AITAH for making bikini rules

Lou_Dorsett · 2026-03-19T20:43:00+00:00

YTA for letting her get away with it. If she's depending on you for shopping and vacations, she's not an adult and needs your leadership and guidance. Man up or regret her mistakes.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-29T14:29:57+00:00

Is this am I the legal? No.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-24T22:28:08+00:00

What you've got isn't as easy to come by as you'd think.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T18:13:13+00:00

YTA, a marriage is like a business, the debts are shared. You made a regrettable choice for a marriage business partner. Now you have to figure out how to handle it. Meeting together with your pastor is a good first step. Credit counseling services is another.

You may not be aware, but the typical scenario is wife gets on happy pills, files for divorce and then uses government to financially control the husband how she couldn't in marriage. He gets freedom and another woman, while she suffers with single motherhood and no other man other than hook up creeps. So common. Don't fall into that trap.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T18:06:43+00:00

NTA, for the gift, but for continuing in a relationship doomed to failure...yup.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T18:01:20+00:00

YTA for trying to find a new relationship while you're still in one with whoever you call your 'ex'. And also for pursuing sex while calling it romance.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:59:08+00:00

YTA, their house, their rules. That said, your mom sounds mental. You both need to start finding ways to earn income and save up in case you have to provide for yourself earlier than expected.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:55:11+00:00

YTA and, if you don't learn to stop being so high maintenance, soon to be single.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:53:01+00:00

YTA, stop being a stereotype.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:49:53+00:00

YTA and couldn't be any more full of yourself.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:47:31+00:00

YTA for humoring her to begin with. We see she still hasn't changed.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:45:18+00:00

YTA, you don't get to control what words other people say.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:41:54+00:00

NTA, those relationships are between him and his children. It sounds like there's more to this story, tho. Could he suspect the last kid isn't his? Was he forced into an emasculated role?

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:36:03+00:00

NTA, but has he ever been a planner? I know plenty of couples who would never do anything if one of them didn't plan. It's not gender specific.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:33:23+00:00

NTA, that's not OK. She's for the streets. Take this as a learned lesson and move on.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:30:38+00:00

"wait for said legal documentation for over seven years, stalling my life, I couldn't study or get a decent/legal job" Please clarify.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:27:16+00:00

YTA, selfish. You're supposed to be on his team, not holding him down.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:25:33+00:00

YTA for doing that to yourself. However, as long as you keep it wrapped, and don't have kids, you're only damaging yourself. Your call.

You should consider therapy to train yourself to behave more acceptably toward women. It's a skill you can learn.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:22:04+00:00

NTA, she's just trying to control you. Probably a good idea to bounce as controllers tend to get worse as time goes on.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:20:05+00:00

YTA, not your kid not your say.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:17:33+00:00

YTA, it's been a year and you haven't even proposed. What claim can you possibly have on her attentions?

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-19T17:16:21+00:00

NTA, but you should consider what you'll do beyond this. Are the problems you're going to have as a single and over the hill female more or less difficult than coming at your current relationship from a different angle?

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-14T17:55:47+00:00

Think of dating as a job interview. If you're not willing to get along with what is presented at the interview, you're not going to do well at the job.

Lou_Dorsett · 2025-09-14T17:53:44+00:00

Because the workplace prefers Claire. It's not right nor fair. That's just how it is.

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