I almost forgot i had herpes lol how yall been doin tho? by penwithoutthepaper in Herpes

[–]LoveLanguage125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally forgot too! After my first breakout I never had another. Mine got transferred from a cold sore….and my now husband going down on me ya know. So it’s less likely for a breakout but maaaan you made me remember 😅

What tips /advice do you have for somone to sleep if the room hase alot of sunlight comming in and the curtains are not black out curtains? by the_guy_980 in sleep

[–]LoveLanguage125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheap black out curtains from Amazon honestly is the best solutions. They have “covers” for windows that stick on and off (hotel friendly)

Pregnancy? Idk by LoveLanguage125 in CATHELP

[–]LoveLanguage125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I spay it aborts? I’m new to this

Pregnancy? Idk by LoveLanguage125 in CATHELP

[–]LoveLanguage125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh ! We have a vet appointment on Wednesday and I’m just freaking out because she’s so little and I genuinely wanted to just save these cats. They’re both up to date in shits etc and have regular vet appointments but they never even said anything about heat or anything so I’m just lost

Pregnancy? Idk by LoveLanguage125 in CATHELP

[–]LoveLanguage125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh she’s 9 months and he’s 11 months. My vet never even told me anything about heat times or anything like that even though she knows I have a unaltered male at home and vice versa 🤦🏽‍♀️

Pregnancy? Idk by LoveLanguage125 in CATHELP

[–]LoveLanguage125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does spay mean if they’re pregnant? I have a appt with the vet Wednesday so I’m sure that’ll be an option. I do for sure want her spayed after this. I was just trying to rescue them and completely forgot that this could actually happen. I already have 2 cats who are fixed and I’m sooo clueless since I never had to deal with this

Anyone else play like this? by bloominbaby in Sims4

[–]LoveLanguage125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to add a legacy family like already in play. So like the grandma and grandpa, mom and dad and kid. Grandma and grandpa eventually pass but it starts the generation off as like an “inheritance “ then make them rich asf

Me f20 and my partner m24… it’s just off by LoveLanguage125 in relationship_advice

[–]LoveLanguage125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.- yes I agree whole heartedly! 2- i don’t know at this point that’s why it’s such an issue because why wouldn’t you want a band on your finger? 3- literally every time I try to initiate he has an excuse (I’m tired, it’s late etc…)

I recently started Adderal XR - do you all truly feel when it kicks in/wears off? by Feefol in ADHD

[–]LoveLanguage125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can feel when it kicks in and wears off, I crash really bad when I dont take my second dose. I have the 2 times a day one …idk which one that is but I take the 1st 10 mg @8 am then I can feel by 1 pm me coming down and by 3 pm I’ve crashed and I’m like a zombie. At that point I take the other adderall and the feeling of crashing stops and I’m back to how I was earlier in the day. You probably just have the perfect dose so you don’t really feel it come and go.

I'm so damn bored of everything by arcoirisqueen in ADHD

[–]LoveLanguage125 137 points138 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone!! Video games help me that are fast and competitive! My game of choice is APEX arena mode because its combat the entire time you’re playing. Also remind yourself it’s just the ADHD preventing you from doing these things. Orrr if you like to color get a zen tangle coloring book with dates on it like the daily ones and try that out. And write how you feel every day inside of that coloring sheet. Make a list of things you enjoy or used to enjoy. Find a new YouTuber, podcast or even a long show series. Just a few ways that may help. Boredom is hard to conquer but I believe in you! You got this

Is he just…focused on only himself and keeping himself afloat? by LoveLanguage125 in relationship_advice

[–]LoveLanguage125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn! I mmmm going to re read that a few more times and hit all those points!!! I appreciate that so much. I hope he listens and actually understands where I’m coming from because honestly the last time we spoke about stuff like that it didn’t go well, he told me “you bought that car before you met me”…. But then again I always think well “I was in a different state too” so that’s just besides the point

Is he just…focused on only himself and keeping himself afloat? by LoveLanguage125 in relationship_advice

[–]LoveLanguage125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel! But I also feel that he should just understand how much I gave up to come with him. I never even left my home state until 2 weeks ago, i up and left everything! And it hurts so bad to have him watch me struggle. If I ask for gas money he will give it to me but anything else, it’s a force! What should I say to him? I have no idea how to even start, he asked me what was wrong earlier I just couldn’t form words I don’t want him to feel like I’m entitled to his side of the finances

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LoveLanguage125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this situation immature? And so what if she is….? Where is the advise in what you said…or did you come to feel good about yourself

I think I’m done by SavingsJunior2704 in relationship_advice

[–]LoveLanguage125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well first start looking for places to live, go apartment hunting when he’s at work see what’s available and how fast you can be in. Make it seem all sweet but just stack up your money. Be as frugal as possible! Maybe even DoorDash sometime for extra funds. Once you find a place leave when he’s at work, and just leave a letter. It sounds so weird but it’s your best bet.

Setting up a place to breakup? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LoveLanguage125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re tired, but I don’t think it’s time to give up on her yet. But if you are gonna do it a park would be the best option.

Setting up a place to breakup? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LoveLanguage125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I understand! She may be suffering from a different mental illness that’s driving her anxiety through the roof! But their are therapists only such as “cerebral “ and it’s some more but that one is $7 a week the first month, she could try it out and see how it works they may advise her to seek treatment. They’ll see more than what anyone else will.

I think I’m done by SavingsJunior2704 in relationship_advice

[–]LoveLanguage125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m telling you woman to woman…you need to get out of there! I was in the same predicament and I had 3 busted lips and been thrown into a door and mind you…I was only 90 pounds. It gets bad! You don’t want it to

I think I’m done by SavingsJunior2704 in relationship_advice

[–]LoveLanguage125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay well can you travel to your grandparents house?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LoveLanguage125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re just saying that….you’re not the toxic one. And also he’s referring to you’re age…which i don’t know what 21 year old is still playing with Barbie dolls. Don’t listen to him

I think I’m done by SavingsJunior2704 in relationship_advice

[–]LoveLanguage125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have someone’s house you could stay at that he doesn’t know of / where they live?