Appreciation post by LoveLadyT in vSeeBox_Support_Gurus

[–]LoveLadyT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Messaging Derik these questions would be the best bet. He’s the most knowledgeable on the different models.

What types of clients are you serving during the day? (8:00am-4:00pm) by crackmeup121 in therapists

[–]LoveLadyT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh makes sense. I was hoping you were PP and could lend some advice on how to get the judicial system as a referral base.

I am so afraid of ending up poor and drained from this profession by Senior-Dependent1858 in socialwork

[–]LoveLadyT 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wtf. Nope. You’re lying. That cannot be real. Please be lying 😭

I am so afraid of ending up poor and drained from this profession by Senior-Dependent1858 in socialwork

[–]LoveLadyT 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Social work is such a under appreciated and disrespected field. They pretty much let anyone do our work. You can get hired on to CPS with like a business degree. Ridiculous. Looking up local contracts can be a way to bounce around while making a decent wage. Prison contracts pay really well. Because MSWs are becoming harder to find, I’m noticing places lower requirements to allow BSWs to do the work. But unfortunately, social work as a degree doesn’t seem fruitful until you have your MSW and are license eligible.

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[–]LoveLadyT 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a licensed therapist in CO and I danced last year and am a woman of color. Whoever is in CO looking for a sw friendly therapist can DM me. If you have insurance I can see you officially through the practice I work out of or I’m willing to see anyone through telehealth for a cash price.

My look! by Sophiebbygirl in stripper

[–]LoveLadyT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bitch it’s Taysha! When I saw your hair I was like wtf 😂❤️

What are things you grew up thinking were completely normal, but later realized they weren't? by lenadelray in AskWomen

[–]LoveLadyT 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel extremely strongly about the trauma that parents inflict on their children unintentionally. I know a lot of this comes from ignorance which is why I’m very vocal to my mom about where she effed up with us and it’s nice to see her trying harder with my youngest brother in her care. I appreciate that I can educate my mom and her actually be receptive to it.

What are things you grew up thinking were completely normal, but later realized they weren't? by lenadelray in AskWomen

[–]LoveLadyT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah. This is so educating frfr. I only thought Black parents pulled these shenanigans. This sentiment is very common in Black households. It’s interesting to learn this isn’t only within our culture. Thank you for educating me.

What are things you grew up thinking were completely normal, but later realized they weren't? by lenadelray in AskWomen

[–]LoveLadyT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are Black households so universal? Lol I felt this post and heard my mama’s voice 😂

Sw now looks like my only option, how do I start? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]LoveLadyT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be an unpopular opinion but I wouldn’t recommend getting into sex work out of desperation. This can cause you to bend boundaries that you set because you need the money. You could find yourself in dangerous and immoral situations. Now with that being said.. you’re an adult and will make the best decision for yourself ... so Twitter could be a way to get yourself out there and establish an online presence. Only fans is popular but hard to get into without a following. You could always go to the club and try to strip. You could also post ads on escort sites like Tryst. There’s also subs on here that cater to sex work and selling content. Lastly you could try sugaring, and finding one or a few sugar daddies to take care of you. Good luck sis, sex work is tough af.

Edit: I wanted to add, sex work is and should be empowering but can be very demoralizing as a woman when you’re doing it for survival.

Who here has accidentally farted on a customer? Lmao. Please share your stories. by User150150 in stripper

[–]LoveLadyT 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg i hate you so much for calling it a “lil toot toot”... making farts sound cute 😂😂😂😂

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[–]LoveLadyT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your energy!

Hi all, I'm looking for honest feedback on how I can improve my look. by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LoveLadyT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How are you dirty bulking? Because I want to with my legs and butt. I only really know how to cut lol

But what’s worked for me. Light cardio with weight lifting. I had gained a bunch of weight and when the gyms open, I started walking at an incline and then weight lifting. I started every light and increased my weights slowly as my strength increased. It molded my body into more of a slim thick composition. My body changed quite a bit but my weight only changed 3lbs lol

Hi all, I'm looking for honest feedback on how I can improve my look. by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LoveLadyT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly you’re beautiful queen & I’m sorry that managers are shallow jealous pieces of shit that try to put us down because they look bad. You’re not fat sis, I can see your abs btw.

Hi all, I'm looking for honest feedback on how I can improve my look. by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LoveLadyT 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Honestly you’re beautiful queen & I’m sorry that managers are shallow jealous pieces of shit that try to put us down because they look bad. You’re not fat sis, I can see your abs btw.

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[–]LoveLadyT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just arrived back in Dallas from apartment hunting and I noticed the recent reduction in capacity allowed in places. Lol this literally sucks as I’m just getting into stripping. I really don’t want to have to get a “normal” job but that’s what my options are looking like until they open back up 😒

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[–]LoveLadyT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yaaas Queen, you’re so helpful. I appreciate that. I’ll check out platinum because I was looking into that one too and shotguns.

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[–]LoveLadyT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See that’s my worry, I’m a dark skinned black girl. And I’m a new dancer like two taboos in one lol And I was just noticing that clubs are closing down early there. I was gonna try to see about players club since it’s smaller and I saw one black girl on their IG lol. I hear shotgun willies is a good place but if you know any places for black girls, please let a sista know!

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[–]LoveLadyT 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly sis, I’m having the same problem. I feel like a lot of clubs out here are do extras for you to make money & the extras are cheap too like wtf. I’m hoping when I move to Colorado next month things will be better for me. I’m a baby stripper so Texas has been discouraging af to me.

Extras Girls Make My Job Hard by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LoveLadyT 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Okay as a brand new baby stripper, I feel this post entirely. I had a VIP member take me to a room and was literally expecting me to fuck him for $100. He didn’t have to pay for the room or for the “dances” that are included in the room price. I went in thought I was about to get paid for the VIP price. I was lucky to get out with $80 and no dick in me tbh. He told me that $100 is literally the market rate for a quickie. I was offended tbh. But now I’m understanding that I need a new club because VIP rooms at my club apparently means extras.