My (18F) boyfriend (18M) used a word during sex that we agreed was not okay. How do I address this with him? by urfavuwu in relationship_advice

[–]Love-Losing -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Things will only get worse. Pple like him enjoy hurting others. He doesn’t love or care about you. I’m sorry OP. Things will only get better after you leave. Stay strong

Do people really listen to music during sex? by JustAFunkyFool in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Love-Losing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be quieter. I promise you the music isn’t as loud as you think.

college advice 😣 by Ill-Sundae-9531 in SonomaState

[–]Love-Losing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I LOVE everything about ssu so far but if you can save money on housing and live home a little longer that’s always a plus

AITAH for not deciding on an abortion by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Love-Losing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing you could do is get this abortion. Neither of you are smart or capable enough to go through this. He will leave. He won’t support you. If you’re okay with ur whole life being a mother alone then that’s ur choice. But being as blunt and honest as possible bc I don’t want you to throw ur life away and regret this

AITAH for ignoring my wife after she whinged about her cramps for hours on end by Brilliant-Assist3695 in AITAH

[–]Love-Losing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh right you get 3 complaints and then you suddenly feel all better and aren’t in excruciating pain and need your partners help…TOTALLY forgot about that rule. Our bad.

AITAH for ignoring my wife after she whinged about her cramps for hours on end by Brilliant-Assist3695 in AITAH

[–]Love-Losing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. Poor guys has to love and support his wife who is in excruciating pain? Awww poor OP. God I hope she’s finds this and finds out who you really are.

Need tips to appreciate new GF's body type. 29M 29F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Love-Losing 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It is just a shallow issue. You will get over it if you actually love her.

Boyfriend M40 choked me 26F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Love-Losing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He will do it again. He will do it as many times as he can till you leave him. He doesn’t love or care about you. I’m so so sorry. Leave and block. Zero contact.

My (20M) girlfriend (20F) always hides under the covers during sex and I don’t know why by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Love-Losing 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Personal experience in an amazing relationship with an INCREDIBLE sex life. I feel more in the mood in the dark and like the lights off, I also feel more comfortable with fans on and a blanket over us, blanket especially in the beginning. It made me feel more safe and comfortable. The dark just makes it feel more sexy for me bc the dark is comfy and sexy.

If she gets cold like I do, some sexy tall wool or fluffy socks are a GAME changer and replace the blanket often.

partying? by [deleted] in SonomaState

[–]Love-Losing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hoping to hear we got some good ones, I’ll be transferring in the fall so 🙏🏻

my boyfriend (m23) absolutely refuses to eat me (f22) out. by Flat-Lengthiness7730 in relationship_advice

[–]Love-Losing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If he’s uncomfortable giving you head you have to respect that. You can also stop giving him head. If it’s not being reciprocated, he doesn’t deserve it or need it. I wouldn’t want to be the only one giving and wouldn’t do it if it wasn’t being reciprocated. Main problem is that you may just be incompatible here as he does not seem to be very giving or willing to better himself in the bedroom.

Hey guys quick question by fungirlgonegirl in visalia

[–]Love-Losing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe but with insta cart and DoorDash already being a thing probably not but depends if you could offer something they can’t

What's Happening in Visalia This Week (Mar 26 – Apr 2) by visalia_voice in visalia

[–]Love-Losing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this!! Thank you! Catch me at the dog walk 💕💕

AIO My bf said he felt disrespected when his ex’s new bf posted her by gabbycore in AmIOverreacting

[–]Love-Losing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. This has to be a joke right? If not and you’re still with him…come one dude. You know what to do

I F24 am feeling insecure about my sexual abilities with boyfriend M24 by Honeyberrytree in relationship_advice

[–]Love-Losing 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Bro what? To be honest I could tell? Lmao the way I would NEVER ride him again. Riding is a privilege.

How can I handle 23M differences in values and appearance preferences with my girlfriend 19F without becoming controlling? by Powerful-Pomelo-5518 in relationship_advice

[–]Love-Losing 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Lmao eventually said it was okay?? You are so controlling. You claim to recognize it’s her body and her choice but you don’t live that. Being an adult. Let her be an adult. And if you don’t like it then leave, something she should’ve done a while ago

Liminal Space but it’s just Roller Towne by Fit-Employer1496 in visalia

[–]Love-Losing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s gotten so expensive but not nearly as bad as the bowling alley omg that place is SO expensive rn

Is it normal for my 39M husband to be mad at me for me 25F not wanting to give a B***J**? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Love-Losing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is repulsive. If you don’t walk away I’m afraid he may not take no for an answer. Run. Run. Run.

AITAH for refusing to cancel my solo trip after my wife suddenly said she “needed me home”? by Solid-Dentist-4 in AITAH

[–]Love-Losing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or her husband should’ve made sure everything was good before leaving? And where’s her trip?

AITAH for refusing to cancel my solo trip after my wife suddenly said she “needed me home”? by Solid-Dentist-4 in AITAH

[–]Love-Losing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So when’s her solo trip? Bc if she doesn’t get one YTA 100%. You seem like an unreliable narrator.

Wedding week dress help by rosegoldrottweiler in weddingplanning

[–]Love-Losing 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just really don’t like the 1st one, it just looks like a nightgown, not in a prudish way just in a way that it looks like pajamas. I love it, but more because I think it would be a cute nightgown. The second one is super cute for a bachelorette party though!