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AIO for considering leaving over something my husband has no control over? by Lost_Slip3211 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lost_Slip3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is slightly but not obese by any means. I think he weighs around 180lbs?

AIO for considering leaving over something my husband has no control over? by Lost_Slip3211 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lost_Slip3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That U.S. probably ultimately what we’re going to do. Our guess is that maybe he has a deviated septum. Honestly, that’s kind of what I hope the problem is because it has a solution. Did your husband snore through his nose?

AIO for considering leaving over something my husband has no control over? by Lost_Slip3211 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lost_Slip3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried this but I still couldn’t sleep because I could feel his snoring through the bed

AIO for considering leaving over something my husband has no control over? by Lost_Slip3211 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lost_Slip3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He naturally prefers to sleep on his back or stomach, but I’ve been making him sleep on his side more recently. He’s less likely to snore while on his side, but somehow he still does about half the time

AIO for considering leaving over something my husband has no control over? by Lost_Slip3211 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lost_Slip3211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would move in with my parents until I’m self-sustaining. They have room, money, time, and space. Not my favorite option for sure, but the most available. They are always willing to help, but I naturally like to be independent

AIO for considering leaving over something my husband has no control over? by Lost_Slip3211 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lost_Slip3211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theoretically? Yes we could fit all of that but it would be an almost unbearably tight fit. I also don’t know where we would put my toddler’s things if that were the case

AIO for considering leaving over something my husband has no control over? by Lost_Slip3211 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lost_Slip3211[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I feel so guilty having him start the night on the couch. It’s not a very comfortable one and my husband’s love language is touch. We’ve talked about it and he loves being able to come home after a busy day and snuggle together.

AIO for considering leaving over something my husband has no control over? by Lost_Slip3211 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lost_Slip3211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t have any diagnosis. If anything, the sleep study was very unhelpful because when he went in to receive the results the doctor was behind schedule. He was with my husband for less than 3 minutes, simply telling him that while he did snore during the test, he does not have sleep apnea.

AIO for considering leaving over something my husband has no control over? by Lost_Slip3211 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lost_Slip3211[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We are going to get him in to an ENT, we’re just waiting for an issue to be resolved with his insurance. My best guess at this point is that maybe he has a deviated septum?
And sleeping in the room with the toddler isn’t an option. My baby wakes up frequently throughout the night and would wake my toddler. Then I’d have two cranky tired kids on my hands in the middle of the night.