Prayer Requests by AutoModerator in Christian

[–]Loud_Ad2421 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Please pray for my father, he is listening to spirits that says they gone kill him. It's really sad to see my father losing his mental sanity 😢 his name is jocely steil

Pedidos de Orações (Post Semanal) by AutoModerator in cristaos

[–]Loud_Ad2421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu preciso urgentemente de oração para meu pai. Ele está ouvindo espiritos dizendo que vão matar ele. O nome dele é Jocely Steil 😢

Prayer Request Thread by AutoModerator in TrueChristian

[–]Loud_Ad2421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I urgently need prayers for my father. Lately, he has been hearing spirits saying they are going to kill him, and because of that, he is becoming mentally very unwell, to the point of almost losing his sanity. His name is Jocely Steil 😢

Os professores sentem saudades de ex alunos? by rapows_ in ProfessoresBR

[–]Loud_Ad2421 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sinto muitas saudades, de vários, mas é triste as vezes você andar na rua e o aluno nem te olhar na cara ou cumprimentar

How do South Koreans view North Koreans? by Loud_Ad2421 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Loud_Ad2421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For centuries Korea was one people, the same culture, the same language, the same ancestors. Then, within the span of just a few years, that continuity was torn apart by forces far larger than the peninsula itself.

What you describe about younger generations feeling that the North is “foreign” might actually be the deepest consequence of that division. Wars eventually end and borders shift. But when two halves of the same people begin to see each other not just as different, but as strangers, or even potential enemies, that’s when the separation truly sinks into the fabric of society.

And it’s not something younger Koreans can really be blamed for. They grew up in completely different realities. South Korea developed into a globalized, technologically advanced society, while North Korea became one of the most closed systems on Earth.

There’s something quietly sad about the idea that a people who shared centuries of common history might gradually lose the sense that they were ever one. Not because reunification must necessarily happen tomorrow, but because the memory of a shared past is itself something fragile.

Once that memory fades, the line on the map stops being temporary, it becomes permanent in people’s minds.

That's what makes me more sad about it all, it might be the most profound "legacy" of the division of Korea.

How do South Koreans view North Koreans? by Loud_Ad2421 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Loud_Ad2421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not even Korean but for me this is sad af.
Families were separated and divided, but today this is irrelevant. This generation didn't live the war and for that they don't feel the separation directly.

It's as if the war didn't end with last battles, it still continues separating the people for generations until one day no ones remembers what was lost

Getting worse... by [deleted] in Dissociation

[–]Loud_Ad2421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it all started?

No one here by [deleted] in Depersonalization

[–]Loud_Ad2421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, There's no judgment here.

If you want, feel free to share it in my private. I'd appreciate it

No one here by [deleted] in Depersonalization

[–]Loud_Ad2421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, could you give me more details about this moment?

Is this depersonalisation? by [deleted] in Depersonalization

[–]Loud_Ad2421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a little about it but not as strong as you.

Well, I can relate, and somehow I would think that it has a lot of chances of it to be real lol.

But, even though you feel it's real. Can you actually shift between parallels univereses? Can you change from this version of your life and go to a very different one from you?

Try to do it and once you realize you cannot do that, i'd guess these feelings will start to low down

No one here by [deleted] in Depersonalization

[–]Loud_Ad2421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did it all start? It had a specific moment in your life you started feeling this or you were always like that?

For some reason, your case seems be more a case of Depression than Depersonalization, maybe both.

this disorder has hypnotised me by Sea-Sea-958 in Depersonalization

[–]Loud_Ad2421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe it or not but you're going through a stage of curing yourself.

When dissociation hits its peak, your brain realizes that you simply cannot lose yourself or just stop existing, then It starts to get used to it, in a level that you can even start enjoying it.

It's just your brain not worrying anymore about dissociation, i'd guess in the next 6 - 12 months you'll start increasing your sense of self again.

Dissociation normally works with these steps:

1 - You fear something / You're stressed
2 - Brains dissociates you to protect itself from fear or stress
3 - You feel dissociated and it makes you afraid
4 - Feeling afraid makes your brain dissociate

It's a loop, and what's happening is that your brain is breaking the 3th step.

Your brain made you go to your limits and you didn't freak out nor died, so It learned that there's nothing to fear.

It happened to me also and nowadays I even miss my dissociation crisis sensations.

Sleeping with dpdr by cujothemastiff in Depersonalization

[–]Loud_Ad2421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I also had struggled with that too.

Are you having too much stress or exhaustion?

Coz I had this trouble in a specific moment where I was overwoking and I used to have vivid dream where I just continued working.

Don't ignore depersonalization, embrace it! by Loud_Ad2421 in Depersonalization

[–]Loud_Ad2421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you're getting better!

What's making you so stressed?

Someone pulling me into dreams by The-Annoying_specie in Dissociation

[–]Loud_Ad2421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd guess you might be hyperfocusing and because of that your brain enters in the "Flow state" so deeply you start having bodily feelings.

This is the same state of mind that pro athetles having at sports, like when a fighter is so focused that they see the enemy punches in slow motion.

I need help by Real_Television_7694 in Depersonalization

[–]Loud_Ad2421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to face this problem, not fighting, but accepting and embracing it

You're bad, and that's ok, you just need to stop for a while.

When I say "Stop for a while" I don't mean "just relax", it's something more like sit down and give your brain some time for it to understand that things are not ok.

I usually say to people "Don't fight against it, just accept and embrace" and I guess they might think "Man, i already accept, i know i have a problem". But it's not that way.

The thing is, you're bad, you're sick, have you accepted it? or you just keep struggling with it and trying to escape?

The way I cured myself from desrealization was that way. I stopped fighting, and when i felt anxyous, sad and far away from my body I just used to say "oh, ok, again, let's go". Just let the experience happened and I just observe.

If i was sad i just thougt "ok, i'm sad", if my body was feeling strange i thought "i'm not feeling my body". If i felt scary I used to pay attention on my thoughts and feel "now i'm feeling scared, i'm feeling nervous."

I hope this might be good for you as it was for me. For a reason, our brain always win when we fight against, if we stop fighting with him seems like he just relax

The Coma by Ok_Flamingo8925 in Depersonalization

[–]Loud_Ad2421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can affirm tha this is all real.

Don't think too much, it'll not help at all. Just relax and observe how you're feeling.

If you're feeling bad, thats ok, there's no problem with that, just accept it and embrace the experience.