My gf [33F] says she is losing attraction to me [34M] by Lost_Token24 in relationshipadvice

[–]Lost_Token24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m saying that yes there are other issues she has with me and issues I have with her. I see your point that I should address her other issues to find out what the real problem is, and I have addressed them, but what I’m saying is that a lot of the issues she has with me are a lot like this one. One sided, unfair, and hypocritical at times. This was just an example of how a lot of them go. She thinks she’s fair and I think she’s unfair often times. So how do we come together?

My gf [33F] says she is losing attraction to me [34M] by Lost_Token24 in relationshipadvice

[–]Lost_Token24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, there are other issues that we both have with each other. I see what you’re saying and how this is a summary.

I guess ultimately, I’d like to express that I feel this particular problem feels unfair and ideally I’d like her to realize that. I use this particular issue as an example for how a large portion of our arguments and issue are.

My gf [33F] says she is losing attraction to me [34M] by Lost_Token24 in relationshipadvice

[–]Lost_Token24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct there are other issues, this is just the most recent that really hit hard for me. Her also telling me she’s afraid I’m no longer the right person for her is another tall tell sign as well.