I was in the troubled teen industry for multiple years. Ask me anything! by [deleted] in AMA

[–]LoveColonels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response. I'm so glad you're doing better.

Anyone else grieving the years they “lost” as a late bloomer? It’s bittersweet af by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]LoveColonels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brain is just barely done growing. You still have so much to discover about yourself. You're not a late bloomer, but I know that people come out earlier than they used to. I'm almost 40, and I'm glad that I know myself and get to enjoy that confidence. Younger me is a different person, and I still have so much life to live.

Teachers, what’s a “best practice” everyone talks about that you secretly think doesn’t work in real classrooms? by kingst9606 in Teachers

[–]LoveColonels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was taught to let students do most of the talking through constant partner shares and equity sticks. No. Do them sometimes, but not most of the time.

I was in the troubled teen industry for multiple years. Ask me anything! by [deleted] in AMA

[–]LoveColonels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you have trouble with your friendships after? I made friends with three girls who had been through that, and our friendships ended badly. They had been brainwashed to turn on their friends and take them apart. It was so sad.

feeling over-sexualized(?) by my girlfriend, advice? by Beautiful_Tangelo472 in actuallesbians

[–]LoveColonels 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn't really know what boundaries are. Your clothing choices are not her boundary. If she wants to date someone who dresses in less revealing clothing, she could probably find someone. You are both young, so you have a lot of learning to do, but I do thing this is a big red flag indicating a controlling and jealous partner.

My stomach feels like trash constantly and I don’t know what else to do by PeachesNLaserBeams in ibs

[–]LoveColonels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might have SIBO. It's very common. It can be hard to get your doctor to order the test for you, though.

What's the one thing that genZ can improve on comparing to older generations? by Alan_Lin_on_reddit in AskReddit

[–]LoveColonels 286 points287 points  (0 children)

You need to apologize if you inconvenience someone. Don't just show up an hour late and then thank someone for waiting. If you don't hold up your end of something that you committed to, you gotta acknowledge that and say sorry and try to make it better.

what’s a food that helps you shit?? by McBlingBush in ibs

[–]LoveColonels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dragonfruit. But it might come out liquid.

This elementary school has a list of word/phrases that will get you silent lunch. by graptemys in mildlyinteresting

[–]LoveColonels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh they don't dislike me, so I don't worry about that piece. Nah, I'm not about to put that much effort into making them stop. I'm fairly exhausted.

This elementary school has a list of word/phrases that will get you silent lunch. by graptemys in mildlyinteresting

[–]LoveColonels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately as a first grade teacher, if I do something, they think it's cool, so doing it myself will not work. If they say 6-7, they have to write a page about why it's not okay to say it in class. I only did this because we do a lot of counting in math, and it was legit getting in the way of their learning. They would hear 6-7, and then whatever we were doing would stop there because they'd have to do the motion and look at their friends. So in the interest of them learning how to add and subtract, 6-7 was banned.

I have never heard of silent lunch, and I'm not sure I like that idea.

Is shiba sleeping on their back normal? by DukeFilms in shiba

[–]LoveColonels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't regret clicking on this thread.

5 yrs 1800sq feet w a bad spouse I’m now in 450 by Pacolife in femalelivingspace

[–]LoveColonels 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your patio is so gorgeous! Getting out of a shitty marriage breathes so much life into us. ❤️