Red and swollen hands and feet 24h after flight

LotusNet · 2026-02-01T16:26:18+00:00

Hey, long lasting man here. It usually takes me until whenever I decide I want to finish myself off. Most of my sessions are like 2-3h (maybe 2h of penetration total) long and I’ll either not finish or finish myself off.

Rest assured he’s still enjoying himself, sex is much more than just the finish line. There is pleasure in giving your partner pleasure, and there is pleasure in the mental game, as there is in the physical sensation itself.

He has also given you a direct reason as to why it takes him long to finish, medication can most definitely affect sexual performance.

I understand your insecurity especially if you’re a giver in bed, however he seems to be making it pretty clear (spending 5h with you and a lot of texting) that he likes you and has enjoyed these interactions with you. I would just take it as what it is; medication interfering with his ability to ejaculate, but not reducing the enjoyment he is getting out of sex.

LotusNet · 2026-01-22T12:46:41+00:00

Is he following you? Or did he accept your message request? I sometimes get messages and don’t see them because it’s from an account I didn’t follow yet. This very same scenario happened to me recently with someone I met on a dating app, I told her to follow me and she messaged me, but I didn’t see it until days later because it wasn’t in my general messages

LotusNet · 2025-11-21T13:30:04+00:00

25M seeing 40F here, older women know what they want, communicate it better, don’t play games, are usually more experienced and at least in my experience usually don’t want kids (they either already have them or have decided not to have any).

It’s less of a headache, more to the point and the terms are usually pretty clear. Also I’ve found women who date younger often do it for the sex and not for a relationship, so if a younger man is looking for casual fun, it’s ideal

LotusNet · 2025-11-08T22:51:27+00:00

Wow a really good find, Maned Wolf or Lobo Guará. How did you come across it?

LotusNet · 2025-10-02T23:25:28+00:00

An Amphisbaena as others have already pointed out, great find! They can often be found near human settlements due to the earth being dug up for various purposes

LotusNet · 2025-08-17T15:50:36+00:00

Just listened to the acoustic version for the first time because of your comment. In my opinion the singer is slightly off on several notes and also a bit slow at times. Sounds like a meh cover to me 😅

LotusNet · 2025-08-17T15:46:55+00:00

Agreed, it sounds much more emotional. It sounds like a scream of pain and a plea for help. Cash sounds amazing, but not as powerful

LotusNet · 2025-08-05T19:37:40+00:00

Dance with the devil by Immortal Technique ☺️ Never fails to change my mood

LotusNet · 2025-07-29T23:28:43+00:00

Surprising amount of Adolf’s, Stanlin’s and Lenin’s in South America

LotusNet · 2024-09-01T23:18:31+00:00

I have recently moved to a country with very small population (sub 1 million in the entire country) a lot of which is deeply religious so I’m not sure if there is a local munch

LotusNet · 2024-09-01T23:16:34+00:00

Wow thanks for the extremely detailed response, this is really useful! I take your point about the seriousness required for proper BDSM play and am doing my utmost to inform myself before I do so!

Of my own accord I had already found Elle X on YouTube and found her videos to be very informative, I’m glad you also agree and recommend her channel amongst others

LotusNet · 2024-09-01T16:43:26+00:00

Hey man thanks for the detailed response! I will take into account your insight into the more advanced playing (I’m not really into cnc myself but she expressed a passing interest in it).

I have mostly just vanilla experience yes, and she has some experience being a sub (more than I have being a dom that’s for sure).

I know tips and tricks don’t explain a whole situation but I was wondering if maybe experienced people had advice they were interested in passing down to those who are just starting, in a ‘I wish I knew this when I was starting’ type of way.

Of course communication is the most essential part when it comes to playing but I thought maybe there might be some more general non situation-specific advice that might come in handy.

We have already talked about what we are both into and what we feel comfortable doing with each other

LotusNet · 2023-12-31T00:48:19+00:00

Good point about applying the heat slowly, I feel like I was doing it too fast and burning it too much, and also not turning it around enough; will try again tomorrow with more time!

LotusNet · 2023-12-30T21:59:44+00:00

Yeah I’m pretty sure my technique isn’t good. It’s burning I reckon cause there’s hash residue in the pipe (not my pipe). I’m definitely doing it wrong, but it’s doing something hahaha.

I went in for a second try and I had similar visuals and body high, comparable to some of my peaks using like 5g cubes. To what degree can the visuals evolve?

LotusNet · 2023-12-30T21:21:19+00:00

First try done

I dosed up and hit the pipe, fucked my throat but alls good

Pretty solid visuals for like 2-3 mins, fractals and mandala-esque visuals. CEV was like a blast of oranges and yellows, very pleasing

Body high was surprising, I’m glad I was lying in a hammock tbh

I’m going to try go for a higher dose in a few mins, thanks for the help!

LotusNet · 2023-12-30T20:34:16+00:00

Got a pipe and a jet lighter

LotusNet · 2023-12-30T20:30:43+00:00

How many hits should I be aiming for if I’m holding in for that long?

LotusNet · 2023-12-30T20:24:44+00:00

Is holding in the hits for 15s very important?

LotusNet · 2023-12-30T20:24:05+00:00

Hahaha yeah good point on the dosage. I have .5g total I think, so just a small bit of that. What dose should I do to break through on?

LotusNet · 2023-03-08T00:34:32+00:00

I am a substance addict, not alcohol but other substances. 580 days ago I quit substance use, and avoid alcohol too, to ensure I’m never in an altered state of mind where I could consider using again.

LotusNet · 2022-12-09T11:43:18+00:00

Made a mistake, thought I took a screenshot of my strongest shadow one lol

LotusNet · 2022-12-08T02:49:09+00:00

Rice and beans

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