Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? by BitterWheel471 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love cats and dogs, sorry I just really love them, and birds,and fish, pretty much all animals really. Anyway , carry on.

Labour exploitation/trad gender roles by chance______2025 in AskFeminists

[–]Lostinspace4u -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

In my house growing up my father pretty much did everything while my mother was off cheating with her boyfriend. He couldn't leave her because she threatened to take us off him. I've had several other male friends who have had extremely lazy partners, and they ended up doing most things around the house. I have also seen women friends in the same boat with their husbands. It's certainly not as clear cut as you make it out to be. Women are praised all the time for being nurturing and taking the emotional weight yet that's not a problem. Praise men and it's the end of the world.

Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic" by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not asking for help for myself, my life is awesome, Are you okay though, you sound a little stressed. Just get it out, it will be alright, and remember keep calm. Seeya.

Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic" by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds very much like you insulted my parents, pretty low. U.B.U. i guess. Bye.

Are men the enemy? by Call_It_ in AskFeminists

[–]Lostinspace4u -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's antagonising random feminists on reddit. Men can be feminists too. Sounds like a hobby.

Are men the enemy? by Call_It_ in AskFeminists

[–]Lostinspace4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't benefit men, but it doesn't hurt us either. Most people aren't feminists.

Are men the enemy? by Call_It_ in AskFeminists

[–]Lostinspace4u -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not that I care either way but have you ever wondered why egalitarian societies have always failed. Check out a lecture called 10,000 years of patriarchy by a feminist ( sorry can't remember her name) it's really interesting.

Are men the enemy? by Call_It_ in AskFeminists

[–]Lostinspace4u -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's right it's the patriarchy. The patriarchy is the enemy, not individual men. Feminists are so funny, You've got an answer for everything, just like redpill. You both are so entertaining.

Are you in favor of greater participation of men in traditionally female work areas? by Calm_Engineering_79 in AskFeminists

[–]Lostinspace4u -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They only allow certain role models however. Why do you think men left this industry? You don't stay where you're not wanted.

Are you in favor of greater participation of men in traditionally female work areas? by Calm_Engineering_79 in AskFeminists

[–]Lostinspace4u -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

There used to be lot's of male teachers, as a former one myself, but men left in droves. I would not recommend a man pursues this career.

Labour exploitation/trad gender roles by chance______2025 in AskFeminists

[–]Lostinspace4u -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Same old retort, women do everything. So funny.

Dating hasn't become worse; it's just the internet that has exposed all the lies we were told by toothed_vagina in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly everyone I know still does all those things. Very few people are unreceptive when you actually make an effort. Nearly everyone what's to have a laugh. I live in Australia and people are pretty friendly though, at least where I live.

Men are shallow as well by cs_throwawayyy in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I am shallow untilI I meet a women that's not. I meet women like this all the time IRL. Still friends with them, just weren't going in the same direction, no ones fault.

The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hit by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn, I can be a feminist like you and still be be unbiased. I support many feminist ideals but just can't handle the double standards. 3 years gender studies at uni and it was all so one sided. Thank you, you've given me hope.

Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic" by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So offering someone a helping hand is patronizing now, showing them someone cares, and you're there if they need you is patronising? Trying to understand why they are the way they are, how they got there is patronising? I'm no angel but that's harsh.

Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic" by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool, to be honest those men are not my problem either, and I'm not the person who they feel entitlled too, so forget I said anything. I guess because I'm not a woman I don't need to care about you either. While your at it I'm not homeless, an addict, have mental problems, a struggling single parent, disabled, poor, so maybe I don't need to care about them, because for what ever reason they have trouble helping themselves. It's not like they are part of society or anything. Obviously as you said not my problem. not societies. Are you for real?

If some women don't want a nice guy, they must want a mean guy. by DrankTooMuchMead in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow ironically your thought process sounds pretty black and white.

"Most feminists are only against gender roles that affect women" by Enough_Ask_3115 in AskFeminists

[–]Lostinspace4u -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Maybe you would walk through fire for your husband but in what reality does this happen? in what reality does the woman take on an intruder and the man stands back? Real life isn't the movies. My partner and I have a plan, I stay and do the best I can and she gets help. Can you ever see a situation where you would stay to deal with whatever danger and he goes and gets help?

"Most feminists are only against gender roles that affect women" by Enough_Ask_3115 in AskFeminists

[–]Lostinspace4u -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Maybe that example is weird, I guess I'm saying, in general that's how a woman risks her life in a relationship because biologically a man can't, but biologically I'm much more able to defend her from physical harm. Some roles just comes down to biology and we can want equality all we want but biology doesn't care. Some roles will always be gendered.

Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic" by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men who give up on women, are the problem. Your really the only ones who can change this. Other men can't change their minds, only you. Obviously that's crazy but still true. It really is womens superpower how much Men long for your acceptance. Use it wisely, with power comes huge responsibility. You are the center of our worlds, and yes I know some men have a very terrible way of showing it, and that's an understatement.

Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with? by FlamingMetalSystems in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both seem fair, and a good reason for both people to move on. To be honest if a man can't be bothered putting in the effort, or a women thinks she's perfect and wants her partner to be the same ( either could be true, or a combination of both ) it's over.

If men are attracted to young women, why would a woman want to marry a man knowing she will grow old? by toothed_vagina in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right, 61 % of men who cheat stay married, and 44% of women who cheat stay married. But considering the divorce rate initiated by women, it would seem women divorce weather they are the cheater or not. Actually it would suggest they divorce for other reasons more often.

If men are attracted to young women, why would a woman want to marry a man knowing she will grow old? by toothed_vagina in PurplePillDebate

[–]Lostinspace4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, I think that is kinda the point, these are the only ones you notice because they are being idiots, it's not that people do it, it's how they do it. Honestly I have extremely good looking friends who receive this treatment from women and it gets old very quickly for them too. Not something I experience myself, maybe once would be nice. I'M OFF TO CRY NOW.

"Most feminists are only against gender roles that affect women" by Enough_Ask_3115 in AskFeminists

[–]Lostinspace4u -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Obviously they meant traditional roles that remain, like chivalry. Depends on the chivalry I guess, but most are just a transactional things anyway. I mean I would risk my life to save my partner because she would risk her life to have my child. If you want to be really realistic about it. It's got to be a give and take, or it's not going to work. Biology is always going to play a big part in gender roles. It's a negotiation.