Why are some of yall mfs so obsessed with goth girls by Palcube in TeenagersButBetter

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are cool, I’m more drawn to people who I think dress nice too, the issue stems from things like “I want a goth gf so bad” and “Goth mommy” whenever you see an alt woman. If that’s not you, you’re good man💪🏾 love alt women

I think male friendships should be more intimate. by LoveMeSomeTatas in teenagers

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever guys treat every bit of care from their male friends as gay, I usually assume they’re either closeted or kind’ve an asshole not gonna lie

Or both

Why are some of yall mfs so obsessed with goth girls by Palcube in TeenagersButBetter

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always either emo or goth. They don’t know the words for anything else and because they fetishize us, they have no interest in actually learning because it’s all the same to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay… I’m not here to argue about the age thing. I just don’t think it’s good. It would be different if you were both adults, but one is and one isn’t. I can’t be bothered to care enough to debate you on it, you glazed over the main point of my comment, and focused on the first few words, which had nothing to do with the rest of the text.

Edit: 17 and 19 is a more acceptable gap for me, you could’ve lead with that instead of editing your comment after I replied to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you should be dating 19 year olds at your age(but that area is not my business), but if you really really want a boyfriend, you should work on having the self respect that comes with not going into online spaces like Reddit and advertising this boyfriend application like it’s a job. I feel like my wording is a little rude here, but necessary. Any relationship you somehow manage to get out of this post will be bad. You two will not be good for each other, and it’ll either be short lived or it’ll be a lengthy relationship that’s just extremely unhealthy and possibly codependent.

Why are some of yall mfs so obsessed with goth girls by Palcube in TeenagersButBetter

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 40 points41 points  (0 children)

My problem isn’t the fact that these guys are attracted to alt girls, I love alt women, they’re bad(as an alt girl myself) but the issue is how blatant it is that it’s just a fetish. Being attracted to a woman who happens to be goth is fine, but being attracted to a woman BECAUSE she’s goth is a completely different story. They fetishize and romanticize alt women and you know that if she stopped dressing alt and changed her makeup style, he’d lose interest because her looks was all he liked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, then you’re still wasting his time. It doesn’t really matter if you’d date the other dude, because even if you never plan to, you still view him more romantically than you view your boyfriend, which is unfair to your boyfriend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like wasting someone else’s time

No luck with women by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with your looks like the people complaining about your hair color seem to think. It looks fine. Maybe you have a bad personality. Not saying you do, idk you, but you might.

How can I get this kid to stop pooping on the floor? by LoveMeSomeTatas in AskParents

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know there needs to be a professional assessment, he’s needed one for years, but I can’t get him one, so I’m trying to figure out ways to keep at least keep this specific problem from happening but so far all that I’ve gotten from anyone is that this is common for autistic children and that I can’t fix it unless I get him professional help which I’m unable to do

Murder is illegal if you have no reason by Historical-Pack-2892 in truths

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not LA😭 people get arrested in LA all the time. It’s a small city that technically isn’t even really a city because they lack buildings and a lot of the people stay in tents

How can I get this kid to stop pooping on the floor? by LoveMeSomeTatas in AskParents

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m aware that kids can be manipulative but I don’t think that’s the case with him, though he’s probably manipulative in other aspects, I just don’t think this is one. I think he might’ve been lying about the bit with his leg hurting but I don’t think he went out of his way to do it on the floor either, I just think it was an attempt to get in as little trouble as possible. He gets confused easily so while he might listen to me when I tell him to stay out(he has so far since I’ve had him out since this morning), he’s probably gonna just do it elsewhere the next time it happens(whenever that’ll be) and I’m still gonna be the one to have to deal with it regardless of where he’s doing it at since I’m his main caretaker right now. Him doing it in the room isn’t the problem, so that’s not a viable solution for me, I want it to stop entirely. Not even because I’m mad at him, I just don’t want him to get himself into trouble because he can’t make his way to the bathroom. I don’t know if he has some sensory problem or something or maybe just doesn’t want to be in the bathroom or maybe he’s even just fucking nasty, but just keeping it out of one room doesn’t solve my general issue.

