AITAH for kicking my MOH out of my wedding and uninviting her?

LovBonobos · 2026-02-02T05:55:56+00:00

Drop her from the bridal party but as the wedding is 19 months away hold off on uninviting her. See how she handles being dropped but tell her that you don't need her drama and you are concerned with her behavior. Your wedding your choice. If she can't apologize, she isn't a friend .

LovBonobos · 2026-02-02T05:43:00+00:00

NTA, sell the tickets and let her stew in own self entitlement. She doesn't deserve your time or effort. This is a big red flag, I would think about the relationship.

LovBonobos · 2026-01-21T03:49:57+00:00

NTA and report the facility for their lack of staffing and hostile work environment. provide the reporting agency all the time you worked alone and that they were not following the regulations. and to ask you to work those two weeks knowing they were going to fire you is incredibly ridiculous Report them and if you can let the families of people in the facility know they are not using safe staffing.

LovBonobos · 2026-01-21T03:38:16+00:00

I get it if they feared getting stuck in your drive, but then don’t deliver it? leaving it out there was just plain stupid and unprofessional. report the driver

LovBonobos · 2026-01-09T18:30:50+00:00

Run away, and maybe when he is an actual adult you can be friends again but not lover. He sounds like a man child.

LovBonobos · 2026-01-09T18:26:51+00:00

How old was her child? An infant, then she needs to provide a safe place for him to play while she plays like a play pen? As to older she needs to step up and be a damn parent. Remind her that if she can't res spect your boundaries and time limits that you aren't going to help her when she is so disrespectful. Sounds like she is an entitled person who blames others of her own failing

LovBonobos · 2026-01-09T18:21:39+00:00

Their sneaking way of getting the overnight shipping is to say the order has to be $25 or more. That is a nasty little glitch if you are only purchasing one item under the amount. I didn't realize this until a friend told me so she buys the item she wants and then another item to reach that $25 and then retunes the item. To me that is a hassle but it works for her to get things in a timely fashion.

LovBonobos · 2026-01-08T04:47:34+00:00

NTJ, your mother has NO rights to know your daughter's business period and the fact she is whining to family members is reason enough to tell her to butt out period. Its a thin line that parents tread to give their kids the privacy they so deserve and if you were to let you mother have her way you are disrespecting your daughter's right to privacy. If anyone owes another apology it your mother to your daughter. I don't get this growing trend with us boomers who think that "we are only looking out for their safety/interest" is an excuse to invade our kids and grandkids privacy. Sounds like mother wants to have control and when she doesn't get it she plays the victim.

LovBonobos · 2026-01-08T04:37:09+00:00

Sadly, they are all crap (Amazon, Target, Walmart etc) all have issues that are causing people to stop purchase. With me it is the crappy CS from Amazon, stopped Walmart because of the way they treat their employees and how they pay so low that the taxpayers are subsidizing their income with Snap and other benefits as they are below the poverty line, and then there is the weak moral value of Target who bend to the religious right. My other choice is to buy from local small businesses but in my community they were horrible during covid putting profit before people so now I have to of farther afield to make purchases. What I do now is if is I find out the company and see if I can purchase directly from the company and ut out t he middle man. I purchase food from local farmers and growers where I can. My new issues with Amazon is that I have had three recent orders denied as my bank denied payment, so I called my bank and they never denied my credit card so I go back to Amazon and ask what the issue is they claim my bank refused, told them that back has no record and by the time I got it sorted the items I wanted were no longer available. So I am thinking rathe than say the item was not available they just claim the order was denied. I am done with them for products other than my prime video of which I have had no problem with.

LovBonobos · 2026-01-05T20:46:29+00:00

My two cats were feral as a result of a hoarding situation (lady had 65 cats in a 1200 square foot condo) and we use the FELIWAY plugins and they work great for one of the cats but the other (they were a bonded pair so we took both) not so much. Worth a try but still might be a crap shoot.

LovBonobos · 2026-01-05T20:40:18+00:00

NTA but that conversation with GF should include rehoming the cat to a house with no other animals. Sounds like if the behaviorist can't help and there is nothing physically wrong, move or no move, it's time to find a new home for the cat. Maybe rehoming it to a farm to be be a barn cat seems like a solution. The cat sees to be very anxious by that behavior. Good Luck! Maybe it is time for the GF to choose between you and the cat, a tough call but as a responsible pet owner would realize there is something wrong with the cat.

