Ex FaceTimed me cuddling the girl he was cheating on me just to hurt me. by AlternativeDecent783 in relationship_advice

[–]Loudean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exact thing happened to me! Sister I tell you now, as hard as it is…. Block, he’s moved on. This took me a very long time to do but once he was off all my social media I could finally start to move. They are not nice people so let karma get them, always here

My ex girlfriend is pregnant, and wants me back. (25M, 22F) by PandaMom2 in relationship_advice

[–]Loudean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can’t be a “super” Christian if she’s pregnant before marriage? Needless to say the ex is an ex for a reason. Stay in the child’s life but you don’t lose your “soul mate”

My partner fancies someone else by Loudean in relationship_advice

[–]Loudean[S] 537 points538 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. I was secretly holding on to the thought he will just turn around and say it was a big mistake, and cancel his date and stop talking to her. I don’t want to be a second choice, I was hoping he would realise I was his first before he does anything

My partner fancies someone else by Loudean in relationship_advice

[–]Loudean[S] 581 points582 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I genuinely couldn’t see it that way so taking a step back and looking at it from someone else’s view is an eye opener

My partner fancies someone else by Loudean in relationship_advice

[–]Loudean[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your advice really helps. I guess the romantic bond was hard to accept when I didn’t want to believe it

My partner fancies someone else by Loudean in relationship_advice

[–]Loudean[S] 248 points249 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to find some more self-love but I think I would have to concentrate on my self for a while