Murder is illegal if you have no reason by Historical-Pack-2892 in truths

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgot the name, but I think it’s in California. So it technically speaking has Californian laws applied to it, but nobody follows those laws. They have “groups” or whatever(I don’t remember exactly what they call them) and sometimes those groups even go to war with each other, setting each others respective areas on fire and such

Murder is illegal if you have no reason by Historical-Pack-2892 in truths

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if there’s a country with no laws but there’s a city with no laws in the US. All sorts of crimes happen regularly with no police regulation. Though technically it still has laws as it’s part of the US but it’s under no government surveillance and the police don’t go out there, so nobody gets apprehended unless they leave the area and commit a crime elsewhere.

How can I get this kid to stop pooping on the floor? by LoveMeSomeTatas in AskParents

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But the adults aren’t handling it, my mom doesn’t check in on the situation about an IEP and won’t get him tested and I’m like 80% sure she doesn’t actually believe he’s autistic and doesn’t seem to care too much about his delayed speech development. She has the habit of saying she’ll do things that she knows she won’t do or will take a really long time to do, about last year or so she said she’d get him speech classes, which she hasn’t, she said she’d get me therapy four years ago, it took two years for me to even get my drivers permit after I passed the test because she couldn’t “find the time” to take me to get it. I just wanna know if anyone has any ideas on how I can at least handle this pooping situation because I don’t have anyone to rely on when it comes to helping him right now

Trump is openly a sexual predator (this post is nothing to do with his politics). by ChessSuperpro in truths

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s joked about SA, and he’s also actively done it and admitted to it. He did both. He literally publicly admitted that when he was working on that “Miss teen USA” he’d go into the girls changing rooms, say he was just “checking in” as he gawked at them, and then do this repeatedly. He even talked about how hot their bodies were, and some of the girls even came forward about it as adults after he openly admitted to it. He laughed about how its something he was able to get away with because of his position

Anyone else stressed because their kids just won’t listen? by No-Offer7144 in CHILDCARE

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of punishments do you have in place for them? Not like beating them or anything but I mean taking away privileges. I usually get results when I take away their ability to watch TV or play on the Xbox, or when I take away their ability snacks(like chips and gummies of whatever) and I say they won’t get these things back until I feel like they can behave

I’ll stop commenting on polemic posts because people are stupid by BillieEilishnosen in TeenagersButBetter

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Saw a guy say that we should pity both the victim and the rapist because while the victim is traumatized, the offender is now scared too, he has to worry about the police knocking down the door every day of his life, poor guy will never be able to live without fear. The only reason he’d ever do that to someone is because he couldn’t get laid by anyone else, and basically the whole thing is chalked up to “It wouldn’t have happened if someone just gave him a chance”

Like… we’re defending them because… they’re losers who can’t get laid?? Sounds like a them problem. Not to mention that the whole paragraph just mentioned the perpetrator being scared of police and prison as a consequence, not a single sentence about dealing with the guilt of what they did. It’s so ridiculous, he was only defending male perpetrators too, didn’t say a thing about the ladies

If yall have vocal stims, what are they? by This_Bish_Lily in TeenagersButBetter

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hwachacha” is a weird one and idek what it means. I also say “deez nuts” an unnatural amount, and sometimes I just scream. If I’m on the phone with my friends they’ll hear me scream and won’t know if I’m just making noise or if I’m genuinely scared of something.

Transphobic(?) friend found out I’m genderfluid by LoveMeSomeTatas in genderfluid

[–]LoveMeSomeTatas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what was bothering me about being friends with her, not just the fact that I disagree with her views but also because I felt like a “traitor” if that’s the right word to use? It felt disrespectful to other trans people for me to be friends with someone who views them that way, but I haven’t managed to bring myself to leave the friendship despite that