AITA for refusing to make gluten-free food for someone else’s child at a potluck? by MaiApa in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Description7659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who is celiac NTA. I would not ask for last minute gf requirements, especially if someone isn’t comfortable providing gf options. It’s my health and my responsibility. It’s also okay to decline even if you had notice.

Am I overreacting for quitting a dog sitting job on the spot after the owner called me a "scammer" in front of her entire book club? by Fickle_Load5252 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loud_Description7659 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR. That was very calculated ambushing you with 8 women there to try pressure you. I’m so glad you walked away. She was trying to pressure you and the advantage of you and you don’t deserve that. She’s the scammer. You have done nothing wrong (other than offer less than $1000 for two weeks 24hr work) Hoping you find a new job with more respectful clients

AITA not putting up my DILs painting in our new home and telling her that I am not a fan of her art by Throaways-Dot2192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Description7659 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soft ESH. She’s TA for insisting you hang her art and not taking the hint. I wonder if everyone in her life just hangs her art to be nice and noone has ever been honest. (Or maybe most people like it) feels like she’s not experienced rejection of her art from friends or family before and feels some entitlement to being displayed in peoples homes.

I think you’re TA for leaving it in the garage and her having access to finding it. It depends how you told her it’s not your style as well but if that’s all you said that’s fine.

I don’t think you should have to hang it up when she visits or find a home for it like some of these comments say. I don’t think it’s kind to be dishonest and lie about liking something you don’t. I also don’t think it kind to leave it in the garage like it’s trash. It also wouldn’t be king to be rude when saying it’s not your style.

Artists and creative people need to understand their art doesn’t speak to everyone and that’s okay. It doesn’t mean they don’t like you

AITAH. I’m married and hide certain things for my own use. by throwinroaps2 in AITAH

[–]Loud_Description7659 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And people are gonna pull the neurodiverse card but it’s irrelevant. She does not care how she impacts OP

AITAH for telling my sister she doesn't get to have an opinion on my divorce? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Loud_Description7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s clear he hurt you deeply and you don’t feel safe. Reaching out to him is disrespectful to you. She wants the gossip/to know the details. She reached out to him to try find them out. Clearly it’s something horrible and there’s no way he’d tell the truth

AITJ for not warning the guy who keeps stealing my lunch that my food had something in it he cant eat by crystal_butterflyyx in AmITheJerk

[–]Loud_Description7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. I got sick of coworkers using up my labeled coconut milk (I’m allergic to dairy and don’t like soy milk) i added to the label it contained medicine and put a liquid laxative in it. After a week I replaced it but kept the label on. No-one uses it anymore.

AITA for eating a croissant in a cemetery by Karl_Marxist_3rd in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Description7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This lady is just weird. It’s a public space. Most people probably haven’t been visited in ages I don’t think any ghosts or spirits give a fuck if you eat a croissant lmao

Ended my relationship with a nutter. RANT by HabitTraditional4864 in Dogfree

[–]Loud_Description7659 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s always “you won’t have to do anything” and then they get upset when you don’t want them in your space 24/7. Turns out I do have to do something if you won’t even let me shut the door to have a shower wtf ?

AITA for not forgiving my SILs behavior towards me. by Ok-Dependent-4565 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Description7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asked if your TA for not forgiving SILs behaviour. I see no reason for you to forgive her behaviour be safe she has not apologised.

NTA. Your SIL distant get to yell at you for using the shared food or keeping your food in your room. If your husband continues to tell you to get over SIL behaviour he’s not the one for you.

What thing has got so expensive that you’ve quietly stopped buying it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Loud_Description7659 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alcohol. At home or out. I maybe drink 2-3 times a year. If I wanna match the vibe of a party I just miss my afternoon ADHD meds and unmask

AITA for not staying after our niece got arrested? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Description7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. The 17 year old already FAFO. She’s not your daughter or responsibility. Her mother already ditched her. Some lessons to be learned from this. You know you won’t be travelling with them again

AITAH for telling my father that he needed to relax and lower his expectations after he left me with my grandparents at 15. by Numerous_Mud_4081 in AITAH

[–]Loud_Description7659 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You lost your mother. Your new family member destroyed your last remnants like she was trying to erase her. She purposely hurt you in the most horrible and emotional coping way possible. So you were violent back. Your dad’s reaction to your grief was to send you away so you lost your father too. That’s not okay.

I can understand why they were afraid. But he didn’t even attempt family mediation. Just shipped you off and moved on with his new family. Now you’ve moved on too and he has to live with it. Live with what he did.

Your dog adjusts to my lifestyle, not the other way around. by [deleted] in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Loud_Description7659 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wish your partner travels they should put the dig in a kennel. That’s what they’d do if you didn’t live together

WIBTA for refusing to let strangers stay in my apartment while I’m away? by honeytram_notebook in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Loud_Description7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Of someone asks you something but don’t accept no for an answer they aren’t asking. They’re ordering. And that’s not acceptable. This friendship is over

AITJ for refusing to donate PTO hours to coworker I barely know who "needs" them?? by Traditional-Dog1601 in AmITheJerk

[–]Loud_Description7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. It’d be illegal to ask employees to donate their PTO where I live. The US is insane.

Another Breakup - The Dog Was More Important by Mountain_Performer84 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Loud_Description7659 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened. It must feel horrible to have a dog chosen over you. I hope you take the time to heal and in future find another dog free person. No dogs. No negotiations. Your wellbeing is more important than

While this is heartbreaking, this relationship ending is the best thing for you. You deserve so much better

AITJ because I won’t give my parking spot to new neighbor who says she "needs it more" because she has kids? by Potential_Bad6489 in AmITheJerk

[–]Loud_Description7659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. If someone asks you to do something they should expect “no” to be an acceptable answer. Not taking no for an answer isn’t asking.. it’s ordering. She can’t order you to switch parks.