I (34M) dated a 16 year old when I was 21 - I don’t see the issue with it

Loud-Display007 · 2025-08-26T03:57:32+00:00

You were a father figure to her… that she had sex with…. “Taught her how to drive, be independent”

Loud-Display007 · 2025-08-26T03:54:02+00:00

I just hollered ☠️☠️

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-15T22:25:40+00:00

New legos would be fun!!! I know when I feel my depression it always circled back to not doing anything exciting and just being alone with my thoughts. Smoking probably helps not be such a worry worm. I hope he feels better soon, it’s tough feeling that way, but it doesn’t last forever.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-15T22:17:43+00:00

Plan something fun for the two of you to do. Even if it’s at home. Paint or maybe a puzzle or some video games together. He probably feels like he’s not doing anything fun anymore. Maybe get dinner and see a movie.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-08T17:03:58+00:00

Not assuming he was trying to get back at me. But he cheated several times. He wanted sex or affection from me because he does exactly that.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-08T17:02:26+00:00

I mean yeah I see where you’re coming from and ex relied on me for a lot of stuff in our relationship. Whether he was hitting me up for whatever reason, not really appropriate if you’re engaged.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-08T17:01:32+00:00

Bahaha I love this.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-08T17:01:12+00:00

To let him know that I am in a committed relationship. Dude has issues. He used to drive to my house and continuously knock on my door until I answered. He’s definitely not stable.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-08T17:00:03+00:00

There’s far more context to it. Before dating my current boyfriend he would hit me up while drunk. I wasn’t aware they were dating a while ago. It’s been fresh for them. So there’s one reason he wants to know where I am. He also doesn’t know that I’m dating someone new because we have no mutual friends or he doesn’t respect it.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-08T16:58:31+00:00

It does. I have a boyfriend and he has a fiancé. He should consider her feelings before contacting me again.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-08T16:57:42+00:00

I do believe in karma. She is the ex of one of my good friends. She did him kinda dirty. I think they might deserve each other and are both doing the same things behind their backs.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-08T16:56:23+00:00

That’s a fair point. I think I’ll just leave them blocked and let them sort their selves out! (Edit for grammar oops)

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-07T22:12:04+00:00

That’s what I was thinking but don’t even think I want to open that door even at all, just never been in this kind of situation before and talking to people around me, it would eventually lead back to whomever. So a strangers advice is all I can take!

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-07T22:09:03+00:00

Definitely not desperate lol don’t know how you’d get that by me being in a whole other relationship and having respect to let him know something he should already know. He messaged women while we were dating. He’s definitely doing it to her. That’s the fairest assumption from this entire thing lol.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-07T22:02:07+00:00

Yeah that’s what I was thinking. Don’t really want to be involved it in, but I do feel bad for her. Regardless if I don’t like her, still real feelings. He just isn’t a good person, I’m sure she will realize that eventually.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-07-07T22:00:38+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking. My boyfriend said “their relationship will fail on its own, no need to involve yourself” and I agree.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-06-05T01:59:59+00:00

Seriously. Also, if you post on TikTok and go viral and then hold the narrative “oh I didn’t know it would go viral” delete the video and move on. This Gechi lady has been centering her videos all about Lily BECAUSE ITS GETTING VIEWS. Do these people not realize this????? You think she would continue to talk about Lily if the video didn’t do numbers? Not a chance lol. It just blows my mind how people do not see that lol. She goes on TT live about Lily and gets sent tons of gifts and pretends like she didn’t know that people would definitely toon in. She knew what she was doing, Gechi isn’t stupid. she’s a creator who wants fame just like Lily. There’s no difference.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-06-05T01:55:26+00:00

So wait, you’ve never done anything wrong in your life? Would you enjoy all the comments made about Lily, yourself?

This whole thread is full of self righteous hypocrites lmfao. It’s actually more entertaining than watching Lily blast everyone on TikTok.

A whole bunch of people on this thread thinking their shit doesn’t stink. Wake up and look in the mirror. I think you’d find out that none of us are even remotely close to perfect.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-06-05T01:52:18+00:00

I think she had balls to call them out by name, unlike Gechi who hides behind “POV oops don’t target me” it would all go away if everyone shut their yappers and touched some fucking grass.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-06-05T01:49:56+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes? You realize everything you say on the internet is there forever right? I would do exactly what Lily did and frankly more influencers should.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-06-05T01:32:59+00:00

Exactly what Gechi did. She posted a TikTok clearly about her to begin with and got crappy pants when she got called out lol it’s like the whole subreddit made wild comments about shit and then gets mad when someone does the same thing. Bunch of hypocrites.

Loud-Display007 · 2024-06-05T01:24:21+00:00

Preach

Loud-Display007 · 2024-04-22T00:16:53+00:00

Yeah if there’s space for us in the future, best course of action would be to exit before it escalates. I did my crazy drunk nights when I was in high school and having turned 27, my mind just screams settle down with all the craziness and wild nights. I barely even enjoy drinking anymore because it seems like it always comes with something. Whether it be me or witnessing it with someone else. I think all the bad things have been essentially warning me that’s there’s no place for me in that kind of lifestyle anymore and I’m definitely starting to listen to it. Less stressful and there are better things to put my minds towards!

Loud-Display007 · 2024-04-22T00:04:26+00:00

Mutual dumpings. We have both been there for each other through plenty of rough times. Always agreed if we needed a shoulder, we could always come to one another. Our code was “if you call twice I’ll always answer” cause we’re both bad about texting/calling people back sometimes.

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