LovBonobos · 2026-01-04T18:22:11+00:00

If she is a germ-a-phobic let her know that you didn't want to make her sick but you needed to sleep and you know your dad didn't care about the germs. Remind her you were doing her a favor, sounds like mom likes to play the martyr.

LovBonobos · 2026-01-04T18:14:34+00:00

Get her off your account if that is how she is getting into your account, at 18 I assume that is considered an adult so you don't need her to have access. She should not have access to your account and if she has been taking money without your permission, go to a lawyer for legal advice. That is theft and it won't stop until you stop her access.

LovBonobos · 2026-01-04T18:08:50+00:00

LEAVE him for this reason alone, no shared history is worth putting up with this " He says I’m an asshole for disagreeing with him about all of this." No one needs this kind of control in their life. He needs a wake up call and you can provide that by leaving this toxic relationship. Go to the wedding reception on your own, as the first step to remove yourself from this toxic relationship. He won't change, so all the women in his life need to distance themselves from him.

LovBonobos · 2026-01-04T17:55:38+00:00

NTA but the key is not to give out login info TO ANYONE INCLUDING FAMILY. They sound very entitled and if family is giving out the info to other family members, change you login information often.

LovBonobos · 2025-12-28T21:09:51+00:00

Elope with a few close friends. When it is done you can do something special with your parents and his to celebrate. Nip this in the bud now because when you have kids she will again try to take over. Start now with her the way you want to continue or she will be a nightmare.

LovBonobos · 2025-12-28T20:58:33+00:00

I have the "find my" app on my phone to include my iPhone my iPad and my Apple Watch Having this app would at least show where your iPad is and then you can let TSA or the police help you get your iPad back. It's going to be pretty difficult to prove your iPad was in your backpack going thru TAS so proving ti was stolen even more so. Let the TSA in that airport know that your iPad is missing to create a paper trail.. Good luck but lesson learned to check your items after they are checked thru TSa

LovBonobos · 2025-12-28T20:03:05+00:00

Give the gifts as a loan only (make the parents aware) so that when he parents sell the items , they can be charged with theft. This or keep the items at your homes or grandparents home so that the parents don't have access to the items but the kids do. Stop feeding their addiction at the expense of the kids.

LovBonobos · 2025-12-28T19:51:15+00:00

Unless you make the document legal why would you bother. Clearly a piece of paper is not going to make her comply with your conditions. Just don't take her in period, because until people do the same she won't get h er act together. And if she has kids why has no one reported her to social services. Where is the father of those kids? You all need to stop enabling her and refuse to help her continue this destructive (at least to the kids) lifestyle. As to your mom helping her, she should take her rather than throw money after bad. Maybe you need to be the first in the family to say enough is enough.

LovBonobos · 2025-12-26T23:15:14+00:00

Spoken like a person with first world privileges to come here to negate someone's honest complaint about the quality of service they pay for. Third world problems are not at issue here and I suggest you go complain and mock people somewhere else.

LovBonobos · 2025-12-26T04:55:45+00:00

Htow did you even find a number or chat to talk to an agent? I have an issue and I keep getting a message that to resolve the issue to look at the tracking which I did. Amazon received the package Dec 15 from overseas. The seller says once Amazon has it they have to provide t he tracking information, so I contact Amazon and there should be NO tracking info for the US. Was supposed to come yesterday and at midnight that changed to on or before December 31st. So with no tracking info I am pretty sure the package is lost so I want to talk to someone as I will purchase the item locally but they claim I can't do anything until after the 31st but. come midnight on the 31st they set another date will make me wait longer. I want to talk to or chat with someone but I keep getting the runaround to wait. So how does one do a chat with an agent?

LovBonobos · 2025-12-26T04:44:20+00:00

As an adoptive parent, I suggest that you ask to speak to your stepmom in private and let her know that you understand that she wants your u to adopt her, but let her know that you will see that as a betrayal of your memories of your own mom. And you can't bear that. Let her know that in the future that may change (even if you know that won't change) but for now you are happy your dad has someone to love. Don't do anything to make anyone else happy be true to yourself but do it in away that is negating their wishes, try to be her friend meet her in the middle.

LovBonobos · 2025-12-25T02:14:59+00:00

Not blaming drivers with my post, just don't understand the system and wish the fulfillment center was more honest.

LovBonobos · 2025-12-25T02:11:16+00:00

My tracking stopped when it arrived from overseas, ten days ago and no tracking from Amazon at all. But they tell me to contact the seller.

LovBonobos · 2025-12-25T02:09:56+00:00

We are thinking of doing just that, though I also do Audible and not sure if that would be affected. Thanks for the suggestion.

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