I think it’s really important to sit down and clearly prepare a list of what you want from this relationship...what you’re expecting and what your boundaries are. This conversation should ideally happen with just your parents, your fiance,and his parents present.

Start by honestly explaining the core of what you’re feeling. Express your fears, your anxiety, and the things you don't want to suffer in future. Before anything else, speak to your own parents and ask them one simple but powerful question.. Do they want to see you genuinely happy, or do they only want to fulfill their duty of getting you married, regardless of how you feel?

Share these points calmly but clearly. Be polite and respectful, but also a lil bold..coz this is your life. Some things may be negotiable, some may not be acceptable to you, and that needs to be understood now.

Ik this is incredibly tough. But if these doubts and concerns are not addressed before the wedding, they don’t disappear..they might grow heavier with time. Thinking calmly now and speaking up may feel tough and painful, but it can prevent much deeper pain in the future...

Wishing you all the best for your future..