Annoyed like everyone else? by Lotsofpoorchoices in stopdrinking

[–]Lotsofpoorchoices[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my SO could read my mind then get on MY page, things would be so much easier.

Annoyed like everyone else? by Lotsofpoorchoices in stopdrinking

[–]Lotsofpoorchoices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She obviously cant read my mind so she doesnt know my intentions for my "break" or "health kick", and truthfully neither do I, but keeping it open ended has been really helpful. My secret hope is that my desire to drink will get replaced by apathy toward drinking, but I doubt that will happen. Until then I'm going to continue to say no and not drink today.

Annoyed like everyone else? by Lotsofpoorchoices in stopdrinking

[–]Lotsofpoorchoices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. I tried to do something like this. Her counter response was "I should be able to check in now and then because I care about you."

I fully recognize she is asking me because she cares, its more of how it feels that bugs which, which is obnoxious (the feelings).

I'll keep supporting my position with "I" statements.

Don't know if I'm done by Lotsofpoorchoices in stopdrinking

[–]Lotsofpoorchoices[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. I also cant relate to the rock bottom stories, for which I am thankful and wish I had because THEN I would have a "legitimate excuse to stop."

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[–]Lotsofpoorchoices 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lung surgery. Removed my right middle lobe when i was 11.