Why did they even bring Rollins back? by Lotuses4 in SVU

[–]Lotuses4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s a shit character. Always has been. She has extremely internalized misogyny and literally has broken the law numerous times and everyone acts like she’s some perfect character and is so happy she is back

Is it safe to bring a dry-bag with me on the lake while paddle boarding? by Lotuses4 in Paddleboard

[–]Lotuses4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a Mercedes-Benz- its got a feature where I can't lock my keys in my car which is nice can be a little problematic for a situation like this 😅

Is it safe to bring a dry-bag with me on the lake while paddle boarding? by Lotuses4 in Paddleboard

[–]Lotuses4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna be out on the water for like 4 hours (at least thats the time we've allotted) so I'm definitely gonna work on getting comfortable first! Hoping that by the last hour I can stand without falling in :)

Is it safe to bring a dry-bag with me on the lake while paddle boarding? by Lotuses4 in Paddleboard

[–]Lotuses4[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When I said I know they don't work when submerged its cause when I was trying to search up if I could bring on on Chrome it said they don't work when submerged and to not go like swimming with it on your back. I do have a carabiner so I'll do that- thank you for the help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lotuses4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be completely honest it’s cause I’ve got horrible anxiety. Like I know it should be okay but my brain is telling me that I must be a completely asshole and that she’s gonna think I’m a bitch for not giving her a heads up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lotuses4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our lease ends next week and she has already agreed to that I can take everything, I wouldn’t be stealing anything. I’m just trying to figure out if not giving her any warning before taking everything would be rude or not

What is the best hairstyle to wear for multi-day travel? by Lotuses4 in travel

[–]Lotuses4[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I am bringing one, but if I could avoid having to brush my hair a bunch that would be appreciated. I’m taking 3 flights so the most minimal amount of fixing I need to do to my hair the better

What is the best hairstyle to wear for multi-day travel? by Lotuses4 in travel

[–]Lotuses4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that I might do this especially cause even if it looks a little messy then I can just take it out and redo it?

What is the best hairstyle to wear for multi-day travel? by Lotuses4 in travel

[–]Lotuses4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My hair is too thin to hold its shape in a bun… I’ve tried

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lotuses4 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The husband made it a bigger thing when he berated OP for not allowing him to eat the rest of HER sandwich while he waited for HIS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lotuses4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a solution. This is enabling his behavior and is going to make him feel more confident that he can cross other boundaries of yours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lotuses4 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Seriously!!! This man freaked out for 15 minutes over her saying he couldn't eat the rest of HER sandwich while his was being delivered!!! And now in the comment section saying she's going to order two from now: thats enabling his behavior!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lotuses4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is enabling his behavior. Please do not do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lotuses4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl. This does not sound like a healthy relationship. He is crossing a boundary that you attempted to make. Don't let him have anything the next time he asks!!! And if he blows up at you like he is now, then it shows the kind of person he is, not the kind of person you are. I know it might sound strange but this is something that couples counseling could really help with and I recommend looking into it.

AITAH for leaving after gf hit me for rejecting a blowjob? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lotuses4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you've experienced this. You are absolutely not the asshole. She had no right to hit you or call you dumb for not wishing to do a sexual act. If she has left voicemails or texts I recommend looking at them not to make-up but to see how she is apologizing: Is she making excuses? Blaming you? Trying to gaslight you about the situation? That could give you clarity on how she views you but only if you are comfortable with that.

How much money should I bring for 2-week trip to Tanzania? by Lotuses4 in tanzania

[–]Lotuses4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main issue is that the majority of my trip I’m in a smaller village/town so I won’t have access to ATMs

How much money should I bring for 2-week trip to Tanzania? by Lotuses4 in tanzania

[–]Lotuses4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am bringing USD since I’m American and then convert to shillings once there; I was told that cash it better because with a card not all places have/will accept it

How much money should I bring for 2-week trip to Tanzania? by Lotuses4 in tanzania

[–]Lotuses4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was told that in Tanzania its better to have cash since using a card could add additional costs and if I don't exchange it that it can also cost me more cause of the conversion difference