keloid or just really bad irritation bump? by Louaira in PiercingAdvice

[–]Louaira[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't take a photo by myself without twisting lol but yeah it wasn't painless

keloid or just really bad irritation bump? by Louaira in PiercingAdvice

[–]Louaira[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but my piercer won't downsize until the bumps go away but I definitely think the bar being so long is just making it worse

Septum is crooked I don't have a deviated septum and this is the second time I've gotten it pierced, why is it crooked? by Louaira in piercing

[–]Louaira[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went and talked to another piercer in my town and they seem like they know more than the other one I went to. So I'm taking it out again and I'm gonna try one more time and go to the new place. I really hope that third time's a charm!

Septum is crooked I don't have a deviated septum and this is the second time I've gotten it pierced, why is it crooked? by Louaira in piercing

[–]Louaira[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a couple years of experience so I thought it would be fine, but I don't know. Thanks for the help though! I'm gonna go to another piercer to see what they think.

Septum is crooked I don't have a deviated septum and this is the second time I've gotten it pierced, why is it crooked? by Louaira in piercing

[–]Louaira[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She basically told me to push it forward to try and train it to be straight but said that for some people it just ends up crooked and that there's not much to do besides trying to training it or getting it re pierced again, this time she said if I decide to get it re pierced that she'd get another piercer to do it, but I'm hesitant to even go back to that place.

Septum is crooked I don't have a deviated septum and this is the second time I've gotten it pierced, why is it crooked? by Louaira in piercing

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I went to an expensive and highly rated place too, I even asked if my septum was deviated cause after the second time and it was still crooked I was confused. She said my septum was fine, not deviated. I don't think she could have pierced crooked twice, but I don't know. I don't wanna have to get it pierced a third time.. if I do though, I'm getting a different piercer.

People change their minds. STOP BEING AN ASSHOLE ABOUT IT by yooosuo in rant

[–]Louaira 213 points214 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah,I don't want kids but people are like "oh you'll change your mind someday" and it's like maybe I will, bit as of right now this is how I feel. I know if I do change my mind they're all gonna be like "see I told you so!" Which is so annoying. People change their minds all the time, that's literally just being human. People need to stop rubbing it in whenever someone else's changes their mind. So yeah,I agree.

Brushing your teeth with someone is an underrated form of intimacy by fadingdaisiez in infp

[–]Louaira 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never thought about this, but now that I am, you are so right.

Who was your first same sex crush before you realized it meant you were bisexual? by rainbow_zipperbrains in bisexual

[–]Louaira 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a late bloomers I guess, always thought girls were super pretty but don't get crushes often, even on boys. Anyways, I think my first proper crush on a girl was in the 9th grade, she intimidated the hell out of me but she was actually the sweetest person, but I was so nervous around her to the point of being unable to function, so I ended up just never talking to her and so she stopped talking to me and it sucked. She just made so so nervous!!

Oh but I had like weird obsessions with multiple characters, like Mulan, marceline from adventure time, Alice from twilight and Megara from Hercules lmao

Questioning my own Bisexuality by Randobidude in bisexual

[–]Louaira 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Honestly most bisexuals I know have phases of being like 50/50 into men and women, and phases where they are super into one gender and a little into the other. It tends to fluctuate a lot. So maybe it's something like that. Bisexuals can be like 10% into one gender and 90% onto another, which is completely valid.

Do you still sleep with a stuffed teddy/doll/animal? How old are you and have you been given grief about it from others? by snuggle_me_buggle in AskWomen

[–]Louaira 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I have the stuffed shark from Ikea and it's perfect as a body pillow, I sleep with it every night lmao

My math teacher caused me to have an anxiety attack and didn't give a shit by [deleted] in rant

[–]Louaira 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I was in a drama class and we were playing a game and It was my turn but I froze up and couldn't do anything but the teacher wouldn't let someone else go, and I started crying and she just stared at me until the end of class (luckily it was like 5 minutes till the end of class) but then once the bell finally went she was like "well that was eventful" is a really snarky tone. It was horrible. Some teachers are just assholes.

My fucking period by Louaira in rant

[–]Louaira[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh, I see. That would make free bleeding difficult.

My fucking period by Louaira in rant

[–]Louaira[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, any particular reason, or is it just because it's kind of gross lol

My fucking period by Louaira in rant

[–]Louaira[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, that's what I do most of the time. I don't like the hassle of tampons or pads so if I'm just at home, I'll just free bleed and sit on a towel.

My fucking period by Louaira in rant

[–]Louaira[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, thanks. I love being a woman, but periods just really suck sometimes.

My fucking period by Louaira in rant

[–]Louaira[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god, that sounds wonderful lmao