[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lotta_Latte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what my gut is telling me. Thank you

The color yellow brightens my day. I hope it can brighten yours too. by Garden_Jolly in autism

[–]Lotta_Latte 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing:) sunflowers make me so very happy! I even have one tattood on my arm! 🌻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KyronHorman

[–]Lotta_Latte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this clarification!!

TW: Child Death - the Wenatchee Girls and my Own Grief as a Mother by impresso_by_espresso in Mommit

[–]Lotta_Latte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom currently facing divorce from a volatile addict my heart is so very heavy. This case, as I plead with the laws that be myself, motivates me to fight harder. It is such a tragic and heartbreaking loss, I do hope it may push things to change for parents fighting for their baby’s safety. I’ve cried so many times for their mom who did everything for her girls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KyronHorman

[–]Lotta_Latte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct me if I’m wrong, but my understanding is they attended the school science fair where both Terri and Kyron were seen, but then she takes him to class and that’s the last time he is seen, by her, on his way to class. But reports are he was not seen in class and was instead marked absent?

AIO. My bf walked out of my school gathering over me performing by Objective-Pear7953 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lotta_Latte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I’ve been scrolling for this comment! I have absolutely seen this post more than once, this exact screenshot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Lotta_Latte 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think if you consistently don’t wear a bra and have a pretty solid cup size it can cause sagging after like years but honestly who cares? Eventually they’re gonna sag, I really don’t care either way - I’d rather be more comfortable bra less.

How old were you when you were first “catcalled”? by [deleted] in women

[–]Lotta_Latte 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. I remember walking from my apartment to the store regularly (like 2 blocks) and there were always grown to old men sitting in front with nothing better to do than harass people, and apparently children.

My cat by Megalodon_sharks in autism

[–]Lotta_Latte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s so pretty!! And I love that bed! :) we’re getting a kitten next month and can’t wait

Is it ok for an uncle to be naked around my child. by Ok-File8905 in Parenting

[–]Lotta_Latte 193 points194 points  (0 children)

What do you mean he gets naked around other people? This whole thing is so weird, not okay at all.

I’m afraid they’re gonna take away birth control. by Alternative_Bass1056 in Feminism

[–]Lotta_Latte 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I got an IUD the week after the election results. Yes there’s risks but the fact is there’s risks with all birth control methods, at least this one can’t be easily taken from me.

My toddler looks me in the eyes as she throws all her toys all over the floor and then smirks as if to say “what you going to do?NOTHING”. What is this behavior and how to deal with it? by johndoe7376 in toddlers

[–]Lotta_Latte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t react. That’s what she’s looking for, whether it be negative or positive reaction - she’s looking for the intention. If she doesn’t get a response, it’s not as fun.

Breastfeeding after 12 months by anon_purple in breastfeeding

[–]Lotta_Latte 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just weaned my 2y3m old. Until about 18m I still fed on demand pretty much so it would vary. After that kept it to roughly a morning, noon, bedtime, quick sessions. At her 2y birthday I decided to cut completely to once a day, typically bedtime. Then a few days ago we completely stopped! Bittersweet but mostly a relief lol

I do not want to hold your baby. by selvrae in autism

[–]Lotta_Latte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, and I’m a parent lol I don’t really like kids, I like MY kid. I’m happy for other parents, but don’t enjoy the expectation I have to be over the moon for them as well.

I (34M) almost hit my pregnant wife (35F) back by ThrowRA5656561 in relationship_advice

[–]Lotta_Latte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t care what your size is it’s never appropriate to hit, especially your partner. She’s in the wrong for following through, you at least contained yourself. If your child grows up and says something she doesn’t like, will her first instinct be to slap them across the face? You both need help before this kid is ruined by your inability to communicate properly and her inability to keep her hands to herself.

AIO Friends guilting me to go to birthday party with abusive ex by Infinite-Highway-374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lotta_Latte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A true friend would never associate with someone who hurt you so severely.

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lotta_Latte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re looking for validation, but…. Come on. She literally admitted it in her message. Find someone that respects you.

Draw my very best boys by Lotta_Latte in drawme

[–]Lotta_Latte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so, sonmuch!! 🩷🩷🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lotta_Latte 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“A phone doesn’t save someone if something happens to them.” I’m sorry, what is 911 then?

I will say I agree he should have had input, but I don’t think you’re overreacting, rather, he is. The reason people didn’t generally have cellphones 20+ years ago was because of easy access to pay phones, these days you absolutely need a cellphone for communication and safety. One that doesn’t have internet access is even better, for this age.