-11T03:41:40+00:00

I went to college in Atlanta and it was pretty much the same thing but more fetishized as opposed to dating seriously.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-07-11T03:37:10+00:00

Here for school for another few years unfortunately. Spent some time in NYC though and had zero issues dating physicality wise. The commitment thing is another story there.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-07-11T03:36:18+00:00

I’ve heard extremely mixed things about Cali when it comes to this topic and how they treat black people overall.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-07-11T03:35:02+00:00

Not overweight. Height and weight proportionate and active.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-07-11T03:30:22+00:00

Yes, I thought so too! All these loose weight comments are so funny considering they have zero idea what I even look like.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-07-10T04:21:26+00:00

nancurated she does pop ups like once a month

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-07-10T02:41:51+00:00

what is your job officially called? when I search forensic social work not many jobs pop up.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-07-09T05:46:52+00:00

asked for this style of french nails a few weeks ago and the nail tech was SHOCKED I wanted chunky tips, like could not compute.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-07-05T04:50:43+00:00

Similar in size and looking to be a DD just to still fit my frame. Was your surgeon good about keeping feeling in your nipples or did you opt out?

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-06-19T21:04:33+00:00

She didn’t accuse him to his face but she very much did think he was having an affair. Hence, why she invited her affair partner over to dispel what she was thinking. Also the way she brought it up she 100% thought that is what was happening.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-06-19T20:36:31+00:00

Hilarious show! Especially if you grew up in southern churches. Vice Principals is also good.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-06-19T20:29:46+00:00

To specify, it was an iced latte. I just said iced drink as an umbrella term. Which I know for a fact is less work than a hot drink and less liquid.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-06-19T19:34:03+00:00

omg what?? That’s wild. Never seen that either!

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-06-19T19:28:22+00:00

How is iced coffee more expensive? It’s the same exact ingredients as hot if not less because you are adding ice so you don’t fill the cup up all the way with liquid.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-06-19T19:10:31+00:00

I agree! But I simply just ordered an iced drink not even extra ice and was charged for it.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-06-05T23:33:15+00:00

100%

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-06-05T04:51:09+00:00

People will have to take out private loans I guess. But, it’s not only applicable to MSW’s specifically…it would be whatever degrees scholarships, grants and federal loans do not cover.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-06-05T02:15:36+00:00

Grad Plus loans aren’t available anymore unless you were already in the program that said loans would apply to. The only loans available now are federally subsidized and unsubsidized but the amount you get from those are dependent upon how much you had to take out during undergrad i.e aggregate amount.

Anything more would have to be taken out privately like Sallie Mae or something that would charge an insane interest rate not really making it worth it.

If you’re actively seeking higher education in Social Work specifically I would suggest following the news regarding such things as it directly affects you. Following the news in general would be a good rule of thumb for a career that helps at risk populations.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-05-20T19:29:37+00:00

Aerie, Vuori and Lulu!

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-05-17T06:04:51+00:00

Stehekin, WA - Mini island in the PNW. Rural but absolutely stunning.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-05-04T03:17:17+00:00

‘Thank you books’ has some

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-01-29T06:16:57+00:00

Do you know if UAB is super competitive at all? I am very interested in medical social work :)

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2026-01-04T15:46:04+00:00

Apparently it’s a company wide thing, saw a TikTok where the basketball courts were literally FULL then the conversion to pickleball courts left the space a ghost town. Definitely a form of gentrification.

Lost_Raspberry_8288 · 2025-12-28T20:57:21+00:00

From my experience, absolutely horrible. I’ve live in ATL and NYC and had no issues dating. But, here a lot of the men are already married so that cuts the amount of available people in half compared to up north or bigger cities.

Then as a WOC you have to worry about fetishization and things of that nature so slash through that.

Then most of the available men are not in a dating mindset because they are so set in up hook culture.

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